♡ about me: latina + jewish nonbinary high femme dyke who loves pink
♡ messages: messages are open! i love making friends, but i'm only romantically interested in my handsome butch.
♡ DNI: men, minors (this blog is 18+ so please have your age in your bio/pinned), terfs, swerfs, thinspo/ed blogs, ddlg/ageplay
♡ other blogs: @lovergirlfemme (main) + @kissesfemme (nsfw)
♡ we love and respect all butches and studs (especially trans butches and studs)!! any butch/stud fetishization in the notes of my posts will earn you a block <3
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cis people loooooove to try and forcefully define transphobia as only explicit vitriolic hate because it means they don’t have to examine their own small transphobic actions and behaviours
Hello, gays! Saving for next month. I'm still paying 1 installment monthly (from old cards debts). I'll spend what is saved in July on mother's eyes (after 2 surgeries she'll need a third). I need to continue my anemia treatment. My back pain has become worse and more often. We both have chronic health issues and living on benefits means bills keep happening cause emergencies keep happening. We weren't prepared for her issues right now, as most of us disabled and financially struggling people aren't.
Today we paid rent, food and utensils, thanks to benefits + help, and we might need it again. Please, if you can support us in any way, any dono is appreciated.
Like said, I know lots of us struggle, and if you can't or prefer not to help, I totally get it... Thank you so much regardless, and special thanks to people who reach out with kindness. More info under the cut.
My mother is 77 years old, she struggles with things "normal" for her age... high blood pressure, cholesterol, trigliceridi, anxiety, sleeping issues, hernia on her back, skin allergies and continuos eye problems. I have a bunch of chronic shit/pain... from dermatitis to a bad knee and foot to depression, and need vitamins supplements. If you follow me you know this. That being said, between both of us we take more than 10 different medications a day.
(NOT counting eye drops, vitamins (omega 3, vitamin D, b12 and iron) and diet powder replacements (Nutren) + diapers) and common painkillers
In 2024 my mother made her first surgery (cataracts) in both eyes, then in 2025 her second laser procedure in both eyes. She currently cannot see with clarity, even wearing glasses.
Our benefits + whatever I make doing odd jobs for relatives makes us around $700, where $300 alone goes to rent, and we can't pay everything with only $400.
We live in Brasil, my currency is BRL (every USD means 5 BRL, every € means 6 BRL). I pay taxes over every donation (for currency conversion).
It has come to my attention that people sometimes have bad things to say about this, of people struggling and seeking help, as if people who "e-beg" do it for fun, or as if it doesn't cause us anxiety when we know something important to us depends on the kindness of someone that might not come. Yes, I have seen some posts directed at me even though they were "venting" posts. Your lack of sympathy/empathy or whatever else is your problem and says more about you than about me.
To anyone who has helped me in any way (donating, sharing, starting a conversation) thank you so much for all of it. Bless you all.
I know no one has any obligations with anyone's issues, but anything helps into paying this and medications after will be greatly appreciated.
My mom has her eye procedure (right eye so far) schedule for Friday, July 10. We'll still see about her other eye but what I had saved + any help will go to this for now. Please help if possible.
The mythical disabled person who is so disabled that everyone consistently supports and accommodates them without question is a straw man which only exists as a hypothetical for the political purpose of denying real disabled people care while still being able to argue that said care would be accessible to disabled people who "actually deserves it"
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i think people are misunderstanding what a “mean femme” is supposed to mean because no it’s not attractive or funny to be mean to butches/studs/mascs and talk about us like we’re ugly, dumb and think being the femme means you are allowed to talk to me however way you want to
i don’t know where the confusion happened but ummmm no i’m not going to allow someone to yell at me or treat me mean just bc i’m the butch and can “handle it”
“mean femmes” are supposed to be mean to those who are being lesbophobic/mean to butches/transphobic/etc. it doesn’t mean verbally abuse butch lesbians
i see this so often and it really irritates me so many people including other lesbians are just so mean to gnc lesbians
i love femmes don’t get me wrong but some femmes i see seriously are just mean towards us ESPECIALLY if they aren’t attracted to butches
maybe some people like that level of attitude or maybe i am sensitive but butches can be sensitive too
Not for nothing you don’t protect a community of vulnerable, marginalized people, especially women, by sheltering, harboring, and laundering predators. If you can’t tell a rapist to leave your community you are telling the rapist what they did is okay, and their victims that they were wrong to speak out, wrong to even see what happened as abuse. You have essentially recreated the societal conditions that created their marginalization.
