Hey, person who identifies as non-binary here! I just want to say that not only are you wrong about that, but you are also stupid. And you're ugly, just like your mom.

But let me explain why you are wrong.

It is utterly ridiculous to say that using she/her on a character that doesn't use those pronouns is the same thing as erasing enby representation. There is a huge difference between a simple headcanon/theory people have about a character being trans and erasing the rare representation enby people get.

Kris gets treated like shit by people who won't respect their pronouns and who come up with so many ridiculous reasons to not respect their identity. I know Kris is just a fictional character, but them only being referred to with "they/them" is pretty important to enby people due to the rare representation Kris is giving them.

But for some reason, I'm not having doubts that the same people who disapprove of the transfem Ralsei theory are the same people who will come up with all sorts of excuses to misgender Kris. They are acting like you have taken the only cisgender male representation you are taking from them, and they are going to starve.

THEY ARENT REAL!!! LET ME MAKE NAMI PIECE FAT!!! LET ME MAKE FUYUHIKO A TRANSMASC LESBIAN!!! LET ME DRAW EJ WI5H DARK SKIN!!! NO IT ISNT AN AU BCS IT DOESNT MATTER TO THEIR LORE!!!!!!! IT'D BE AN AU IF IT MATTERED TO THEIR LORE!!! BUT IT DOES NOOOOOTTTTT!!!! IT'S A HEADCANNONNN!!!!

“Dick is literally his son”

Even if I accept that definition of “literally” (John and Mary Grayson might want a word), the Joker is literally (actually literally) the murderer of Bruce’s son. And yet, nobody is crying about BatJokes.

-All ships are good ships.

-One ship is not better than another just because it's supported by canon.

-Your ship is equally as good as someone else's ship.

-Their ship is equally as good as your ship.

-Crack ships are valid ships.

-Canon x oc ships are valid ships.

-Claiming you ship is superior for xyz reason goes against the Ye Olde Fandom Rules of 'Ship and let ship' and you are ruining the fun vibes.

At the end of the day, we're all just trying to have fun with our fictional blorbos. Let us have some joy in this fucking shit show of a world we live in.

It seems a lot of fandom people nowadays treat all toxic mf ships as though they're Bella/Edward in Twilight or just generally like shipping them is endorsing or downplaying the behavior. Or that the girl in the relationship has to be some wilting victim with no agency, rather than an active part of the toxicity. (Though I do still enjoy some ships where one character is primarily a victim because it's still an interesting dynamic to explore!)

I think it's partially because some of these sorts do, to some extent, downplay the toxicity in mm and especially, ime, ff relationships.

And also because they are biphobia and/or forget bi people exist and use "hetslop" to mean any and every mf relationship, particularly ones they don't like.

I've gotten incredibly tired of seeing great fanmade silmarillion videos or art or whatever, only for half the comments to be "oh thank god this is so much better than trop" "needed this after that awful show". First of all. These are completely different forms of media, they are not actually comparable like that. Second, if you hate trop so much, why do you keep bringing it up? Why can't you find something else to compliment the artist on, rather than "this is better than this thing I personally think is terrible"?

Their obsession with hating this show is so weird to me.

Like also, I cannot tell you how often my pinterest comments (where I started posting my trop memes) are full of people saying they hate this show. So you were obviously not my target audience? You didn't have to click on the pin. You can block me if you're that annoyed by my posts. Why do you have to come into this fandom space that is clearly for people who like trop and tell us how much you hate it? Genuinely, can't you just shut up? Or at least go make your own post and leave us alone?