Using this as a mod intro post & boundaries, since people have been following me
Hi, you can call me Api. Please use it/its for me! I am a transfem intersex person of color. This is all you need to know about who I am on a personal level
I do not condone harassment (DIRECT HARASSMENT*) in any way, shape, or form. I intentionally avoid people and block them when I do not wish to see their content. This blog is here to share resources regarding harmful topics, my personal opinions, and spread awareness of potentially hurtful rhetoric.
I don't support death threats, doxxing or doxx threats, threats of assault or rape, misgendering, or anything of the sort.
*This is a public blogging platform. If you wish to post in a public space, then you should expect people to talk about your posts and who you are; if you wish to remain private, then you must remain private. Criticizing is not the same as harassment.
Some boundaries and opinions are under the cut
I support the usage of TME/TMA, I do not believe the term âtransandrophobiaâ exists as intersectionality (although I do believe that trans men face a unique intersection of sexism and transphobia) because of how intersectionality and the term âtransandrophobiaâ are defined, and I do not believe neither trans men nor women inherently oppress the other.
Re: TME/TMA, I donât believe it to be a harsh, pre-defined binary as everyone describes it, and I believe most of the flack it receives is because of people like ISFF, Patricia Taxxon, and pocket deer belly use it to get out of âtrouble,â and use it as a shield to harass other trans people alongside cis people and use it in arguments as a logical fallacy. I am an intersex individual who experienced corrective surgery and coerced hormone replacement therapy growing up, and I believe I fit neither âtransfemâ nor âtransmascâ as a result, nor do I feel welcomed within either community, so I call myself TMA (since it is the truth - I am transfem; I've had surgery, I've taken estrogen, I've transitioned to "female"). I donât believe TME/TMA to be as black-and-white as people accuse it of being, and I believe a majority of its misuse lies within white entitlement and identity politics
Do not call me âAFABâ. I am not âAFABâ. I am CAMAB. I was given a vaginoplasty. I socially âtransitionedâ as a child and was targeted for my records saying the âwrong genderâ. By all means, I am a transfem. I have identified as transfem for years.
Otherwise, please interact with this blog at will. I am fine with minors interacting for the sake of spreading factual resources, but PLEASE, do keep in mind that I am an adult, and if any underage person spreads personal information on my posts, I will contact them to remove them.
I will tell people to stay away from me if they post in support of incestuous and pedophilic content (including l-lishocon, among other things) [yes, even fictional]
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this is pedojacketing? that's awful omfg why the fuck would he do that. patricia taxxon didn't say that! she must have been misinterpreted in bad faith because nobody's ever giving her any grace the poor thing. right?
reminder that user for.b.a.dorb/2/3 (who ive posted about before) is a proud pedophile who supports sentiments like pedophile liberation, the idea that youthlib isn't possible until pedos have been liberated, pedophilia is part of the lgbtq community, and 'normalise being attracted to minors' đ please report her
(^in reference to the 'map' flag, can't remember the post it was commented under, sorry)
If hating rapists makes me âscaryâ well then oogley boogley biiiitch! RAHHHHHH! đđťđđđťđđđđđđ§ââď¸đ§đ§đśđ°đ°đ°đ°đ˘đşđšđšđşđđđżđšđşđşđşđşđşđťđťđťđťđťđťđťđťđđđđŁđĽđĽđĽđĽđĽđĽ
Oh and also. there have been a lot of videos going around abt the Epstein files that tells you ways to convert images to videos and how this actually gets you to see CSEM.
Don't fucking do that. Google Drive, Apple, your ISP will flag that and alert law enforcement. Do not be fucking stupid and download CSEM onto your device.
I don't give a fuck if they are hiding shit from us or if you've seen worse (tf are you lookin at then???). Your ass will go to jail.
