John (He, Him) Gen X father, husband and friend on a mental and physical health journey. HW 475, CW 2XX, 26 Half Marathons. Open minded, feminist, sex positive, super liberal. Pro LGBTQ, BLM, Body Acceptance - Anti trump.
Hi, I’m John, 53, Gen X, still showing up, still caffeinated, still standing. I’m a data & analytics manager at a company you’ve probably heard of, unapologetically liberal, and 90 percent SFW (but minors, please scroll on by).
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Minors, TERFs, racists, homophobes, transphobes, fat-phobes, misogynists, anti-vaxxers, MAGA cultists, conspiracy or crypto bros, anyone who thinks empathy is optional—get out.
I started this blog over a decade ago to track weight loss and mental health. Fourteen years later I’m still at it: more wisdom, better playlists, and a much healthier relationship with food.
My Morning Routine
Click below if you want a peek inside my beautifully messed-up mind.
Under the Cut (The Rest of the Story)
I study data science, rely on Wegovy, and focus on strength training, mobility, and making life easier for future John. Highest weight: 475 lbs. Current weight: somewhere in the 2-hundreds. Progress is steady and on purpose.
Day job: leading a team that turns messy data into clear stories other managers can act on.
I tinker with AI, not because it’s magic but because it is reshaping how we work and create. My angle: privacy, anti-bias, and decision-making.
Topics here: fitness, food, books, mental health, parenting, grad-school chaos, and whatever else is rattling around in my skull.
Dyslexic, probably mild misophonia, managing anxiety and depression with therapy and meds.
Sex-positive, pro-choice, pro-trans, pro-Black/Brown/Queer, pro-sex-worker. NSFW posts are rare but not impossible. 🤷♂️
I speak openly about suicide. I lost someone and still wrestle with it. Those posts carry #SOS and #suicide tags so you can engage—or skip—at will.
Curious? Links to my other blogs are below. This one is where I’m most myself.
My Other Blogs
My Geek Blog
My Chief's Blog
My most frequently used tags are listed below — filter, follow, or mute as you need.
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Went out to get pizza with the family. We ordered a large 1/2 cheese and 1/2 nature's choice. We got it without the almonds and let them know it was due to allergies.
It was super backed up and took about an hour to get it out to us due to the World Cup.
They finally brought it out and it was a personal pizza. So like 1 small slice each. 😂
So they offered to remake it and put a rush on it. 30 min later they came out saying it came out but this time it had almonds. 🥺
The good news is, they caught it and re re made it. 😂
They ended up giving us 2 full sized pizzas and a 20 % discount as an apology for the 2+ hour wait. So it all worked out in the end and the pizza is great.
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Spin the wheel again. That’s who’s trying to protect you.
(If you have zero idea about a name you got, spin until you see someone you recognize.)
Are you safe?
Absolutely not. I'm dead. 100% dead.
I might stay alive, but it'll be a really close thing.
I'll take some hits, for certain, but I should be okay in the end.
A few attacks might get through, but nothing concerning.
The attacker might be able to get in one lucky hit. If that.
I am the opposite of worried. I'm 100% safe.
…Look. I've tried picturing this. But I honestly don't know how to answer.
Remaining time: 2 days 14 hours
(I've run this poll twice before, expanding it significantly for the second run. With about a year passed since that second run, I thought it was time to add another couple hundred names to the list and have another go.)
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