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IÂ donât know about you, but I tend to get myself in embarrassing situations, some not even my fault but iâm left to deal with it.Â
Itâs even worse with people.
I recently heard some great advice from a family member: â(embarrassment) is a sensation, and all sensations are to be enjoyed.âÂ
And i know what youâre thinking. Why should I enjoy embarrassment? My own personal answer for this when I asked myself is that itâs better than feeling sorry for yourself.Â
So thatâs tip number one:
Donât feel sorry for yourself!
It takes so much practice, I know. This tip is along the wavelength of âlaugh at your embarrassmentâ, but with a twist.Â
Next Tip: Confront the situation instead of hiding.
Countless of times I try to hide in my own shame somewhere alone, away from peopleâs eyes. But sometimes the moment doesnât allow for it, and then youâre stuck. So try to analyze whatâs happening.
According to some science test, the best way to deal with an embarrassing moment is to use humor. So play those jokes and gestures like your life depends on it.
Next Tip: Apologize and then just let it go.
Depending on my mood I tend to either brush embarrassing moments briskly off like some sort of lawyer in a TV show or apologize a billion times for it.Â
I and you should try to be a mix, a balance of both. Apologize and let it go. It turns out that apologizing all the time (even after the event occurred) makes you focus on the past and not the present. Crazy logical, right? Anyway, you donât owe anything to any one of the people there (unless the event was REALLY bad), and neither to yourself, so pick yourself up!
Next Tip: Allow yourself to be flawed.Â
Hey, I know what itâs like to beat yourself up about some little thing and make it into a big statement on how youâre a dumb-dumb human.Â
Everyone gets embarrassed from time to time; what matters is how you deal with these situations.Â
Youâre stronger than you know.
Next Tip: Talk it out.Â
With people, perhaps a friend or even one of your âwitnessesâ, or even just to the mirror. You just need to vocalize it instead of letting your mind dwell on it.Â
Maybe your confidant will give the moment new perspective (which often happens to me!) or a positive twist to it.
And the final tip: Stop worrying what people think.
If youâre by yourself and you trip on something, you laugh at yourself. If youâre in public and you trip, you tend to look around to see if anybody just saw that. And god forbid if you tripped in front of your crush.
But hey, just act like youâre alone. Shake it off, laugh it off. Because people tend to be focusing on themselves more than you.
As humans, we greatly exaggerate our flaws. But to just not care and tell a joke about it does a whole great deal more than you realise.Â
And guess what? If youâre embarrassed in front of people, then you obviously have something to lose. That means you have something with them in the first place, right? Thatâs a celebration in itself.
I hope you enjoyed this mini-essay! TLDR, embarrassing moments suck, but youâre stronger than you think, and as the age-old saying goes: just laugh it off.
If you want my advice to a question such as âhow to cope with embarrassmentâ, then just write a question in my inbox thingy (donât really know the tumblr slang â:D) and iâll see what i can do. Until next time, readers!
so recently I may have had a fling going on, but as usual it never works (may I just add; I rarely have any romantic flings...and I'm 18. apart from the weird mini relationships that I had in primary and secondary school. And I'm talking about the type that only lasted 3 days lol)
so what's been bothering lil ol me? well as I was saying I had a fling. This guy mike*Â at a club we both go to (a drama club) and we got along very well. I mean very well! we would walk back to my car and speak for 2 HOURS!! (no joke we stood by my car speaking about random shit) so ww did what any normal, awkward couple of teens did when they begin to like each other. we planned a date.Â
date(s)** was good and after we watched films together on a sofa, we kissed in my car as I dropped him off (lol funny thing was my foot was on the clutch the whole time!) it was a while since I kissed someone (my family holiday to span where I kissed some random guy after staring at each other in the pool over the course of a few days... as you do) and IT..WAS...AWKWARD!! lol. I do this thing where I don't really take in the situation until 3 hours later when Im staring at my bedroom celling. but I really liked it, I liked the attention. I liked him, the way he made me comfortable and special (the usual).Â
there was a slight bit of doubt in my head, silly me. I sometimes didn't feel a sexual attraction, I think it was because he was a lil goofy...or his hair :/
So you're still reading and asking, what went wrong? well... I'm asking the same thing. he just all of a sudden stopped giving me attention. no messages, no pictures (of his face... ya nasty) I kept asking him to meet me but he didn't show.Â
any ideas?
he legit just ghosted me, apart from the occasional reply to messages I force! and even when he does it sounds depressing âyeh, kkâ (as we speak he still hasn't replied to my messaged :( .) I'm angry yet sad at the same time, I want to see him and speak to him. what do I do?!!
Do I confront him? ask him if he likes me, like I like him. (so many likes in one sentence lol)Â or do I ignore him and risk any type of future at all.Â
well there you go, I'm hopeless with love
*name changed for privacy, and if they saw this how embarrassing would that be lol. (btw mike if ur reading this...hmu)
** we met up a lot, only had 2 real dates of dinner and cinema.
well hello there. I have decided to create a blog, as any normal teenager who's heart was recently broken does. and may I add I'm currently living through an pandemic (CONVID- 19) so I'm currently stuck at home and this is something I can do to express myself, reflect on life and I'm also bored as shit lol.
so what do I plan to achieve? well I don't know, maybe I can entertain who ever views this. Maybe I can clear my mind or solve all my problems. lets find out.
when I write them I will post my âblogsâ on my profile.Â
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It is very hard to get a photo of your nearly 15 year old. Iâm impressed that I managed to get her hands! . . . . #teenagerproblems #lifewithteenagers #cantgetaphoto #blackandwhite #blackandwhitephotography #hands #phone #nearly #expatlife #britinusa #britinmaryland https://www.instagram.com/p/Bsgey44F9uU/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12qj0j0kaa5mw
So, Iâve officially caved, and joined the masses of people who choose to spend much of their breathing lives on tumblr. Iâm pretty sure Iâm majorly late to this game, but I have a lot of thoughts and access to the internet, so at this point its really why the hell not?
Iâm also bored, and its the summer and like many young adults that have came before me, its about time I turned to social media.Â
And tumblr is free and really easy to use. And I have always wanted a blog.Â
I love books, beautiful people, and charging in on the mess we call life. I guess here I am going to post about all that? Find others who share similar opinions?
