It’s actually so sad how many men will just casually admit that they were coerced into sex by a hookup or a partner.
I was talking to a guy at a bar last weekend, and he was like “Yeah, I didn’t really wanna hook up with this person. But she kept asking me and I felt bad so I just did it. I didn’t really like it. But it was whatever.”
And I’m like… “Dude, that’s not okay. You have the right to say no if you don’t want to. And the other person should accept that and leave you alone.”
And that’ll be a NOVEL concept for them. Like they never considered that they could say no and stand firm in it. Because they’re convinced that as men they should always want sex, even if they don’t actually want it. It’s so sad.
EDIT: The fact that they don’t consider this coercion despite it being the TEXTBOOK definition of it absolutely explains why so many of them do it to women and don’t think it’s wrong.
















