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How's you've been doing?? I hope you're doing well. I want to ask if you don't mind. So, I have a request on AO3 on my fanfic (the oneshot ver where I let my readers to say the ideas they had.) Now, the thing is, I'm replying to them that I'm busy on irl and I have another request (+ other fanfic idea) that I'm planning to wrote. They said its fine but also said "dont take too long" which makes me hesitated. I want to know your opinion if what I'm feeling hesitated is really something normal and what should I do with it?? Anyways, thank you ^^
hi, anon, I'm doing great and I hope you are too!
as for your question, if I'm being honest, the "don't take too long" part from the commenter is rude and entitled. like. genuinely rude and entitled, especially if they're a stranger. (I can sort of see two close friends joke with each other like this â even though it's not something I'd personally say to my friends, not even as a joke â but if it's from a stranger? no. just no.)
there's a difference between being excited and being rude.
unless they're paying you for your service, they don't get to say "don't take to long" to you. because you are doing something for them FOR FREE. something that is your hobby. (and the thing about a hobby is that we do it for ourselves, not for someone else.) you are being kind by offering to do something FOR FREE. and for someone to respond to the kindness you give them with "don't take too long" is discouraging, rude and extremely entitling.
I would block this person if I were you. and I'd definitely no longer be writing whatever they asked me to write.
and also a message to people in general who come across this post, be respectful to fanfic writers and fan artists who are kind enough to share what they create with you FOR FREE. you are privileged enough to get to consume their contents FOR FREE. what fanfic writers and fan artists do is their hobbies, something they do in their free time, something they do as their source of comfort. they're only kind enough to allow you to consume their works for free. you do NOT get to demand anything from them. you do NOT get to be entitled or rude toward them.
Whatâs the first thing that introduced you to non-con? Was it an easy introduction or was it straight into the deep end? Iâve been wanting to start reading fics with it in it so Iâm just wondering!
I donât think thereâs anything that introduced me to non-con. because itâs a fantasy that Iâve always had since I was literally younger than 10 and didnât even know what sex was, let alone rape. like. I kind of just started fantasizing about it on my own without knowing what it was / without any external factors that introduced me to it. I wasnât even exposed to any non-con material back then. obviously even when I didnât know what it was, I already knew it was bad in real life. I was never ashamed of myself for enjoying it though, because even when I was a kid, I could already separate fiction from reality.
but yeah I liked the fantasy first, without having seen or been exposed to any non-con material. and then I later consume (fictional) non-con material.
the fic you write doesnât have to be a masterpiece, it just has to be the story you want to explore for yourself and your own enjoyment
my goal in life is to be 80 and still writing yaoi fanfiction

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Have you ever noticed how straight woman tend to romanticize yaoi, and completely ignore yuri? Yuri is literally so underrepresented in fandoms and as a lesbian it kills me.
Also the obsession straight woman have with gay men is lowkey weird, reminds me of straight men wanting to 'turn lesbiand straight.'
then YOU write more yuri. I never say âyuri is badâ. all I say is that I enjoy yaoi, and therefore I read, write and talk about yaoi on my own blog.
if you like yuri, then YOU read, write and talk about yuri. nobody is stopping you.
I am a cis woman, and I am obsessed with my mlm ship â because thatâs my passion and my source of comfort. I write because I love my mlm ship, and because these fictional men make me happy (and no, I donât want them straight, I want them gay and in love with each other). I am not going to apologize for doing whatever makes ME happy for myself and my own enjoyment. I am not here for a strangerâs approval. sorry if you find it weird I guess? I literally donât know who you are, and a strangerâs opinion is not something I care about. especially when they come into MY house and start telling me what I should or should not do and enjoy.
Iâll continue reading, writing, enjoying and talking about yoai. and you canât stop me.
again, fanfiction is not an act of activism. do whatever makes you happy, whatever turns you on, instead of trying to shame others for enjoying the thing they enjoy instead of the thing you enjoy.
The submission here is such a dishonest take.
Writing two men being attracted to each other is NOT the same as "wanting to turn lesbians straight". An equivalent of that would be women trying to "turn gay men straight". Which is literally the opposite of what's happening in yaoi ships.
The mental gymnastics in this makes me wonder if OP just wanted an excuse to bash straight women for... not providing free content that YOU specifically want to consume? These people don't owe you anything, Anon. This just reeks of entitlement.
If you think about it for just a second, it makes a great deal of sense why straight women would be attracted to romance stories between gay men. I suggest you try that, Anon, instead of twisting facts to fit your narrative.
The irony of coming into a blog that fiercely advocates against antis - people that shame other people for what they like in fiction - and then proceeding to shame and name-call other people for what they like in fiction - would be funny, if it weren't so sad.
this and also another anon said it better than I could
Have you ever noticed how straight woman tend to romanticize yaoi, and completely ignore yuri? Yuri is literally so underrepresented in fandoms and as a lesbian it kills me.
Also the obsession straight woman have with gay men is lowkey weird, reminds me of straight men wanting to 'turn lesbiand straight.'
then YOU write more yuri. I never say âyuri is badâ. all I say is that I enjoy yaoi, and therefore I read, write and talk about yaoi on my own blog.
if you like yuri, then YOU read, write and talk about yuri. nobody is stopping you.
I am a cis woman, and I am obsessed with my mlm ship â because thatâs my passion and my source of comfort. I write because I love my mlm ship, and because these fictional men make me happy (and no, I donât want them straight, I want them gay and in love with each other). I am not going to apologize for doing whatever makes ME happy for myself and my own enjoyment. I am not here for a strangerâs approval. sorry if you find it weird I guess? I literally donât know who you are, and a strangerâs opinion is not something I care about. especially when they come into MY house and start telling me what I should or should not do and enjoy.
Iâll continue reading, writing, enjoying and talking about yoai. and you canât stop me.
again, fanfiction is not an act of activism. do whatever makes you happy, whatever turns you on, instead of trying to shame others for enjoying the thing they enjoy instead of the thing you enjoy.
I love writing non-con fics so much. I love torturing my blorbo đĽš
first in my bloodline to read and write gay fanfiction
i'm sure you get lots of asks but i'm new to the fanfic/tumblr fandom scene. when you say horrific topics like incest and noncon should exist, do you mean they should exist because it happens irl but it shouldn't be romanticized? because if so i agree. i think we should experience reading and/or writing such things. movies and shows have portrayed such acts for years. but i think the problem lies through the fetishization and romanticization of it.
no. I mean romanticize whatever you want. my stance has always been âwrite whatever you want, however you want.â
not to mention that you canât always tell if something romanticizes bad things. two people can read the same fic, one can say âthis romanticizes non-conâ, the other can say, âno, this doesnât romanticize anything.â itâs all about each personâs interpretation. itâs all subjective.
that said, if someone wants to romanticize bad things in fiction, then go ahead. itâs their rights and their freedom to create whatever they want, however they want. no censorship means nothing is censored, doesnât matter how it was written/created.
and if these taboo fantasies are someoneâs fetish, then as long as theyâre not harming anyone in real life, what turns them on is literally none of your business.
incest and cnc kinks have always been one of the most popular kinks, and most people who are into them can separate fiction from reality.
(and if some of them canât, their inability to separate fiction, kinks and fantasies from reality is not other peopleâs problem or responsibility.)
fanfiction is not an act of activism. someoneâs kink and what they do in bed with their consenting partner is not an act of activism. kill the moral cop in your head. fanfiction and kinks donât have to be âmorally correctâ. it can be whatever turns a person on, however turns a person on, and as long as no one in real life is harmed, what they do and how they do it is no oneâs business.
you donât have to be comfortable with it. you donât have to like it. you donât have to understand it. you just have to mind your own business and not shame or harass others over fiction and fantasies. because otherwise itâll just make you a bully who wants to find a âmorally correctâ excuse to shame and harass innocent people.

