high femme

i don’t know where the confusion happened but ummmm no i’m not going to allow someone to yell at me or treat me mean just bc i’m the butch and can “handle it”

“mean femmes” are supposed to be mean to those who are being lesbophobic/mean to butches/transphobic/etc. it doesn’t mean verbally abuse butch lesbians

i see this so often and it really irritates me so many people including other lesbians are just so mean to gnc lesbians

i love femmes don’t get me wrong but some femmes i see seriously are just mean towards us ESPECIALLY if they aren’t attracted to butches

I need you know that I see you and all the ways your disabilities and illnesses frequently make you feel like less of a femme and how other people outside our community question how you embody being a femme.

We are not less femme because chronic pain and fatigue prevent us from presenting ourselves fully as we'd like to be.

We're not less femme for needing mobility aids and braces and for having indwelling catheters, tubes, and other medical devices.

We're not less femme because somedays it's all we can do to get out of bed. And sometimes not even that.

Struggling with invisible chronic conditions (physical or mental) doesn't mean our struggles don't matter, and it doesn't make any difficulties we have with being the version of ourselves that makes us feel the most authentic any less important or worthy of attention and empathy.

We're not any less ourselves because our disabilities or conditions make it difficult to maintain certain hair styles or nail lengths. We're more than the way people perceive our presentations.

Being disabled doesn't inherently make us frail or weak. Knowing and being able to tell the people who care about us when we need help and care actually makes us strong.

Being a stone or high femme in part or purely because of your illnesses doesn't make our identities any less valid.

I love my fellow disabled and chronically ill femmes so much. I see you and how hard it is somedays to feel like you're enough. But no matter what, we are always enough. Even and especially on the days when we can't get out of bed.

Well I don't like how it feels. I don't feel cleaner without body hair. I don't prefer not having body hair. But who will advocate for women like me, but me? For women who do like hair removal, they are advocated for every time they step out of the house and see 99% of the female population also conforming to that standard, or when they watch a movie and see all the shaved actresses, or view an advertisment, or open a magazine, or watch a music video, or scroll through social media, or walk down the streets without receiving insults and glares for having a completely normal bodily feature.

I haven't seen anyone talking about this and just wanted to make a quick post on here.

Akihiro Miwa recently passed away peacefully june 20th, and was not only a drag queen and a queer icon, but also the japanese voice of Arceus in the movie Arceus and the jewel of life, as well as the witch from Howl's moving castle and Moro from Princess Mononoke.

This study is being done by Dr. Lisa Littman, Dr. Kenneth Zucker, and J. Michael Bailey. The same people behind the “Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria” and other Transphobic pseudoscience. Do NOT give information to them via ayagdos, they have a long history of retractions and reported misconduct.

Report this ad wherever you see it. The fact that staff allows this kind of shit yet still turning a blind eye to everything else is just pure hatred.

Burden of Proof:

Shira is in the emergency room with a very bad infection after being forced to live on the street after surgery.

We are approaching the beginning of the month, and she urgently needs the €600 for the house rent before the 1st. Please, we kindly ask for your help and support. We are truly in desperate need of assistance at this difficult time.

We have raised €234 out of the €600 needed for the house rent. Please, please share this with others. We only have a small amount left to reach our goal.

Come on folks, every little bit helps. Lets not put her back out on the streets!

WE MUST EAT

Hi gays, butches, femmes, aces, my people, happy pride month! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ I know some here are struggling just like me, but if anyone can help with anything... remaking this because I still got another week and a half before benefits drop, and I just ate the last bread we had today, the meat we had saved turned bad and we had to throw it away or risk getting more sick, and I'm in the middle of a chronic gastritis flare up.

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Kofi or p@ypal / wise: [email protected]