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Big speculative biology series are really cool, but as a linguist, I think one thing I would love to see is some naturalism in the nomenclature.
When you're making the biology from the ground up with perfect knowledge of the clades, it's natural for you to just make clade names that are descriptive and perfectly align with the organisms under them.
But that's not how it works in the real world. In the real world we have:
Relics of outdated frameworks: The whole kingdom, phylum, order, class... setup is still kind of present even though we know Linnaeus was wrong about it being neat categories.
Relics of older ideology: Humans in the clade primates (related to prime, primary) because we put ourselves at the top of a hierarchy. We no longer think that's valid, but the name persists, as are the names that define lower clades of primates by proximity to humanity (Hominin, Hominid, Hominoid), and our self-assigned binomial name Homo sapiens "wise man".
Just plain errors: Like Crocodilia being in a clade called Pseudosuchia ("false Sobek") because originally we thought of those as crocodilian-like, but didn't realize crocodilians were actually part of the clade.
Of course, a spec-bio project is already a massive undertaking (one I probably won't be doing any time soon), and this extra layer would be a lot of extra work. You'd have to develop all your creatures with placeholder labels and then go back and figure out the history of biology and paleontology. Maybe you could do the biology work and hand off the naming to another person.
I also understand it could be confusing to the audience, especially if you have some historical errors thrown in.
But I think just a few of these things added in could be cool in the right kind of project. Maybe tweak a few of the names to reflect some historical misunderstanding.
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“.…of course, you’re not allowed to say that,” he said, as he went on saying the thing he’s not allowed to say.
You really can say anything you want if you’re vague enough about phylogeny.
Just saw a popular post saying that muskoxen aren’t cows, they are goats.
The birdandmoon image “Animals With Misleading Names” says that the mountain goat is not a goat.
Now, unless this has changed recently, both of those animals are caprines.
Both of those statements can be correct, but only one at a time.
If you consider all caprines to be goats, then yes the muskox is a goat. And so is the mountain goat, the sheep, and so on.
If you consider only members of genus Capra to be goats, then no, mountain goats are not goats. And neither are muskoxen, sheep, and so on.
It’s just a matter of defining what you mean.
Just saw a post on my dash calling the muskox an ice age goat. Tapping the sign :3
If muskoxen are goats then sheep are goats
Some idiot: Whales are fish.
Regular person: No, whales are mammals.
Some biologist: Well, whales ARE mammals, but since all mammals descend from a subgroup of bony fish, and according to the principles of cladistic grouping, we avoid paraphyletic groups, any grouping termed “fish” would have to include mammals or else “fish” would be paraphyletic - so if whales are mammals and mammals are fish, then yes, whales are fish.

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New Fiat Lingua article! In this essay, author Madeline James describes how she came to create her first conlang. I know that there are a number of conlangers who follow my Tumblr, so if you'd ever be willing, I would love to post the story of how you created your first language on Fiat Lingua. It is always fascinating to learn how someone made the jump from taking language for granted to wanting to create their very own.
Hi! So genuine question — I've been hesitant to get a password manager because it feels like a single point of failure? So my preference has been for keeping passwords organised in a physical file that I can easily reference by my desk but which isn't susceptible to potential security breaches or even mundane issues like a software update that makes it no longer compatible with my devices.
Do you have an opinion on this type of concern, or is your campaign for password managers more focused at people who don't manage their passwords at all (and so e.g. risk using the same password for multiple sites, etc.)?
I do still recommend a password manager for you! Here are the advantages that come with a password manager even if you're already storing passwords in a relatively secure way:
Password Manager autofill is a safety feature - it prevents you from entering credentials in a phishing site; you set the passwords to only autofill at the correct domain so when you're directed to an incorrect domain they won't populate when you click the button, which is a warning that you're on the wrong website.
You should be creating unique answers to security questions (they are often revealed in breaches, and people use the same answers across accounts, which is basically the same as sharing passwords across accounts) which even people who are creating good passwords are likely not doing because writing them down or remembering them is arduous; this is much easier in a password manager with a notes section
You should be saving account recovery codes for your accounts, password managers are a good place to do this (in the notes section) and if you copy/paste them in the PWM notes there's no chance of a transposition error
You may need to use your passwords when you are not at your desk someday; a good password manager (Bitwarden my beloved) will allow you to install a browser extension and use an app on as many devices as you want and additionally has an website where you can securely access your passwords online if you don't have a device with the app or extension installed (the "what if my laptop and cellphone fell into the ocean while I'm traveling" scenario - you need to get into your email to get your boarding pass!)