And even if nothing happens, you don't need to be lookin at that because it will genuinley disturb you and fuck you up mentally. Investigators that are trained to handle CSEM and CSA cases still get fucked up, even though they have some of the best training and harm reduction skills on the planet. you, Average Tumblr User, will definitley be no match for that kind of shit.
actually, I'd like to add a comment. I've definitely said this before, on the previous version of this blog, but CSEM is one of the things that messes up law enforcement and forensics professionals the most, in my experience. when i was helping hone the newer forensics program and helping the forensics study club get off the ground at my alma mater, all of our symposiums were open to students from any program-- except the digital forensics and CSEM handling lecture, which was attended by about five people because my cohort members straight up didn't want to go. i was there; it felt wrong to even take notes.
when the lecturer, a man at the head of the computer science program, described a case he had been called in to work on, he kept having to stop and gather himself because, as he put it, he remembered every image. to an extent, i get it; the cases that stuck with myself and my photography professor the most were child death cases, specifically a fire death and an abuse case respectively. (i remember the details of both, and the photos from the former; i will not be sharing them.)
it's one of the major reasons that my local csi/forensics unit is required to attend regular psychiatric/therapeutic sessions. it weighs on you.
seriously, listen to the OP here; don't let your curiosity get the better of you. be wise.
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can proshitters pls stop using ppl with moral OCD as their shield for consuming written/drawn CSEM?? This is a common thread I've noticed for a long time and it fr piss me off.
Whether or not you have moral OCD, consuming CSEM even if its fictional is still harming you and others. It normalizes and eroticizes some of the worst abuse a child can go through, and if you're a victim of CSA and you're using your trauma as a shield as for why you consume/produce that kind of work, retraumatizing yourself and sexualizing what happened to you isn't gonna help you in the long run. All it will do is condition you to believe that abuse was normal and sexy, which is not what it is!
And if you do have moral OCD and are consuming this kind of content, that is something that you need to interrogate, preferably with the help of a licensed professional. I am not saying that you deserve to go into a mental spiral over questioning your perceived goodness or badness over consuming that kind of content, but that is still something that you need to work towards quitting because of the reasons I've stated above. moral OCD is not a "get out of jail free card" for figuring out why you like something that actively harms people's perceptions of a serious issue and stopping the consumption of harmful material.
This "its ok, you're valid :)))" bullshit is not the allyship you think it is when the validity is being granted to consuming CSEM, no matter what form of neurodivergence or lack thereof you have.
Anon cuz i feel like a dork for talking about this, but IMO the big problem w ao3 is that it is both an archive and an alive/beign used fanfiction site, if it makes sense?
Like, ao3 exports/preserves fics from defunct forums n archives n zines and whatnot, and you could argue that stuff like that benefits from a more lenient moderation
Now, an "alive" archive (active?) 100% needs tighter modding/regulations than ao3 currently has, the leniency has already bit the ass in the past (Specifically talking about the sexy times with wangxian tagging fiasco)
Like, I do understand from a certain pov why a lot of people have their reservations about tighter modding (see: fanfiction archives where you weren't allowed to talk about gay ships, people making fun of "bad" fanfic (which ranged from bad grammar to someone writing self insert x blorbo fic as a teen to ew) the legitimate fear of being taken to court by people over writing fanfiction, etc etc etc) but if you dont housekeep and kick out nazis n pedos n whatnot, they multiply like rats and make shit unpleasant for everyone (see: the isfflets)
I do still have my ao3 and use it (moslty cuz i am sick of seeing idiots make my blorbo fuck kids or say hes an incel, hes neither >:( ALSO i wanna make a choose your own adventure fic and idk of other fic hosting sites would let me)
Sorry if this was yappy, I have thoughts n opinions
100% ON THE MONEY WITH THIS ONE.
To tell you the truth, I donât think itâs possible for a website to be Completely anti-censorship without exception, nor do I think itâs ethical. The reality of running a platform based on user submissions is that you do have to say no to certain things, and choosing to hand-wring about purity culture instead is honestly? Pretty unprofessional.
