they should invent a disproportionate emotional response that goes away when you understand it's disproportionate. they should invent a way to logic yourself out of emotions
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they should invent a disproportionate emotional response that goes away when you understand it's disproportionate. they should invent a way to logic yourself out of emotions

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Ok so lemme get this straight the boys get advertised their body weight in protein powder and girls are told to get by on uncooked foliage and Iβm supposed to believe that the observed differences in gender are strictly because of sex chromosomes with no cultural influence at all uh huh sure hey buddy what kind of idiot
when someone calls me their friend my heart skips a beat itβs like i won at being myself
Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.
what book is this?
This is from βWhy Does He DO Thatβ by Lundy Bancroft.
Iβm so glad Iβm seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.
Hereβs a link to a pdf copy. If you havenβt read this book yet, read this book.
Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?
That is how we stop abuse.
We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.
Arm yrself with knowledge!
Changed my life, would reccomend.
Reblogging for the PDF link.
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Always reblogging because this isnβt just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etcβ¦
http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdf
new link (the old one is broken)
Pretty sure Iβve reblogged this like eight times, donβt care.
βAlways reblogging because this isnβt just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etcβ¦β
Heads up guys. It moved again. https://www.pdf-archive.com/2015/10/21/why-does-he-do-that/ But if it breaks just use the sites custom search. :3 Thatβs how I found it.
Always reblog.
Do it scared but please don't do it hungry. Please don't do it dehydrated. It's gonna make it so much scarier. Please.

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i know it's been said on here and said again but people do so desperately need to genuinely do intentional work to build distress tolerance and start figuring out how to recognize the differences between danger, discomfort, and when a situation that is merely uncomfortable is triggering an emotional flashback in your bodies because it resembles a past situation that actually was dangerous which makes it difficult to realize/believe that this moment is merely uncomfortable.
i spoke to an allistic person who said their autistic classmate had a meltdown in class, during which the autistic classmate collapsed to the floor in the middle of the room, screaming and crying. they said it was "terrifying" and they were arguing for the autistic student to be removed permanently from the program.
when i asked whether their autistic classmate's meltdown was dangerous or merely uncomfortable, they said, "i felt like i was in danger!"
i understand that. but that's not what i asked.
"i shouldn't have to experience that."
yes you should, actually. that's life. upsetting things happen. no one should have to experience any discomfort. but we do. we get stung by bees and sunburns and headaches. we live in bodies in the world.
autistic people are human beings who have the right to exist in society, including during meltdowns. having one class of your entire semester interrupted by a singular meltdown is not anymore of an infringement upon your entitlement to education than having your class interrupted by a fire alarm or cancelled for a snow storm.
one of my peers once experienced a cardiac event 10 minutes into class. it was terrifying. it was desperately upsetting. i was contacted by the school and offered counseling because i happened to be the one who managed the situation until paramedics arrived. everyone was worried about my classmate first and foremost, and then about me. no one blamed anyone, and certainly when my classmate happily recovered and returned to school, no one thought they should be removed from the program.
the difference being that people believe a disabled personal, especially with cognitive disabilities, in crisis are not experiencing something outside of our control, but instead that we are in fact making a choice to make a scene, out of malice.
The issue of trans women being sent to men's prisons isn't brought up as being a monstrous thing because of the misgendering, it's monstrous because we're sent there to be legally sex trafficked.
That's what V-coding is. That is why they are so adamant about sending trans women to men's prisons, because sex trafficking trans women within the men's prison system is an essential part of that system. Being misgendered by this isn't even an issue that's on our radar!
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Until death, all defeat is psychological.

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If you say that you wanna see estrogen sold in vending machines then everyone assumes that's a joke and would have like major societal implications and cause all kinds of problems etc if it were allowed, but in a bunch of countries you can legit just like buy estrogen at regular normal pharmacies without a prescription or anything and it's fine. It's no big deal. It isn't even newsworthy.
jerking off is gay because youβre the same gender as yourself
idc if you have roaches or black mold iβll still come over and watch tv with you
got a major pest problem this year actually
The Watermelon Woman (1996) dir. Cheryl Dunye
Hey this movie is really important in queer history! It was the first feature length film directed by a black lesbian! You can watch it here for free!
I really recommend you do because while it is a rom-com (and a drama), it also looks at how the stories of black queers are over looked in history.

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Question cause I'm curious--note in this question, parents and guardians are referred to as PCG (primary care givers) in order to include those not raised by parents. (If you were raised by someone other than your primary care giver for a time and you went no contact with that person, answer these questions as they relate to that person)
What is your current contact status with your PCG?
I have gone no contact for a few days or less
I have gone no contact for a few to several months
I have gone no contact for between 1-2 years
I have gone no contact for between 2-5 years
I have gone no contact for between 5-10 years
I have gone no contact for 10+ years
My PCG was insistent in an unavoidable way, so I broke no contact
My PGC's/someone connected health deteriorated, so I broke no contact
My PCG changed ways and reached out to make amends, so I broke no contact
I had no choice due to finances/shelter/ect. and had to break no contact
I have never gone no contact with my PCG
Situation not listed/multiple circumstances/other nuance
For the purposes of this poll, I won't tag no contact or anything related because I, in part, am curious about how many people genuinely have gone no contact in a greater population. Obv there will be some skewed results due to a lot of mentally ill queer people being on tumblr lol but I watched a video essay that mentioned at some point that there aren't good metrics for people going no contact with their PCGs and it got me curious.
whose dumb ass idiot fuck idea was it to make medicine cost money
go to triple hell