Passwords that are easy to type are easy to crack; password managers generate and enter high-entropy, secure passwords effortlessly.
Security-wise, password managers are a single point of failure only if:
Someone gains access to your password for your password manager - if someone gets the encrypted data from your vault in a breach they still need to crack each password. You can prevent this by creating a single very secure, very easy to memorize password and protecting THAT rather than having to protect many passwords.
You don't have 2FA/MFA set up - you should have at least email MFA set up for your important accounts (with MFA recovery information in your PWM) as a security measure regardless (but you do really, really need to make sure that you've got recovery methods established for every account that you've got MFA set up on; MFA is important but is much scarier to me personally because that can genuinely really seriously lock you out of accounts, whereas if you lose access to your password manager you can still reset your passwords if you maintain access to your email)
(you can also export your vault into a csv and store that in an encrypted folder on your desktop, or print it out and put it in your underwear drawer if you're really worried)
It also doesn't have to be all or nothing! Don't try to move all your passwords to a password manager all at once! Do five to start and then just add more to the PWM as you find yourself logging in to accounts. Once you start using it, it's very easy and ends up removing a lot of stress and friction from the online experience.
Isn't the whole concern the penultimate point here, though? The "it's only a single point of failure if someone gets ahold of your password manager password" part...That "if" is the exact risk this asker was discussing. Having 1 password left up to a digital security company's protections is still a single point of failure that is catastrophic if it does fail. That's the exact thing that has always worried me about a password manager.
How does this not just collapse the variable risk and protection levels of multiple passwords for multiple sites into one risk for all my password protection? With my limited knowledge of password managers, I don't really understand how that single password doesn't just become a great big target, since it's essentially now just a universal password--access this one and you get into everything else. How is that any more protected than my other passwords?
Ah, I see where I may have answered the wrong question.
This is a misunderstanding of where the risk is.
Here's the important thing that everyone should know about encryption and password managers: company that makes your password manager does not have the password to your password manager.
In any moderately reasonable password manager, the company does not store your password, they store a *hash* of your password.
Think of your login password as an egg, and encryption algorithm as a recipe for cake. When you create your password, you are cracking an egg into a bowl; the password manager company doesn't look at the egg, it takes the egg and adds sugar and flour and butter and vanilla extract and puts it in a pan and puts the pan in the oven and then sticks that cake in the freezer. When you log in in the future (cracking another egg) the company follows the recipe again and compares what comes out of the oven to the cake they have on record from when you created your account.
If the data gets stolen from your password manager, it can only be decrypted by your egg. The password manager company doesn't have your egg, it has a cake, and nobody can reconstitute the egg from the cake. It is impossible, and lots of very smart people have done lots of very complicated math to demonstrate this.
This is something called Zero Knowledge Storage (or zero knowledge architecture/encryption). It's called that because the provider has zero knowledge of what they are handling; they do not have access to your information, they are simply holding the container that holds your information and making sure the proper cake is produced before they open the container. Nobody else's egg will make the correct cake, and again, nobody can get your egg out of the cake they have on record.
There are some password managers that are not very good at all and do not use this storage model; that's part of why I use and recommend Bitwarden - I know Bitwarden uses this storage model because Bitwarden is an open source product, which means that I can download and examine the source code on my own if I want to check (and if I don't want to check on my own, I can see what people in the Bitwarden forums are saying about it and those are the kinds of wonderful maniacs who DO go check on their own and will yell very loudly if they find a problem. I do not trust the security practices of tech companies, I do trust the security practices of open source security advocates).
With this storage model, the only way someone can get the password to your password manager is from you. If someone steals all of the data that Bitwarden has, they have not stolen a key to your bank vault and access to all of your secrets, they have stolen a bank vault full of other bank vaults.
So you are at no more risk of having your passwords stolen from a (good) password manager than you are at risk of having your passwords stolen from a notebook in your desk, and are in fact much safer (because of all the things mentioned in the first post).