And I will reiterate for the people who didnât see my tags on that other post, I can understand being hesitant to ban certain themes from a writing-based website! There is a big difference between a story that includes pedophilia, incest, or rape as plot elements and treats them with sensitivity, and one that glorifies them and treats them like âtaboo romanceâ. Setting up a system where someone has to read all of those fics to determine if itâs the second is way less plausible to enforce than it would be for a microblogging site. I do not blame them for not wanting to sift through that. Getting back to the point though, I DO think you have a responsibility to take down things that are blatantly promoting harm, and I think being more concerned about censorship than real kids makes you a coward, actually! Ao3 is not the government! They cannot âcensorâ anything in a way that matters!
"X thing is like or equivalent to blackface/minstrelry/lynching/police brutality etc etc" i think some things are not like this very racialized thing to put it mildly.
My doctors already did this when I was given a vaginoplasty in infancy, took estrogen as a child, and when I socially and medically transitioned while the world around me saw me as a monster.
People act like forcefem is never a triggering thing when it can include things like forcing someone to take estrogen, forcing surgery on someone, forcing different clothing on someone, etc, which are things many intersex people (INCLUDING MYSELF) have experienced.
The fucking NERVE to put this shit in the intersex tag, without so much as even a simple trigger warning, is infuriating. Many intersex people are already forcibly ""feminized"" every day. It's a fucking violent act. It traumatized me severely.
Can we call this what it is? Sexual harassment. Forcefem is a kink- a kink that a lot of eggs have enjoyed and credited as part of their hatching, but it is a kink. If you're doing CNC (which forcefem, forcemasc, etc are) without the first C, that's just non-consent, that's just sexual harassment.
also forcefem is a kink, it's been a kink for the past 30 years of the internet's existence. reclaiming words is totally a thing, but it's used for slurs, words that were created to be harmful.
forcefem was never a harmful slur, and has never been used as a slur, and probably never will be used as a slur. you're not reclaiming anything by appropriating that term with queer liberation.
it's a kink and suggesting it should be superimposed onto everyone as a societal benefit, is in fact, the same as forcing your kink onto others
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I'm so tired of the "forcefem isn't a kink" discourse.
If you literally just google "forcefem before:2010" or even before:2020 it's All Kink Stuff, it did Not originate as a trans woman positivity movement and it's entirely disingenuous to suggest there's no connection to kink.
To further anon's point:
Just because the kink is relatively common and even beneficial among trans woman (when done properly/safely) doesn't mean it's not a kink. It also doesn't mean everyone will be into that kink.
Forcefem is a kink even if it's one that helped you. I cannot stress this enough. Forcefem is a kink even if it's one that helped you.
You know who it won't help, at least not safely? Minors who are roped into a kink that they don't realize is a kink by careless and/or harmful adults. And, hell, even (sex-repulsed) asexual adults who don't like having any kink being forced on them.
âPizzagateâ as in the accusations towards the pizza shop was not real.
People claiming to use âpizzaâ to refer to CSAM is real. Internet exploitation groups such as 764 and âtrollsâ who use forums that are offshoots of soyjack party use âpizzaâ explicitly to distribute content
They are not mutually exclusive. Iâve seen this along with those who distribute CSAM myself. I actively report these websites to their hosts to get them taken down đ
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holy fuck". the tags read "#txt #everyone say sorry to lily and patty and isff and mordred and sailor-crusader and thicced-witch". end id]
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letting forcefem fetishists collapse that down into having literally anything to do with being transfem was the worst thing that happened since letting fat fetishists collapse that down into advocating for fat people
Fuck, dude, i guess its bigoted to understand the words she's using and not fully submit to the fake definition she made up? The fuck?
Forcefem is a FETISH. You are a FETISH BLOG. There are non-fetish words for trans positivity that you refuse to use BECAUSE IT IS ABOUT YOUR FETISH. Fuuuuuuuck.