I need you know that I see you and all the ways your disabilities and illnesses frequently make you feel like less of a femme and how other people outside our community question how you embody being a femme.
We are not less femme because chronic pain and fatigue prevent us from presenting ourselves fully as we'd like to be.
We're not less femme for needing mobility aids and braces and for having indwelling catheters, tubes, and other medical devices.
We're not less femme because somedays it's all we can do to get out of bed. And sometimes not even that.
Struggling with invisible chronic conditions (physical or mental) doesn't mean our struggles don't matter, and it doesn't make any difficulties we have with being the version of ourselves that makes us feel the most authentic any less important or worthy of attention and empathy.
We're not any less ourselves because our disabilities or conditions make it difficult to maintain certain hair styles or nail lengths. We're more than the way people perceive our presentations.
Being disabled doesn't inherently make us frail or weak. Knowing and being able to tell the people who care about us when we need help and care actually makes us strong.
Being a stone or high femme in part or purely because of your illnesses doesn't make our identities any less valid.
I love my fellow disabled and chronically ill femmes so much. I see you and how hard it is somedays to feel like you're enough. But no matter what, we are always enough. Even and especially on the days when we can't get out of bed.
This post is inclusive of trans femme lesbians and other femme sapphics. Terfs go away and men DNI.
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a misogynistic society is so threatened by the concept of trans women - women that "had the opportunity" to be privileged men and chose not to - that they start making up privileges women have in order to explain why trans women exist. going into womens restrooms isnt a privilege, playing womens sports isnt a privilege, lesbianism isnt a privilege, yet they present them as such to try and explain why trans women are women for nefarious reasons. a misogynistic society will never understand that trans women have no ulterior motive for being women
I'm just going to say it - body hair (and beauty standards in general) is truly one of the final frontiers of women's issues in the West. Too many women just love their gilded cage too much. It shocks me how virulently women will defend it. I barely open my mouth and the "well I like how it feels. it just makes me feel cleaner. sensory issues. I do it for me. feminism is about choosing (to conform)." brigade come rushing in by the dozens.
Well I don't like how it feels. I don't feel cleaner without body hair. I don't prefer not having body hair. But who will advocate for women like me, but me? For women who do like hair removal, they are advocated for every time they step out of the house and see 99% of the female population also conforming to that standard, or when they watch a movie and see all the shaved actresses, or view an advertisment, or open a magazine, or watch a music video, or scroll through social media, or walk down the streets without receiving insults and glares for having a completely normal bodily feature.
You genuinely can't even point out that hairlessness is a man-made standard without women losing their shit and acting like they are totally immune to propaganda they've been exposed to from birth. I'm so tired.
I haven't seen anyone talking about this and just wanted to make a quick post on here.
Akihiro Miwa recently passed away peacefully june 20th, and was not only a drag queen and a queer icon, but also the japanese voice of Arceus in the movie Arceus and the jewel of life, as well as the witch from Howl's moving castle and Moro from Princess Mononoke.
Rest in peace and thank you for the wonderfull impact you made in this world.
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This study is being done by Dr. Lisa Littman, Dr. Kenneth Zucker, and J. Michael Bailey. The same people behind the “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” and other Transphobic pseudoscience. Do NOT give information to them via ayagdos, they have a long history of retractions and reported misconduct.
Report this ad wherever you see it. The fact that staff allows this kind of shit yet still turning a blind eye to everything else is just pure hatred.
Burden of Proof:
The project is called AYAGDOS—brought to you by the same names behind “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” pseudoscience.
If you see this, don't participate. It's a rigged study by Lisa Littman and unethical researcher J. Michael Bailey meant to undermine access
