Mostly venting here please disregard if you're having a good day lol
I don't know what I'm doing wrong when it comes to dating. I always think that things are going well, but its like I can't even get a fair shake at a conversation without fighting assumptions about being in a relationship with someone who is ace. How can I get so excited and then so disappointed when they pull the "you seem sweet but no". Then when i date someone else who is ace they just say "you're not ace enough for me"
If anyone remembers that story about the missing piece, its pissing me off because there's so many options out there it feels like people have such a high bar to clear before you can even start a conversation. Why does it feel like meeting people is next to impossible for me.
No one person is a monolith, no relationship is going to be the same. I have to keep trying but feeling like I'm being burnt every time at the stove isn't going to help me go to the kitchen