Once people know this, they usually become concerned that they can't trust their password manager (after all some password managers have been breached and lost data and even stored passwords in plaintext before), and that is why I recommend bitwarden (or another password manager that security nerds have torture tested; PrivacyGuides.Org - a consumer privacy advocacy group - recommends Bitwarden as a private, secure password manager and notes that Bitwarden has a high bar for default security but also allows you to make it even MORE secure during setup)
With a good password manager, YOU are the single point of failure when it comes to accessing all of your passwords, not the password manager.
The point that I was making about needing to crack encryption is that the unencrypted data won't make it out of a good password manager (because they don't store unencrypted data) and this level of encryption is functionally impossible to crack. That's why the big risk isn't your password getting leaked, it's you getting phished (which autofill protects against!) or you forgetting your password (and losing access to your password manager, because they can't reset your password because they literally don't have access to decrypt your account - they warn you about this during setup).
This IS a concern for people who are in abusive living situations or who might have a really ridiculous amount of money that they talk about online; if your abusive parent or partner might find where you keep the password to your password manager, they can access all of your accounts. If a kidnapper can scare you into giving up the password to your password manager and that's where you keep the access for your crypto wallet, they will have access to your crypto (I'm assuming none of us have crypto here but "kidnapping and torturing people for their crypto passwords" has become an unpleasantly common news story). If you are in either of those situations I recommend A) don't write down the password to your password manager, just make it something you are sure you won't forget but someone else is unlikely to guess or B) don't fuck around with cryptocurrency.
Hopefully that makes sense and answers the point of failure question more thoroughly.
@ms-demeanor thank you a lot for the explanation of password managers, but could you comment on the value of using a standalone password manager as opposed to a built-in one in your browser? I like the idea of Bitwarden, but it causes login issues I don't have with Firefox's password manager.
See we all warned you when they went after "weird porn" that the beast doesn't stop hungering but somehow nobody listened
DDLC is not like my favorite game of all time but the fact that Google thinks its too dangerous to keep up after ten years is insane. Horror is typically the next to be sanitized because moral panics about horror are incredibly common.
You cannot establish a world with justice or equality in it by asking for everything that makes you uncomfortable to be censored and removes from the public. This is what practically every content ban within the last five or so years has been. "This makes me uncomfortable, it should be gone".
It's very white suburbanite behavior
First they came for the weird porn
Then they came for the horror
Then they came for heavy metal
Oh shit, it's my turn
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Trying to work out all the stylistic elements of Tepatic glyphs.
These are distinct from glyph radicals, which are the smallest distinctive meaningful elements of the writing system, which are combined to spell words.
What you see here mostly don’t have any meaning, or any sound, they’re just shapes.

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a thing that i've learned about consistent exercise is that it never gets any easier, you do cardio 3-4 times a week every week and it's acutely painful every single time and it sucks and you hate it and you keep on hating it from now until the moment you die. and yet somehow the alternative is worse, in the long term; do no cardio at all for long enough and that starts feeling pretty bad too. i'm starting to think that most things are like this. i don't really enjoy talking to people; there've been 6mo spans of my life where i've been able to entirely avoid any form of human interation in the same way there's been 6mo spans of my life in which i didn't feel like working out so i didn't. but it's probably not optimal, in the long run. plausibly the correct thing to do is to make sure i get my socializing reps in at least a few times a week every week for the rest of my life and every single time it'll suck and i'll hate it and i'll be acutely miserable and it'll never get any better and yet. and yet. plausibly the best way to live is in such a way that when you're on your deathbed your only thought is oh thank god that that's over with. never again.
Weird, very alien take to me. My first weeks of running were rough, shin splints and general pain. But improvement was very fast and clear, from run-walk to run-run, then improving pace.
Don't you guys get the "runners high" afterwards, or is that maybe just some people?
Personally I have not! I feel good afterwards but I would say it's the good feeling of having fulfilled a painful obligation which I don't have to do anymore for at least a day (and usually two), not a physically good feeling. Maybe I am the weirdo here but whatever is going on your attitude certainly seems like the more useful one.
Could just be non-universal experiences, most runners I've talked to agree about the nice "pleasant tired" feeling after exercise. If you just feel beat up after I can get not being eager for it.
I am more like OP; I assume they are exaggerating for comedic effect, but while exercising has made endurance increase, it never stops being a painful/boring/uncomfortable experience and while there is something one could call a "runners high" it is outweighed by the negative emotions around it. I personally think that is a big factor - there is a near-universal endorphin rush, but how that is experienced varies due to how it balances with the other things occurring to the body. I have even had times where that experience is inherently bad feeling because of how it interplays with my exhaustion.
