YOU MUST INCLUDE YOUR EXACT BODY AGE. THE ASK WILL BE DELETED WITHOUT BEING POSTED IF YOU DO NOT.
"ADULT" and "MINOR" are not acceptable. Neither is an age range.
There's never enough kin/source call blogs that will do problematic sources and calls...
Please keep in mind that just because I allow it in a call, does not mean I support it. I will not elaborate on whether I support anything listed - including but not limited to: proship, transids, radqueers, complex labels, non-traumagenic systems, etc. I won't take questions about anything.
Also, sorry guys. It's very long under the cut.
What I accept in a call:
⠀⠀‣⠀kins/introjects of problematic characters
⠀⠀‣⠀kins/introjects of problematic people
⠀⠀⠀⠀―⠀meaning: irl people; YouTubers, actors, historical figures, etc.
⠀⠀‣⠀calls for relationships, interests, memories, etc. that might be "problematic"
⠀⠀⠀⠀―⠀meaning: age gaps, incestuous, toxic, abusive (just stay safe and consensual), etc.
⠀⠀‣⠀kins/introjects who use "transids" or are "radqueer"
⠀⠀‣⠀kins/introjects who identify as proship
⠀⠀‣⠀irls, kins, introjects, all identities are accepted (including those who aren't "problematic")
⠀⠀‣⠀any system origin
⠀⠀‣⠀anyone, as long as you aren't an asshole
In calls, please include:
⠀⠀―⠀name
⠀⠀―⠀age
⠀⠀―⠀age-range for responses
⠀⠀―⠀source (un-abbreviated and the full name of the person/character you are sourced from)
⠀⠀―⠀who you're sourced from (full name)
⠀⠀―⠀who you're looking for
⠀⠀―⠀how to contact you
(I will not answer a call if you don't include age and source. I will not accept "minor" or "adult", sorry. I occasionally forget this rule myself.)
Optional to include:
⠀⠀―⠀an explanation of your main memories/who you are/how connected to your source you are
⠀⠀―⠀whether you support/identify as non-traumagenic systems, proshipping, radqueers, transids, etc.
⠀⠀―⠀system origin
⠀⠀―⠀ids you identify with
⠀⠀―⠀any other information you feel is relevant
Include only one source per ask, please. There is no limit to the amount of asks you can submit. Just keep it to one source per one ask. I'll tag everything with "kin" to keep the tagging system simpler, unless you specify that you are a fictive.
⠀⠀―⠀example: #Psychocuties #Masacrik kin
Also, please wait at least a week before re-submitting a call.
Calls of systems looking for friends will be tagged as "system looking for friends". Additionally, 18+ calls will be tagged "adult calls" and -18 calls will be tagged "minor calls". (Although I frequently forget this tag).
Reminder:
⠀⠀―⠀I will not engage in any discourse. This blog was made solely to provide a safe space for anyone with a problematic source or problematic memories. And that means anyone. This is why I will not answer any questions about my own stances and beliefs. Everyone is safe here.
DNI:
⠀⠀―⠀My DNI is quite literally just don't be an asshole. Don't be a bodily adult (18 years old and over) searching for a bodily minor (under 18 years old); the reverse applies, too. Stick to your bodily age range, please (Note. This does not mean you can't be 17 and okay with 16-18 replying or something. Just keep it to your bodily age range). This DOES include "pro-contact" for the top three paraphilias. Those people will be blocked immediately.
⠀⠀―⠀I will not respond to negative speech whatsoever. I will just block the blog or delete what was said.
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While I take this brief interlude on my blog, I would like to make something abundantly clear that I have had others inquiring about-- I will never turn away problematic or ‘antagonist’ fictionkin and fictives.
I have seen you pushed to the wayside without anyone allowing you to get your foot in the door, or taking the time to understand your story. It's a shame because I have met so many wonderful kins who hesitate to interact with their own communities, and if I shut them out, I would have missed out on some genuinely wonderful interactions.
