~This is made for educational purposes, and in no way is meant to target or slander anyone!!!
I dont think people realize how faking mental illnesses affect the people who actually have it. I have diagnosed Tourettes syndrome (it also runs in my family) and it was pretty bad before i learned how to hide it better.
I held myself back a lot from telling people because of the amount of people who used to fake it on tiktok during 2020-2023/4, because i knew that they probably werenât gonna believe me. But i seriously didnt blame them at all for not believing me, faking it was so common and normalized because people wanted to be âquirkyâ or âdifferentâ.
This can make people, not only with Tourettes but other mental illnesses that are commonly faked (DID, BPD etc.), feel like they cant open up to anyone about it in fear of being slandered or worse.
1) To the people who feel that way, my advice is to realize that youâre being true to yourself, and if someone doesnât believe you then itâs not gonna affect you anyway. This mindset admittedly takes a while to adapt, but when you adjust to it, it helps a ton.
2) Be honest about whether youâre diagnosed or suspecting. Its the best thing to do for yourself and will spare you from people trying to make up their own theories about you. If you are suspecting, make sure to do proper research. (Recommended websites will be at the end)
3) If its something similar to Tourettes/tics, then dont try to hide it unless you NEED to. It can hurt rly badly, especially for motor tics, so just let them out. Again, people will judge you no matter what you do so might as well.
4) Dont try so hard to prove yourself. Its exhausting and isnt really rewarding. If they dont believe you thenâŚoh well!
5) If someoneâs bullying you for it, just ignore them. Theyre spending their sweet and valuable time making fun of someone for no reason, dont fuel them by reacting. However if it gets bad then you can report it so someone of power (teacher, boss, parent etc) and let them sort it out)
- very understandable and simple but accurate
2) National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke
- talks about treatment and diagnosis