(Biking was fun in its own right, independent of any exercising, and why it was peak fitness era for me - alas the poor back pain issues :/)
I feel like the basic biological drivers of preferences like this deserve more discussion, liking/hating exercise is pretty huge! And nobody seems to talk about why people are so different.
AI or be nice
Among all the takes I hear about what to do about AI, I think one I don’t usually hear is be nice to each other?
Because a lot of the appeal is not simply that AI will hand out far more information than any person, and nearly instantaneously, but because it is also a completely smooth, pleasant, controlled experience. People talk about “talking to real people” as if it’s a self-evidently superior experience that everyone must crave, but it can be crapshoot. Like walking into the jungle. It’s not just that you aren’t certain to get an answer, or have to wait for it, but you might also get an asshole.
The first time I built my computer, I didn’t know much. I ran into trouble and posted it on a web forum. The first response I got was an anonymous answer-free information-free “Lol that was stupid why did you do that?” This is the hazard of real people. (I did eventually get a real solution from a real person the next day, but it kind of makes you not want to bother asking, doesn’t it?)
Now this guy could have simply ignored my plea, and saved both him and myself time & energy, but apparently thought it was worth it to go out of his way to type back to me to insult me & still give me no information.
Even if you think that you prefer humans in the abstract, there are undoubtedly times when you arrive home late at night, & haven’t eaten, & you just want to fall in bed, & you still have work to do, and oh shit, I just realized I don’t know this but I need to. You figure you have 20 minutes or so to do this. And you could search for the answer, & you could try to find someone to ask, or ask online, but they might answer tomorrow or not at all, & you might have to get the full information from several different people / places. And some people would tell you, no one should have to be in this kind of situation in the first place because of late-stage capitalism or something something, but the fact is you are in it already.
People are grumpy, surly, rude, dumb, sarcastic clods. Now, in your already tired, bad day, you stand a high chance of simply being insulted and still left without any help. But you also absolutely know that you will NOT be insulted if you ask the free answer machine. You will have a completely polite, smooth, controlled experience with zero sass.
It won’t question your “just asking questions,” take it wrong somehow, or expect the question to be socially greased or padded somehow with introductions, greetings, or self-explanations. It will just build a file of all the info it has about you, but it probably knows all that anyway and has already sold it to Jeff Bezos.
Then you remember the last time you got trolled by some SNS troll.
There’s a reason you’re a loner who doesn’t talk to people.
So you ask the free answer machine! And exactly like that, you get a free answer, and a “Can I help you with anything else?” Information rains down on you, it all sounds plausible, it’s probably right, and all the other busy people aren’t going to check it, or just run it through the same machine anyway.
That felt great. You’re done. You zap your hot pocket and fall asleep peacefully.
So if you’re worried that people are finding machine interactions preferable to interpersonal interactions, the next time you have an opportunity, don’t be an asshole. Think about it the next time you are filled with rage and an urge to shout at an idiot online.
I wonder if the real threat is not that AI will learn to write like people, but that people will learn to write like AI.
I miss when I would get Tumblr asks that actually said things and weren't just digital panhandling scams.
If I was a sociologist, I would definitely be doing a study on the methods and language of charity scammers. Especially the use of emojis, and identification by copied messages vs stock phrases.
For example, these four are all the same, with only slight variation in #1:
(I actually have duplicates from some of the "self-identified" anons above.)
But these two anons share the same new stock phrases:
"days are heavy" / "days that feel impossibly heavy."
Fascinated with the random person who commented on this post saying they've reported me for "genocide denialism."
Not to put too fine a tin foil hat on it, but:
That is the kind of threat someone involved in these kinds of financial scams and the social engineering behind them *would* make! It's a threatening statement to the existence of my blog which usually means heightened fear/anxiety of the target, which makes people more likely to fall for a financial scam. Social shame and embarrassment are also heightened emotions! Bullying works! This would make an excellent social engineering counterpoint (if tugging on heartstrings doesn't work!) and might even be effective on many people!
