WIBTA for taking advantage of my bossā possible manic episode?
I know this already sounds bad but hear me out.
So I (30M) am the sole employee of this guy (62M) whoās honestly just a miserable boss and an even more miserable person. It sucks so bad working for himāthe pay is horrendous, heās verbally abusive, and the working conditions are awful (in the winter I literally have to stay bundled up the whole work day because he refuses to put the heat on in the office). He wouldnāt even give me holidays off if it wasnāt for the fact that thereās basically nothing to do those days because everywhere else is closed. Iām almost positive he unironically thinks poor people should die if they canāt work. His nephew (aka his only living relative and just the nicest guy) came by yesterday to invite him to Christmas dinner and he told him heād see him in hell.
I cannot stress this enoughāitās BAD. Iād quit, but itās been hard finding a better job and Iāve got four kids at home, including one with special needs.
Anyway, so hereās where Iām wondering if Iād be the asshole. Today was Christmas Day and he showed up at my house out of nowhere (huge red flag, I know). At first I thought heād forgotten I had the day off and he was here to chew me out, which was worrying enough, but then his whole demeanor changed and he was super happy and excited and talking about how he was going to raise my salary. He even mentioned possibly making me a partner in the firm.
Now if that was it, Iād feel a little weird about the suddenness of it but itād be fine. Iām not going to complain about having more money to feed my family. But then he started talking about how he wanted to pay our mortgage off. He talked about wanting to pay for our son to get the very expensive medical care thatās probably going to save his life. He mentioned at one point that he was going to be donating a huge amount of money to charity tooāI knew he was rich but it staggered me. All this from a guy who doesnāt (didnāt?) even want to turn on the heat or the lights because it costs too much money.
It was such a sudden and drastic change that happened very literally overnight and now Iām kind of concerned heās having a manic episode or something. I really, really want to accept his sudden generosity (I probably will; my wife is all for it and thinks he owes it to us), and I would love to believe that heās truly had a sudden change of heart (an actual Christmas miracle lol) but Iām just worried about the possible consequences of accepting huge financial gifts like this from someone who I believe might be experiencing some kind of break from reality. Even if thereās nothing legally wrong with it, Iām worried about the ethics of it.
TLDR, my asshole boss might be in the middle of a mental breakdown. WIBTA if I accepted his offer to pay off my mortgage and my sonās medical expenses?