#self relfection

2025.07.11 | For most of us, pain and rejection has become so familiar that we don't know how to react to the opposite. Just as we strive to be generous givers; let us also try to be generous receivers. Be mindful of your reactions to the positive things that come your way.

Don't devalue yourself by rejecting praise from someone or belittling a Thank You from someone else. And don't hold yourself back from enjoying fun, beautiful and happy moments.

One of the hardest thing in life, is deciding when to push harder and when to give up. When you do give up, the hardest thing is deciding where to go next. Feeling as if a big part of you which used to give you a sense of purpose, lost. Feeling as if you’re not good enough in something you used to dream of doing and if you’re not even good in something that you love, what else can you do? The fear of failing again and the fear of venturing into the unknown.

If anyone tells you that you gossip, you never accept it. But the truth:- yes, most us gossip. Gossiping isn’t right or wrong. It’s just a word that means ‘talking about someone’s life without their knowledge’. Some people may consider it wrong, some people consider it as fun.  A group of friends gossip about you, they say some pretty mean stuff. you would probably feel hurt, backstabbed and you would think they are ‘fake friends’. Not only you, i would probably feel the same way too. If a person trusts you and tells about what’s going on in their lives, try not to tell it to anyone else. They have trusted you and they believe that you won’t pass the information to someone else... Empathize for the person you’re gossiping about, put yourself in their shoes. Would you like it if someone else talks about the way he/she talks about you? I know i would definitely not like the way if someone spoke about me like that.

I am not sure how many of you are the type to hold back and never let go, never vent, never express your feelings etc. But if you are then we are a like. So I was thinking yesterday to myself when I was wondering why I was not good enough for the man I fell in love with, write him a letter, tell him how you feel. The only problem with that is, I would never have enough courage to do that. SOOooo, I thought to myself, write the letter in a diary or a journal and just keep it for yourself. But why stop there, write a letter every day or every time you need to or write to anyone you want. Vent...let go... SO that is what I am going to do. All the names in my blogs will be fictional or non informational to protect the privacy of my subjects ...Lol. Lets see how this goes!! Wish me luck!

Sincerely,