I'm just holding this

do you want to be associated with animal abusers, rapists, and murderers? do you want to be associated with pedophiles who tout about their desire to rape children, to groom children? do you want to be associated with people who believe that rape - not cnc, not roughing, rape - should be normalized?

i've even read some who wrote about their sexual fantasies of wishing to abuse a child. to mutilate the child, then rape the child. not minor - minor downplays the seriousness of this situation.

look up kero the wolf. look up snakething. look up tim win. hell, she's not related to them directly, but go on and look up hypnotist sappho! find the audios of them mutilating and/or raping animals. you can probably find the videos with ease. look at them, and then tell me you still don't give a fuck about the normalization of zoophilia and pedophilia. go watch a video by the cult of cat murderers. or the monkey torturers.

this is beyond a silly "you can become a girl!" post. this is beyond a sissification fetish turned into some fucking wannabe political movement. this is not transfeminism. you do not care for us, your sisters. you do not care for your brothers. you care for entitled, individualistic, selfish needs. not community. not safety. and sure as hell not children and animals!

it was not normal for isff to say that removing pedophiles from the lgbt community is the equivalent of "dropping the t". it was not normal for isff to defend someone who claimed that "pedophilia is the most oppressed sexuality". it is not normal for people to claim that you can "safely practice pedophilia".

whatever we do, we can't win. we can't be seen as actually nonbinary. people binarize us and often mock us or get aggressive or dismiss and ignore our nonbinaryhood or something else.

if we don't medically transition, we are "just cis trenders."

if we do medically transition, we are "just [binary trans] eggs."

we are "technically transmasc or transfem anyways" if we don't use these terms.

we are lumped together with binary trans men and trans women if we do use these terms. our nonbinaryhood is ignored or seen as some kind of "gender-lite."

we are aggressively pressured to disclose if we're AFAB or AMAB, TMA or TME, transmasc or transfem, "boy nonbinary" or "girl nonbinary." and if we refuse to answer, people get double mad at us and pick something for us anyways.

if we show the slightest hint of something that could be interpreted as binary gendered, we are immediately binarised.

if we put a lot of effort into looking the most ambiguous or androgynous or neutral, people still try to find something. and they become aggressive. people often EXPLODE [PT: explode] when they can't gender someone by glance.

our ways of expression are constantly mocked and ignored (like neopronouns, nonbinary-centering labels for gender and orientation, basically all things that are associated with nonbinary people).

but if we choose more typical ways of expression (for example, use "he/him" or "she/her" pronouns), people use it to ignore and dismiss our nonbinaryhood.

I ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS GET THE SAME FEEDBACK WHEN THEY GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH ME

Neither of my supervisors had never gotten it before either. They had to think for a while, and then it turned into them telling me how great I am and what they love about me.

This stuff is real. I would also say: none of it is lying. This is taking experience that you normally downplay and write off, and putting it in accurate words they’ll understand.

It’s hacking the capitalist system. Why ISN’T helping a kid with homework “tutoring”, when the only thing missing is a paycheck?

It’s especially important for anyone who isn’t a cis white man, because many of us are so thoroughly trained to feel like we are not good enough.

Privilege tells people they can fake it, and that they’re good enough just as people and can learn the skills on the job. Abuse and oppression tell people they aren’t good enough as people and that even their high skills are probably below average, and that unless they had the specific job title or were using certain skills officially, nobody will think it counts.