♡ about me: latina + jewish nonbinary high femme fairy princess (my gender is femme)
♡ messages: messages are open! i love making friends, but i'm only romantically interested in my handsome butch.
♡ DNI: men, minors (this blog is 18+ so please have your age in your bio/pinned), terfs, swerfs, thinspo/ed blogs, ddlg/ageplay
♡ other blogs: @lovergirlfemme (main) + @kissesfemme (nsfw)
♡ we love and respect all butches and studs (especially trans butches and studs)!! any butch/stud fetishization in the notes of my posts will earn you a block <3
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Hi, gays! I spent ALL I had ($350) on my mother's eyes (after 2 surgeries she needed a 3rd, done July 10). My back and leg pain have become worse and more often. We both have chronic health issues. Living on benefits means bills keep happening cause emergencies/survival happen. We can't prepare for such things, as most of us disabled/financially struggling people can't save money for long.
I know lots of us struggle, so if you can't donate, please share it? Thank you regardless. More info under the cut.
My mother is 77 years old, she struggles with things "normal" for her age: high blood pressure, cholesterol, trigliceridi, anxiety, sleeping issues, back hernia, allergies and eye problems. I deal with chronic back/leg/feet pain and migraines (also chronic dermatitis, severe anxiety, depression, ocd, possible borderline, and vitamin deficiency to which I need supplements). If you follow me you know this. That being said, between both of us we take more than 10 different medications a day:
NOT counting eye drops, creams, vitamins (omega 3, vitamin D, b12 and iron), powder replacements + diapers and common painkillers
Benefits + I make doing odd jobs makes us around $700 monthly, where $300 alone goes to rent, and we can't pay everything else (utensils, medicine, groceries) with only $400. Work is hard when I deal with daily pain and still need to take care of my mom's needs. We live in Brasil, my currency is BRL (1 USD = 5 BRL / 1 € = 6 BRL).
It has come to my attention that people have bad things to say about others struggling, as if people who "e-beg" do it for fun, or as if it doesn't cause us anxiety when we know something important to us depends on the kindness that might not come. I have seen posts directed at me even though they were "venting". Your lack of sympathy/empathy is your problem and says more about you than about me.
To anyone who has helped me (donating, sharing, starting a conversation) thank you so much. Bless you all.
Literally crying my eyes out. Took a small walk to help a neighbor and my feet hurts so bad I can't sleep or get up to make dinner (SECOND NIGHT IN PAIN), my throat feels worse cause I still got the flu. Eye appointment on Monday. PLEASE. I'm begging at this point.
Need money for mom's post surgery check-ups. Need to refill anxiety meds. DEFINITELY need it for food.
UPDATE Jul 15: $40/300
STILL CAN'T WALK WITHOUT SEVERE PAIN. Please continue to help if possible.
i know that butches are usually the ones who assume the caretaker role, but when are butches going to get the same princess treatment they give to others.
i wanna drive a butch around and pay for their dinner or take them out shopping. being masculine doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be taken care of :(
Neighbors to the north, I know we’ve had beef recently but please avoid burning down.
On a serious note, if anyone has any donation links to help the communities under evacuation orders like the Mishkeegogamang First Nation, I’d love to share those.
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Ontario SPCA and Humane Society is helping with emergency food, supplies, transport, and first aid for displaced animals and are helping families keep their pets when they are displaced.
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please wear sunscreen!!! I've seen "fuck the beauty industrial complex" posts about complicated skincare regimens and am 100% with them except sometimes they mention sunscreen and no. no. absolutely not. sunscreen is a wonderful supportive friend who wants to keep you safe, and you should let her do it. throw out all your other cosmetics and skincare products if you want, but keep your sunscreen. and if you're not wearing sunscreen, start wearing it!!!! this is not about terror of aging, this is not about every tiny imperfection our fucked-up culture has made you feel insecure about, this is about protecting yourself from skin cancer. wear the damn sunscreen.
the thing that scares me most about marrying my butch in the next few years is that inevitably, at least one of my mutuals will meet my parents at our wedding
the whole thing of ''the butchest people can handle before they start getting scared" where it's just a woman wearing pants or a hat or something is obviously annoying from a butch perspective (confirmation of the widespread hatred and disgust for gender nonconformity even within lesbian/bi spaces)
but I often wonder how much that same trend hurts femmes. like if I were femme and constantly saw women calling people "masc" for wearing pants or hats or a loose t-shirt... idk I would feel really hurt by that. like do these women really think that a femme stops being a femme every time she's not wearing a dress?? it just feels so demeaning to me. like people think femme is an outfit. like someone ceases to be femme when they're wearing comfy pajamas or are just naked.
idk I know that a lot of butch/femme stuff does involve aesthetic signifiers, but the reduction of it to just outfits feels so commercial and disrespectful.
and I'm not even like trying to call back to US lesbian bar culture half a century ago, I'm talking right now today. how butchness and femmeness exist as identities in 2024.
almost every butch and femme I speak to identifies that way because of deeply personal understandings of our genders, our relationships to others, our interpersonal experiences of rejection and affirmation, our sexuality and boundaries and desires. the presentation elements are primarily a means to attempt to communicate these deeper things to each other so these aspects of ourselves can be recognized. it's not like a costume or something. and communication of our identities are obviously not limited to clothing either--body language, behaviors, ways of speaking--they can be communicated with as many forms of communication as any other identity.
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One thing I always hope femmes carry with them is that your fellow femmes aren’t your competitors or (just) your potential partners. Being a femme is so much more than who we choose to partner with, and it’s one of the most critical lessons you can learn no matter how long you’ve felt called to identify as a femme.
Those are friends, mentors, community members, and allies in the hard work of our collective liberation. Femme friendship is one of the most important things we have in our community, and it’s one of the many things that helps keep us and everyone else safe. We are always stronger together.
Hey a dear friend of mine and neighbor is facing eviction due to racial discrimination and as requested by her family I made a a mutual aid campaign for her!! She needs $2500 as a starter point to get a retainer for a housing lawyer and housing stability if she is displaced! racist neighbors have been aggressive with harassment and assaults... and im worried about her safety..!!This will be my pinned till full her goal is met! Please reblog and actually donate! Even $2 is still impactful. Nothing is too small ,❤️❤️
Please help a mutple marglinzed black woman and her son to get the love and care that she needs!! She been fighting with our shitty racist property Management since I have moved there... She is the one who created our tenants union so I want her to actually have a peace of mind for once.
She still is at 240/2500 her next court date for continuation is July 20th and she is still dealing with harassment by anti-black neighbors and it's really affecting her i feel we can make her goal . Especially her public defender is already trying to screw her over... So if we can donate that be helpful!!! ❤️❤️❤️💝💝🥺💝
