β‘ about me: latina + jewish nonbinary high femme fairy princess (my gender is femme)
β‘ messages: messages are open! i love making friends, but i'm only romantically interested in my handsome butch.
β‘ DNI: men, minors (this blog is 18+ so please have your age in your bio/pinned), terfs, swerfs, thinspo/ed blogs, ddlg/ageplay
β‘ other blogs: @lovergirlfemme (main) + @kissesfemme (nsfw)
β‘ we love and respect all butches and studs (especially trans butches and studs)!! any butch/stud fetishization in the notes of my posts will earn you a block <3
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the thing that scares me most about marrying my butch in the next few years is that inevitably, at least one of my mutuals will meet my parents at our wedding
the whole thing of ''the butchest people can handle before they start getting scared" where it's just a woman wearing pants or a hat or something is obviously annoying from a butch perspective (confirmation of the widespread hatred and disgust for gender nonconformity even within lesbian/bi spaces)
but I often wonder how much that same trend hurts femmes. like if I were femme and constantly saw women calling people "masc" for wearing pants or hats or a loose t-shirt... idk I would feel really hurt by that. like do these women really think that a femme stops being a femme every time she's not wearing a dress?? it just feels so demeaning to me. like people think femme is an outfit. like someone ceases to be femme when they're wearing comfy pajamas or are just naked.
idk I know that a lot of butch/femme stuff does involve aesthetic signifiers, but the reduction of it to just outfits feels so commercial and disrespectful.
and I'm not even like trying to call back to US lesbian bar culture half a century ago, I'm talking right now today. how butchness and femmeness exist as identities in 2024.
almost every butch and femme I speak to identifies that way because of deeply personal understandings of our genders, our relationships to others, our interpersonal experiences of rejection and affirmation, our sexuality and boundaries and desires. the presentation elements are primarily a means to attempt to communicate these deeper things to each other so these aspects of ourselves can be recognized. it's not like a costume or something. and communication of our identities are obviously not limited to clothing either--body language, behaviors, ways of speaking--they can be communicated with as many forms of communication as any other identity.
One thing I always hope femmes carry with them is that your fellow femmes arenβt your competitors or (just) your potential partners. Being a femme is so much more than who we choose to partner with, and itβs one of the most critical lessons you can learn no matter how long youβve felt called to identify as a femme.
Those are friends, mentors, community members, and allies in the hard work of our collective liberation. Femme friendship is one of the most important things we have in our community, and itβs one of the many things that helps keep us and everyone else safe. We are always stronger together.
Hey a dear friend of mine and neighbor is facing eviction due to racial discrimination and as requested by her family I made a a mutual aid campaign for her!! She needs $2500 as a starter point to get a retainer for a housing lawyer and housing stability if she is displaced! racist neighbors have been aggressive with harassment and assaults... and im worried about her safety..!!This will be my pinned till full her goal is met! Please reblog and actually donate! Even $2 is still impactful. Nothing is too small ,β€οΈβ€οΈ
Please help a mutple marglinzed black woman and her son to get the love and care that she needs!! She been fighting with our shitty racist property Management since I have moved there... She is the one who created our tenants union so I want her to actually have a peace of mind for once.
She still is at 240/2500 her next court date for continuation is July 20th and she is still dealing with harassment by anti-black neighbors and it's really affecting her i feel we can make her goal . Especially her public defender is already trying to screw her over... So if we can donate that be helpful!!! β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπππ₯Ίπ
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it makes me sad seeing trans women say their pronouns like "she/her only please"...
you can be assertive with your pronouns, okay? it's not a request that it would be nice for people to go along with, it's how people should refer to you. it's one of the most basic courtesies anyone can afford you. it's not an "if they feel like it" or "whenever they remember it" type of thing...
it's not asking for an exception or a special treatment. it is your right to be referred to how you want to be referred to. this goes for literally everyone, of course, but ive just noticed it recently from transfems especially.
i love you. you deserve to have your name and pronouns used. you do!
can we stop pretending that anyone assigned female at birth has some mystical connection to womanhood or lesbianism. itβs such a conservative outlook on identity i canβt believe we have to even pretend to entertain it.
this post is about how trans women and transfems are just as entitled to womanhood as any cis woman and tme trans and nonbinary people DO NOT have just as much of a claim to womanhood and lesbianism as, yknow, Women, regardless of what they were coercively assigned at birth. feel free to take a long walk off a short pier.
