Hello there ๐
You can call me A.
34, She/her, cis(nโt?) stone/high OFOS femme lesbian, white, chronically ill/disabled, fat. Lucky enough to have one of those rare, taller butches over 5โ4โ.
TERFs/RadFems/GCs/Gender Crits, SWERFs, racism, antisemitism, zionists, anti blackness, homophobia, lesbophobia, and general non terf related transphobia are not welcome here, and minors/ageless and pro-ED/ANA blogs will always catch a block. If you make it hard to find explicitly trans (especially trans women and trans lesbians) supportive posts on your blog youโre going to get blocked.
This blog welcomes trans women and non lesbian sapphics, however I firmly believe being a lesbian means not being attracted to men.
(Please respect DNIs on posts)
Also if I see shit making fun of or questioning stone identities or butches/studs/masc sapphics on your blog, you will get blocked. I have zero time for people who canโt be respectful of boundaries, sexual or otherwise.
Iโve been here on this blog for over a decade on the same handle. Itโs not explicitly a theme blog of any sort, and there will be nsft stuff here. I personally donโt follow back if youโre under 23 but I donโt mind if you follow me as long as youโre over 18.
I have some of my major tags below. I tag kind of inconsistently- sorry!
#Femme posting for femme identity/femme thoughts. My post about what having longer nails as a femme means to me is tagged here.
#Not femme posting is the stray things I have longer thoughts about but arenโt related to being femme. Right now I am several Big Sads โข๏ธ and so you might find some stuff on grief and loss there too.
#my face is what it says on the label!
I have a weird and niche job! Sometimes I post about it under #death work and #death work adjacent. If you have questions you can ask- Iโll likely answer as long as itโs not too revealing.
Mutuals are super welcome to send me a DM. Iโm kind of shy but Iโm pretty friendly.
Anons are welcome and my ask box is open. Be nice and behave yourself and weโll have a great time.