Sure, you can search the supposed connected usernames those anons claimed and find out specifics that way — but not a single one of those screenshots I showed specifies what they're referring to! The IDENTICAL messages from four "different people" never actually mention what their "family's struggle" even is! There's zero fucking context in the space of those messages. They're all IDENTICAL. I literally cannot be committing denialism about anything specific because those asks don't actually say anything I could be denying. How does this person know that these anons aren't a recently impoverished Nigerian prince?
So now you're asking why don't I just click on the usernames and find out more details? Simple. Because they're fucking fraudsters who sent me the same message like, six times with 4 different usernames attached AS ANONS. Why as anons if they have their own blogs and could send the messages that way? SIMPLE AGAIN: because if they're not logged into the blog accounts, you could have whole teams of people copying and pasting these anon asks to various Tumblr users constantly, and you can probably just bypass the ask limits by changing VPNs or going incognito or something. This is a DEDICATED scam. Is it a bot? MAYBE! But that also would explain some of why it doesn't work *while logged in* to the blog accounts — because being anon probably makes it easier to focus on volume.
Anyways a fool and their money are soon parted.
While we're on the subject of the incredible gullibility some people display on these scams, I'd just like to remind everyone that most online scams these days are being run out of massive scam farms, which often employ human trafficking.
Falling for these isn't just an 'oopsy doopsy, you're out some money' sort of a thing. If you send money to obvious scammers and if you platform obvious scammers, you are very likely directly financially supporting modern day slavery. That's not an exaggeration, and I'm not being alarmist. Please read any of these articles on the subject if you don't believe me:
Tens of thousands of people from across Asia have been coerced into defrauding people in America and around the world out of millions of dol
A man was abducted by a Chinese gang and forced to work in a scam operation. He gathered financial information, photos and videos and shared
Traffickers are forcing thousands of people from across Asia to work in online scam centres.
Myanmar youth recount life inside a cyber-scam mill before a city’s fall brought the scheme crashing down.
This is what you are supporting when you send these people money. It's not a neutral act to give to these scammers; it's a horrible, evil act, because in most cases, it directly supports horrific exploitation. And if you really were fooled? If you gave to one of these scammers and you really had no idea what you were probably supporting? Then I'm sorry, but digging your heels in and insisting that the lies you were fed are the truth helps no one. Take your blinders off and face reality, and start doing better.
Curious of your thoughts on why stratified human societies are often patriarchal? I find it difficult to find information on this topic that isnt bioessentialist or misogynistic.
It is a mountain of social constructs and cultural adaptations heaped upon a single kernel of hard biological truth, which is 'human babies need human milk (or a nutritionally complete synthetic replacement)'.
1- Human infants are very needy among mammals, have a very long altricial period, and have big developing brains that need a lot of food to support. This requires near constant proximity with caretakers, and for most of human history, specifically caretakers who are lactating. We did not have the tools necessary to bring children past infancy without lactating (and thus recently pregnant) people having to devote a lot of their time to early child care. A baby does not survive without human milk, and nutritionally complete baby formula is a very recent invention. Prior to that point in history, any human being Can perform most of an infant's care, but only people who can lactate can keep them alive until they can be weaned (and Generally speaking, breastfeeding lasts longer when possible for practical reasons).
2- humans love sorting things into categories and recognizing patterns, this is an evolutionary trait that helps us survive the world as cultural animals, and it produces cultural constructs. Sex/gender/sexgender is one of them. Reproductive ability (and traits usually associated with it) is always taken into account because it's a big fucking deal when you're living at subsistence levels, it's how your kinship group and society Survives. You've got people who have ability to get pregnant via intercourse, and people who have the ability to induce pregnancy via intercourse. We get the root idea of 'man' and 'woman' based on these, and what primary and secondary sex characteristics are most commonly associated with these abilities (and what labor roles are associated with each reproductive role within a given system). The notions of 'man' and 'woman' are not always constructed in the same ways and their cultural definitions will always extend beyond reproductive functions and collections of sex characteristics (whether this is readily admitted or not), but reproductive functions are never wholly immaterial to sexgender construction.
