The Transgender Blog

This account exists so that transgender people can share their experiences with being transgender. Both the good and bad.

This account has been made to spread awareness about transgender people especially now with the election in the USA because of the life threatening state many trans people are in. This account is here to help trans people so they know they aren’t alone, and educate cis people.

I’m transgender and the reason I made this blog is because of the insane amount of uneducated people I meet on a regular bases. When I say that I both mean the transphobic people and the people that just generally isn’t very educated on this topic

I’ve met many people in my day to day life, that dismiss the serious issues that trans people face, not that they mean any harm but they simply have never experienced it, and they all assume it’s not a big deal and doesn’t happened often.

I’m fed up with it.

So I’ve decided to make this account so you trans folks here can express yourself and tell your stories and cis people can understand us much easier. Because the education system sure isn’t doing us any favors.

The way this is gonna work is that I’ll post some stories of my own every once in a while, and if you have any stories that you wanna share, you can submission them and of course my inbox is open. You can always be anonymous!. You can also text me privately and I’ll post your story without anyone having to know it’s you <3.

THIS BLOG IS MADE AGAINST TRANSPHOBIA. THEREFOR TRANSPHOBIC COMMENTS OR TEXTS WILL NOT BE INCLUDED.

Everybody is allowed. As long as your not hurting anybody your allowed

Which means that this blog supports furries, therians and pretty much anybody that doesn’t harm others.

The only people that are allowed to share their stories are people under the trans umbrella but people of any identity or sexuality can follow this account <3

Give me liberty or give me death.

Stay safe, stay strong. No matter what anyone says, what he plans to ban next. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM.

No I do not, yet I could think about it :) the thought had just never really crossed my mind, thanks for asking!

So I had been out in this school for a long time, so everyone knew. But our school does this thing where a lot of people from other schools have to go to our school because their schools are to small. So a lot of new people come to our school around that time.

Now everyone I knew from the past like classes and stuff were aware I was trans and so was all the teachers so everybody referred to me as a boy and stuff.

I had made a few friends from the other schools and some of my past friends mentions I was transgender

And these new friends of mine look at me and say “oh so your a girl” and I thought they were like mocking me bc I’m transmasc. I then shake my head and they look at me confused and say “so you were born a boy but now your a girl?”

I have never felt so happy before

Like these people, completely clueless about me being trans, thought I was a biological boy, like fully convinced and fully ready to accept me as a trans woman. I was so, so happy, and i immediately told every single one of my past friends and my parents

This post contains a lot of talk about transphobia and just general really bad stuff so if your not comfortable with that or it has a possibility of triggering something please don’t read, stay safe!

Now a year ago I had this friend, let’s call him Block because he really liked Lego blocks.

Now Block was a pretty like quiet kid, he didn’t really have any friends and such but it wasn’t like he was being bullied, he just didn’t wanna talk to anybody.

Now the thing was that he had two moms, which wasn’t bad and he didn’t get bullied because of it, it’s just important for this story.

Now I don’t exactly remember how I managed to befriend this dude but I did. So we started talking and hanging out a lot, along with another friend of mine I’ll call shadow because he really liked shadow from sonic.

Now it was a good year or so of us three just hanging out and being good friends, until some weird jokes started appearing. Now note here that I was publicly transgender, I had come out in front of my entire class with the help of teachers and such.

Suddenly Block started making weird jokes about transgender people being so sensitive and a bunch of those types of “oh you can’t even say merry Christmas anymore” things like that. Now at the time I thought nothing of it, because whenever I asked he said it was just his type of humor and I was pretty young and naive.

Now shadow started joining in on these jokes, refusing to call me a boy and saying stuff like “oh your a biological woman so I will call you a trans boy, not just a boy.”

Then Block started acting like I was a ticking time bomb, mind you I never talked about being transgender unless it was bought up so I didn’t know where he got this from, like if I was talking to somebody that could be curious about trans people and then he would go “oh you shouldn’t say that to a trans person they will get mad” even if it was completely normal and non offensive questions.

He also started mocking me when Shadow would misgender me and I would stand up for myself, when that happend Block would just say “did you just assume my gender” to make fun of me when I stood up for myself.

Then he once said to me, like dead ass- “I hate when people assume I’m not homophobic just because I have two moms”

Like- dude it makes sense that people probably thinks you don’t mind gay people when your parents are lesbians and your best friend is transgender. And reminder he knew I was transgender so he was admitting he didn’t like lgbtq infront of me and expected me to agree.

Another time I say innocently “happy pride month” to one of my friends that had recently come out as bi. And he went “yeah when is it straight month, you dont desvere a month for kissing dudes”

It got so bad to the point where he walked up to me once when I was drawing once and this is what happend.

“I don’t like that flag” he said and then pointed to a transgender flag on my drawing. At this point I had given up and just went “okay?”. He then raised his hands in surrender as if I had just shouted at him and went. “I didnt say anything about the meaning of the flag I just said I didn’t like it” he said with such a smirk as if he had just tricked me in some insane way.

When I would speak about women’s or transgender or general lgbtq peoples struggle he would mock me and deny it.

I once talked about the man or bear hypothetical and while I said actual evidence and statistics, he just called women idiots and that he hoped they were eaten.

I once talked about death threats towards furries and other minorities online and he just said he thought that it was so funny and that he loved those sorts of comments.

He often would interrupt my conversations with others to tell me “there is only two genders in my opinion” just completely unprovoked and normally he was never part of the conversation and it was never the topic of it. Like he once interrupted me in the middle of my sentence while talking about Minecraft with another dude and said “there is only two genders, that’s just what I think”

And whenever I would try to point it out he would call me sensitive and so would Shadow and he would mock me and act like he was completely innocent while I was being unreasonable.

