i feel like we all lost something when we started treating male privilege as some kind of magic amulet that you can put on and take off as you choose
i keep seeing all these really vicious arguments with terfs/right wingers insisting that a trans woman will Never Ever lose her magic amulet no matter how hard she tries and leftists insisting that all trans men don the magic amulet immediately after coming out as trans, and i may not have a phd in gender theory but to me these are both nonsense arguments and mean nothing