The founders of Jane, an underground network in Chicago, US that assisted people in getting abortions. From the left moving right: Martha Scott, Jeanne Galatzer-Levy, Abby Parisers, Sheila Smith and Madeline Schwenk.
Martha Scott was 19 in 1965, when her friend's sister became pregnant and Scott helped her find a doctor to perform an abortion. The group connected individuals seeking abortions with doctors, and later, performed abortions themselves. Their clients were informed they were not doctors, but doing abortions themselves allowed them to keep costs low. They made people aware of the services through signs with slogans like "'Pregnant? Don't Want to Be? Call Jane." The group operated for seven years and performed an estimated 11,000 abortions; no deaths were ever reported.
Quote from Scott: "You're messing around inside somebody else's body. It's not necessarily given that you won't do harm. It wasn't perfect, by any means. But we were dealing with women who really didn't have other options."
Quote from Galatzer-Levy: "I hadn't had so much as a speeding ticket [when I joined]. But abortion really was the front line, it was where women were dying."
In 1972, two women reported Jane because their sister was seeking an abortion, and the women believed it was murder. All seven founders were arrested. Six months later, Roe v. Wade was decided and the charges were dropped. Read more here (link).
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If the only thing that has kept you going was outliving Mitch McConnell, imma need yall to pick a new person to outlive and fast. Your mission is not over.
The other post is much too big and I still need help with credit card bills and food money. I was able to support my family earlier this year but I'm in between checks, and won't see any money until I finish writing my second book. If you'd like to support your favorite horror author's favorite horror author (not to mention keep a disabled Black lesbian's family afloat), please consider sending me some Good Luck, Don't Starve money!
cis people loooooove to try and forcefully define transphobia as only explicit vitriolic hate because it means they donβt have to examine their own small transphobic actions and behaviours
Hello, gays! Saving for next month. I'm still paying 1 installment monthly (from old cards debts). I'll spend what is saved in July on mother's eyes (after 2 surgeries she'll need a third). I need to continue my anemia treatment. My back pain has become worse and more often. We both have chronic health issues and living on benefits means bills keep happening cause emergencies keep happening. We weren't prepared for her issues right now, as most of us disabled and financially struggling people aren't.
Today we paid rent, food and utensils, thanks to benefits + help, and we might need it again. Please, if you can support us in any way, any dono is appreciated.
Like said, I know lots of us struggle, and if you can't or prefer not to help, I totally get it... Thank you so much regardless, and special thanks to people who reach out with kindness. More info under the cut.
My mother is 77 years old, she struggles with things "normal" for her age... high blood pressure, cholesterol, trigliceridi, anxiety, sleeping issues, hernia on her back, skin allergies and continuos eye problems. I have a bunch of chronic shit/pain... from dermatitis to a bad knee and foot to depression, and need vitamins supplements. If you follow me you know this. That being said, between both of us we take more than 10 different medications a day.
(NOT counting eye drops, vitamins (omega 3, vitamin D, b12 and iron) and diet powder replacements (Nutren) + diapers) and common painkillers
In 2024 my mother made her first surgery (cataracts) in both eyes, then in 2025 her second laser procedure in both eyes. She currently cannot see with clarity, even wearing glasses.
Our benefits + whatever I make doing odd jobs for relatives makes us around $700, where $300 alone goes to rent, and we can't pay everything with only $400.
We live in Brasil, my currency is BRL (every USD means 5 BRL, every β¬ means 6 BRL). I pay taxes over every donation (for currency conversion).
It has come to my attention that people sometimes have bad things to say about this, of people struggling and seeking help, as if people who "e-beg" do it for fun, or as if it doesn't cause us anxiety when we know something important to us depends on the kindness of someone that might not come. Yes, I have seen some posts directed at me even though they were "venting" posts. Your lack of sympathy/empathy or whatever else is your problem and says more about you than about me.
To anyone who has helped me in any way (donating, sharing, starting a conversation) thank you so much for all of it. Bless you all.
I know no one has any obligations with anyone's issues, but anything helps into paying this and medications after will be greatly appreciated.
My mom has her eye procedure (right eye so far) schedule for Friday, July 10. We'll still see about her other eye but what I had saved + any help will go to this for now. Please help if possible.
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The mythical disabled person who is so disabled that everyone consistently supports and accommodates them without question is a straw man which only exists as a hypothetical for the political purpose of denying real disabled people care while still being able to argue that said care would be accessible to disabled people who "actually deserves it"
