muchas tardes buenas gracias

I’d have to wait months or even years for another chance to reblog this, so why the fuck not?

TODAY

Heritage post

Is anyone else mildly unsettled by the implication that this is going to be the last Thursday the 20th

Personally I think everything should be easier than it is. Just a thought.

me giving relationship advice: communicate or end it

like, i genuinely believe most problems in the average relationship can be dealt with if the people involved just had an honest, open conversation with each other. it doesn’t have to reach a resolution or be peaceable or anything, just hash things out. air out dirty laundry. all parties have a responsibility. one person can’t be doing all the work while the other just stonewalls, indefinitely. work your shit out, no matter how long it takes and how messy it is, bc that’s the test of love/friendship. you fail it if you end things prematurely, and you fail it if you unilaterally fashion yourself as the victim/wronged party and the other as the perpetrator/aggressor. a relationship should be 50/50, and that means taking on the share of the work it takes to mend and maintain relations when the going gets tough. relationships require effort, and a lot of it is just conflict mediation & resolution, which requires all parties to play their part. easier said than done, obviously, but that’s all the more reason to work at it

you can’t be like “love is about the effort you put into it 💙” on your cutesy tumblr posts and then go around misunderstanding what abuse and “emotional labour” is lmao

so true bestie what did you say btw i wasn't paying attention

I think everyone, both normal and cis people, should get two free legal name changes at no cost

What’s not clicking

This is hilarious but I cannot stress enough never ever plug a strange USB into your computer Jesus Christ. You will get PC Chlamydia and die.

And it’s superceasy to write a program that will launch another program (virus) on USB insertion, so, for reals, a USB stick can literally launch anything, not even restricted by USB memory limits.

And he’s upset why?

This is a behind the scenes from a TV show. He’s the guy who plays the character whose gravestone it is. He’s mad that people are memeing a behind the scenes photo of a fictional character’s death because he happens to play that character.

I’m not sure if I should laugh or hit my head on the desk over this one.

The face I just made 🙄

if he doesn’t want us to use THAT photo, it seems like we’ve got three malicious-compliance-ready replacements right here

my favourite part of this post being so big now is seeing countless ppl having this exact problem trying to find this post on their blogs

incredible

The man has the legs for it honestly

WORK IT KING!!!

we stan a legend

reblogging for the last part (and also he DOES have the legs for it)

This website makes me insane

Tumblr makes my head hurt. He still looks fantastic though.

ok this pride i do really need white gays to step up and out of their comfort zone and learn more about pinkwashing and gay imperialism. i need you to really try to understand why we say lgbt issues are ALWAYS about race and acknowledge the ways you use your identity as an opt-out of examining how you can reproduce racism islamophobia antisemitism colorism ableism etc etc. every year you say « don’t forget the ‘‘poc gays’’ that made this possible !! » now im asking you guys to actually do that. please ive had enough.

ok here is a google drive with articles i currently have on lgbt intersectionality [it is very barren right now but i’ll keep adding to it]

im just now realizing that a lot of the files in this folder aren’t sharing properly which is weird....im trying to figure out how to fix that but in the mean time if there’s something you want to read but it’s inaccessible for some reason, dm me and ill send you the link

Why do ppl keep saying that they make a mean dish why's it gonna be mean why does every thing have to be evil 😔 so much hate in the world

i make a tender, caring roast chicken that'll kiss you so so much

I make a mac n cheese so good you could fuck it

Oddly private about things that don’t exactly demand secrecy

I wish all writers who haven’t been able to write in a long time bc of depression a very I love u and I promise u will write again

the idea that you have to coordinate your interests your style your hobbies just to fit one specific "aesthetic" is so boring like try new things listen to all kinds of music dress up in all different kinds of clothes just let yourself enjoy stuff nothing ever has to be forever

I love everything about this.