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being a writer is fun
to be clear, I believe younger artists and minors can write good fics (not to say âfanfic must always be goodâ either because it is a hobby and I still believe that as long as itâs done with love and the artistâs joy, it is good) and I believe itâs good when younger artists and minors start making art at young ages.
that said, a lot of fanfics out there that you read and love are done by adults with kids, jobs and responsibilities. adults who have years, decades of practice under their belts. adults who donât let life and responsibilities take away their joy in creating.
someoneâs love and passion donât suddenly go away the second they reach a certain age. so if anything, I feel sorry for people who say âadults shouldnât write fanfics or make fan artâ because what these people really say is that they expect themselves to stop having fun and finding comfort in things that bring them joy and comfort the second they reach a certain age. itâs sad that they put an expiration date on their own fun and source of comfort.
THE ONLY SHIP THAT IS BAD IS CENSORSHIP

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the thing about ai witch hunt is that instead of spreading awareness about why and how ai can be harmful, people focus their energy on harassing other people instead. so instead of actually achieving something, fandom space and the internet as a whole just became twice as toxic because people have found a â¨noble way⨠to tell other people to off themselves and get praises for it. youâre not helping. youâre part of the problem
See the thing about the whole Claude AI exposing document thing is that as great as it sounds in theory, I can see how this leads to even more harassment and witch hunts in practice.
People have said the tag is unique to Claude only and therefore thereâs no way a human-made fic could have gotten wrongly flagged as AI. But how accurate and trustworthy worthy this is, really? Even IF, hypothetically, this method is proved correct 99 times out of 100, that still means âthere is 1 time out of 100 times where a human-made fic is wrongly flagged as AI due to an errorâ. And that to me nullified the credibility of the whole doc. Like, sorry for not trusting another newly-introduced machine and for being skeptical about it.
âBut how could the tag get there if the author didnât use AI?â Besides the possibility of an error, I can already see people weaponize this method by faking screenshots of fics that are about the ships or topics that they hate to make it look like these fics have Claude tag in them, and then spreading those fake screenshots around. And the worst part is that authors cannot prove their innocence because people would just say âthey got caught so now they removed the Claude tag from their ficsâ.
Like. I hate AI, but I hate witch hunts, accusations and harassments more.
These comments below sum it up really well.
It's very telling that people will argue to hell and back against any and all possible flaws of this thing because this AI detector is 100% totally infallible this time trust me bro, but every single "flaw" in a fic that has been sern in AI texts MUST mean the writer was 100% totally using AI to write this trust me bro.
Almost like the people who claim they want to avoid actually want the opposite. They spend so much time and effort to try to detect AI that they could be spending reading because... idk actually. Maybe it's another weird purity thing where you're eternally tainted by seeing something "bad." Maybe they're addicted to the rush of feeling morally superior for five seconds on the internet and have discovered a new way to fill that hole.
It's so painfully clear that they want to find as much AI as possible for some reason. These are not people engaging with fandom for fun, they're here to destroy.
And if you, dear reader, engage in this behavior and for some reason genuinely believe you're doing a good thing, take a step back and take a good hard look at why you're more preoccupied with detecting perceived AI to the point of driving the actual real creators you claim you want to protect out of fandom, instead of investing all that effort into supporting those creators.