Don't Write What You Know, Write Genuinely
               One of the most common pieces of writing advice other than âshow donât tellâ is âwrite what you knowâ. Itâs said so much that I think itâs lost a lot of meaning, and people tend to only focus on the literal meaning of âwrite about things that you know aboutâ, which would completely erase fantasy, sci-fi, or just about any slightly fantastical fiction.
               So rather, you should think of it as âwrite genuinelyâ. Connect with yourself to connect with your readers, create emotional ties to your work, write with empathy, write what you know.
               Thereâs three things we can do to help connect us with concepts/places/experiences we donât know, thatâll allow you to basically write whatever you want. Hereâs what I do:            Â
Anything you can learn about what youâre writing about can come in handy. I tend to avoid scholarly articles or Wikipedia when researching because I find having a list of facts doesnât help as much as having a library of experiences. If Iâm writing about California but have never been there, I could learn that rain is pretty uncommon and temperature averages however much during the summer, or I could read about someone talking about their childhood summers in heavy heat and icecream that melts faster than they can eat it.
               Essentially, unless youâre writing something with the intention of educating othersâdonât worry as much about the facts, look for more about the feelings. Blogs, vlogs, personal journal entries, and other pieces of fiction is where itâs at.
This is a method I learned in directing (created by Lee Strasberg) thatâs a little controversial when using it with actors, but since weâre using it for ourselves itâs fine. Essentially, if actors are attempting a scene about a situation theyâve never been in before (Iâll use the example of moving out for the first time) the director will ask them to recall a situation with similar emotion even if the situation was different.
               So in our example, if you havenât moved out yet but are writing a scene where your character is leaving home for the first time, you might be able to emotionally connect to that scene through recalling the emotions you went through the first time you went to sleep-over camp. Or the time your parents left you alone for the weekend for the first time. Anything with the similar emotions you imagine the situation would bring up (fear, anxiety, but a sense of freedom, excitement, unsureness).
               The reason why this is a bit of a controversial technique in directing is because asking actors to recall or share painful memories to get into a scene can be very upsetting or uncomfortable for them, so if youâre a director, be cautious with this!
Of course, this all comes back to what we talked about a couple weeks ago. Experiencing to know more. The more you know, the better you can write genuinely about itâso go out and gather some unique experiences!
               Good luck!