Holding onto hope that things will get better

A PORN BOT UNFOLLOWED ME?

i love when fantasy novels are about 35 year olds…why is everyone in books 20 or 16 all the time

(defensively) 35 is one of the most normal ages to be

I know it doesnt always feel this way because the internet has a funny and miserable way of amplifying the angriest and most annoying voices, but in real life and in most communities, most trans people actually really love and support each other. these trans men that say ugly transmisogynistic shit and the trans women that act like trans men are uniquely evil, these people don't exist in real life communities because they don't function in communities. they're alone, angrily typing on their phone because they're hurt and alone and sad. and if they had that community where they could sit with other trans people of different backgrounds and actually listen to them (because it's much harder to dismiss and ignore someone in person) i think they'd find all their preconceptions and prejudices fading away when they realize that actually we are all kind of the same. and if youre feeling alone and all you see online is this dumb fucking infighting, I hope that one day you will find a community in your real life that makes you realize that for the most part, trans people love each other

real talk tho ive seen ppl talk abt how long hair on men isn't intrinsically feminine & assuming so is racist can we get the same convo going for Black women w short hair can we start talking abt how short hair isn't intrinsically masculine or is that a step too far