3- humans have very high rates of infant mortality without modern medical care (about 50%), and we spent the vast majority of our history living under very acute subsistence pressures and creating cultural adaptations to meet them. This means that most adults in a given society Have to reproduce Multiple times to bring enough infants to adulthood for the sake of population replacement and a kinship group's subsistence needs, and this means most people who can get pregnant will spend much of their adult life pregnant or nursing (and thus tied to infant care). Gendered labor divisions are based around both a society's unique subsistence needs and moreso around immaterial ideas about gender, and are not all the same, but there Are broad commonalities to how we responded to the problems of 'half of our adults have to spend a huge chunk of their adult life pregnant or nursing and closely tied to infants', particularly the most obvious extension of 'women do most childcare in general'. Another common characteristic is that labor activities that are more flexible and can be more easily performed with a baby on or near one's person are more often going to become feminine labor (though this can mean a lot of things, women have been doing backbreaking agricultural labor and hauling water with babies on their backs since forever). Gendered division of labor in at least SOME form is ubiquitous (though may be much more flexible in some societies than others), and at its very basic roots is a culturally adaptive response to subsistence pressures.
4- patriarchal hegemony is a characteristic of settled agrarian societies, while foraging societies (a very large and diverse category) are the only ones in which gender egalitarianism and a lack of social stratification as a whole are a common (though not ubiquitous) feature. This is where it gets a little hazier and I've seen differing arguments as to why patriarchy basically always accompanies broader social stratification (and why matriarchal hegemonies are basically absent, with the few possible examples being Extremely debatable), but it Is a mechanism of a gender class developing and its labor being exploited in the same way that lower social classes develop and have their labor exploited. 'Does most domestic work/childcare' is the most universal trait of feminine labor division (and demands on women in settled agrarian societies are high and also have commonalities across unrelated societies, you almost always see textile production or an equivalent being women's work), this is perhaps the form of labor that is more exploitable due to reduction of a person's mobility and having one hard biological factor (nursing) tied into it. Food production in settled agrarian states is something that MUST be done, lower classes develop around people being tied to that labor and exploited for it. Feeding babies with milk (and most capable adults spending a lot of their adult life pregnant/nursing) is something that MUST be done, the people tied to that labor (and associated subsistence labor activities that have been attached to this one) are exploited for it. Arguably, true matriarchies are absent (or are exceptionally rare) because the ONLY biologically innate aspect underlying gendered labor is "baby need milk", there is no such exploitable necessity tied into the 'man' gender role.
It's obviously a lot more complex in practice because you simply Cannot extricate the hard subsistence needs from the subjective cultural features, none of these things developed in the sort of simple linear fashion outlined here, ideas of "womanhood" and "manhood" are always interactive with reproductive traits but have neverrrrr actually just been about whether you are physiologically capable of bearing a child or not. Manhood and womanhood are constructs that occur in non-patriarchal societies, but when analyzing patriarchy this evolutionary angle is not very valuable, it's necessary to engage "man" and "woman" as classes, and to recognize the social constructs of "sex", "male and female", "man and woman" as being built around maintenance of patriarchal hegemony. Being a member of a feminized class under patriarchy has very, very little to do with the distant subsistence-oriented roots of gendered labor division.
But this provides us a very solid model for why gendered labor divisions are ubiquitous to begin with and why patriarchy is the gendered hegemony that emerges from them, one which does not require inaccurate bioessentialist assessments of sexgender being Real, women being 'made for' domestic labor, misogyny being an innate behavioral drive of """males""", etc. Gendered labor divisions are, at their VERY roots, pragmatic cultural adaptation to subsistence pressures that were common to all of humanity before having ways to feed infants besides human milk, with a million other cultural constructs on top of that; patriarchy first emerges as exploitation of this labor divide.
(I can't emphasize enough how monumental baby formula is as an invention. Modern improvements to agriculture also relieved a lot of these same subsistence pressures (especially the degree of Need for most adults to reproduce), and things like sewing machines and dishwashers were monumental in the context of women's liberation after untold centuries of exploited domestic labor. But before baby formula there is Some inescapable necessity for reproductive (not gendered per se) labor division, and in conditions where baby formula is accessible there is absolutely None.)

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Brownie
This animal is almost seven years old. When she was barely one she fell from a tree and hurt her backside near her tail. She had been lost for a whole day a few years ago, but today…this was all surpassed. As usual on Sunday mornings, I went to the kitchen to make breakfast. This tradition has been going on for nearly twenty years, only changed for holidays, vacations, and the occasional work…
So relieved, I thought the cat was dead
somebody posted this Calvin and Hobbes strip and i cannot overstate just how topical this fuckin thing is
Since when has Calvin & Hobbes not produced stuff that turned out to be topical?