I’ve finally stopped talking to him but he is still in my class and even if i have a totally new friend group he always approaches me to say something terrible about transgender people.

And I just can’t get rid of him.

Like he will ask competently inn appropriate questions about my friends. Once asking about if my friend still c*t themselves and who in my friend group had s*icide thoughts.

Yet I can never tell a teacher because he hides his behavior so well behind a “what I was just being curious or stating my opinion you can’t get mad at me for that”

And I remember when we were friends he was so convinced he was smarter then me, like he would constantly make me feel insecure about myself but he manipulated me into thinking I was the one in the wrong. I got a IQ test and I scored the same as him which he refused to believe and still denies to this day. As if it would be insane for me to actually be smart.

The worst thing is I still thought we were friends and so did he. He was manipulative according to my other friend, he would constantly switch up on me about trans people, like he would help me tell teachers if others mock me for being trans yet the next day he would be mocking me.

Yet he did all this so secretly so no teachers believed me and nothing seemed serious enough to tell someone. Yet now I’ve realized it definitely was.

He was kind one day, a jerk the next.

So I thought maybe he did support me and maybe he was just joking.

Now let me say this once to anybody that needs it.

IF SOMEONE IS HURTING YOU WITH JOKES, ITS NOT A JOKE.

A joke is funny, for all people involved . Not only for one or two.

He is still incredibly judgemental to me even if we aren’t friends. Like he will comment on my clothes and style just out of nowhere, even if we don’t speak at all.

He convinced me he was so incredibly mature when we were friends and I generally think he is convinced he is, but now I know he is just incredibly immature.

I didn’t take the warning signs early enough but I hope this post can help someone see when something is horribly wrong.

Is how someone can look at a person that is so much more happy, and say it’s wrong. How can a person look at someone, who has been doing so much better mentally and physically after transitioning and still say it’s wrong?

How can people look at someone that seems so excited and happy about being called a boy or a girl or just as a person and still say they are mentally ill and confused?

How can they look at a child, that is feeling incredibly uncomfortable while being called their biological gender or maybe even have depression over it, and still say that they can’t be trans or whatever they are?

How can people look at a group of happy and healthy people and still say that it’s wrong?

Is it a lack of empathy or understanding?

I will never ever understand it. Because really as long as someone is happy and isn’t harming anybody, they can call themselves whatever they want, want me to call you something else? Sure as long as your happy. You have a boyfriend even if your a dude yourself, cool as long as your happy!

Why can’t we just let people be happy?

I’ve noticed people, like also transgender people and lgbtq people making fun of people with neopronouns

It grosses me out to be honest, like a lot.

I see those videos and all I can think is “what the hell” because they are making fun of people that are like them. They are dragging people down that are like them just because they are different. And I’m sorry but doesn’t that defeat the entire purpose of being accepting and understanding?

I see people talk about how neopronouns are ruining the community but honestly I think the people that are complaining are ruining the community.

We are supposed to be accepting, that’s what we stand for. Yet these people say that neopronouns is ridiculous and stupid.

In my opinion, as long as you aren’t hurting anybody, and is happy. Then you can identify as what you want.

Why would I care about your pronouns as long as your happy and comfortable with yourself

Pls do (expect if it’s dangerous ofc)

I’ve realized something which I actually realized when I first realized I was transgender

When people wear the trans flag or the lgbtq flag. I feel so, so incredibly happy.

Because it’s like this thing where you feel like your completely isolated and alone because you know no one else that is like you.

But then you see someone, a complete stranger wearing lgbtq. And suddenly you realize that there are people like you. Your not alone.

And if they can do it, why wouldn’t you be able to

The only reason I was confident enough to come out, was after seeing a random girl while visiting a country for vacation wearing a trans flag as earrings and a necklace

So to whoever that girl was, thank you for giving me the courage <3

And if your staring at your cart or maybe even your jewelry thinking if you should wear a pin or a flag. Do it. You might give somebody the courage to be themselves or teach young child that it’s normal and should be respected

I’m so, so tired of being treated like I’m just an opinion, a life style even!

I see people making those videos about “transphobic people vs trans supporters” where they sit them down in a room and treat us like we are some sort of weird debate to have and we are an opinion and not real human beings with emotions

We aren’t just transgender, we are people, we are someone, we are like everybody else we have feelings.

And our priest is a very sweet guy but he is a bit confused about lgbtq topics, he’s got the spirit though

One time we were learning about Noah’s ark. And i had heard this too many times from homophobes, you know the thing about lgbtq stealing the rainbow and stuff.

I knew it was coming I could feel it, all I was thinking was just

“I swear to god, if I hear one word about a pride flag leave your mouth, I’m slamming this bible in my face so I can wake up the next day and pretend nothing happend”

And then he says it and it goes something like

“While I know that the…*nervous glance at me* the rainbow is used to represent other stuff today, but that’s what it actually means you know?”

All eyes turn to me.

And I’m thinking, brother. You do know the difference between this 🌈And this 🏳️‍🌈 right?

ONE IS A FLAG THE OTHER IS A REFLECTION OF LIGHT YOU IMBECILE, DO I NEED TO FETCH YOUR GLASSES MAYHAPS?

I didn’t really say that….but I thought it.

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Excuse Me? Convince? like brother what do you mean? You think I just sat down with them one day and went-

“ *sighs* (friends name) I think you should be transgender”

If only I had the power to turn people trans