o shit

hot take but prejudice & violence butches, studs, gnc/masc women etc face specifically because of their gender presentation is actually still misogyny. they're not "experiencing homophobia instead of misogyny", they're literally experiencing misogyny (and it is also homophobia, the two are not mutually exclusive). just because feminine women aren't the primary targets of it doesn't make it not misogyny.

this is why when worms for brains people say “women and femmes” like that’s a coherent class it makes me want to scream. you are telling on yourself that you view women and femininity as inextricably linked and ignore the ways in which misogyny is enacted on masculine people of various kinds.... critical thinking please

No one warned me that coming into your own also includes grieving the life you were conditioned to believe you wanted.

going to therapy is so humiliating. gotta explain symptoms like I know how this sounds and I know what you’re gonna say. and the therapist is like it sounds like you’re having symptoms

it's always the fucking symptoms

i cannot relate to people who put gum under tables i have nothing in common with people who put gum under tables i honestly find it hard to accept the humanity of people who put gum under tables

The assassin you sent after me is part of my found family now

Paramore was right. Hard times

you definitely know what song is playing without pressing play

I definitely didn’t know what song was playing without pressing play

please think critically about true crime content and police shows. i’ve literally heard a true crime youtuber say that someone telling the police to get a warrant before searching their house is an immediate sign of guilt. and it’s so common to hear that not speaking to police without a lawyer or “not being cooperative” (whatever that means) is suspicious. spreading stuff like that is so irresponsible lol

yesterday i overheard a young mother telling her friends that apologizing to a child undermines your authority as a parent and all of them agreed. some people should be forbidden to have kids

a body count not as in homicide nor as in sexuality but as in the trail of people from my childhood and adolescence i should’ve been a better friend to and taken better care of but i was too busy being caught up in my own heartache to recognize their own and therefore our relationship tapered off in an extremely unsatisfying way that continuously manifests itself as a thrumming sense of grief in my chest. anyway which restaurant chains have the best free pre-meal bread?

TEXAS ROADHOUSE