To the HABITs of Everyman HYBRID, the Andys and Ashleys of The Coffin of Andy and Leyley, the Kevins of Welcome to Nightvale, and the Jonah Magnuses of The Magnus Archives, I want YOUR STORY. I want to understand your experiences, your memories but most of all I want you to know that you aren't alone. Whether you're a slasher from a horror film or a protagonist from a source material that has gained a reputation.. I would like to hear you out, to understand you in your entirety because I too have been marked by something horrific, and it has defined me my whole life.
I want you to know that while it may feel impossible to stop that feeling, maybe we can all peer into the unknown together, and find joy in this life in spite of previous ones.
i want to be proud of my identity but i feel such guilt from it. i know my actions in canon (/possible past life) aren't really my own, but still it's like. Damn dude kind of the entire point of william afton is all the shit he did. how could i be proud of being that. How can i tell someone with full confidence that i am THAT cruel man. How is it that i still want (to an extent) to be perceived as HIM?
and if i don't have a past life as him, and i don't identify as him on a psychological or physical level either, i feel like that makes me seem worse because it's like i picked to be him just cause he's my favorite character. (since i don't know what specific level i id as him on, so im literally just id-ing as him because it "feels right") but i didnt pick this, i dont wanna be him 😭
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You don’t have to worry about being banned for seemingly no reason and without explanation, because our staff is very lenient, understanding, and always open to communication.
We have PluralKit and Tupperbox for systems and kinnies to keep track of their switches and kinshifts. If you’re looking for canonmates, you can make a canon call on our server, and who knows, perhaps you’ll find the person you’re looking for.
We’re still very new and are willing to adapt to and accomodate our community, so if you have any suggestions, feel free to share them.
If you’re interested, we’ll be glad to have you on our server!
Update: I no longer own the server, so unfortunately, I can’t share more invites. Please, contact @haunted-here instead.
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Sometimes I'm just. Fucking sick and tired of the whole "oh if you associate with Harry Potter in any way or if you bring it up I assume you're a horrible person" thing I see on (kind of just) Tumblr. Yeah. I know JKR is horrible. Yeah, I know her books have racist, antisemitic, pro-slavery, and she's homophobic and transphobic and a terf.
My main fictotype is Severus Snape. Who already is a controversial character, ignoring the drama of the series as a whole. Both because he's abusive and his arc is pretty horribly written, and because so much of the fandom doesn't seem to be able to see the nuance of the conflict that is him vs the Marauders, and one is completely evil or something-- and there's literally pro and anti tags.
Do you know how fucking horrible this feels? My MAIN fictotype, my FIRST fictotype, is one I cannot talk about without feeling the need to constantly say "OH BUT I DONT SUPPORT JKR AND I KNOW SHE'S HORRIBLE" and "OH I KNOW MY FICTOTYPE IS HORRIBLE" or some other fucking shit like this.
I get to hear about how I'm both awful as a person for something I have no fucking control over and I get to hear about how even being in remote proximity of the media he is from immediately makes me a horrible person even though I'VE NEVER GIVEN JKR MONEY. I've even seen posts like "oH iF yOu EvEn EnGaGe In FaNcOnTeNt I aSsUmE yOu'Re TrAnSpHoBiC". Like. I'm sorry? I'm not even allowed THAT now? I'm sorry, but you can fucking pry O Mine Enemy and Hogwarts Hexad out of my DEAD. FUCKING. HANDS.
I sometimes don't even think I have the right to complain about this because even problematic fictionfolk are given the sideeye in our own community. I can almost never request kinhelp related things for this 'type and my source is on blacklists of some kincords. If not, we're fucking told to just "source separate" or not talk about ourselves or to suppress those things about ourselves or some other thing.
Sigh. I don't know what this post is. I'm just fucking tired. Sorry my main kintype isn't someone palatable I guess.
THIS IS A PRO/COMSHIP/KIN SAFE SPACE. DISCRETION IS ADVISED AT INTERACTION.
DEAD DOVE DO NOT EAT.
Everything is under the cut! (There's a lot to scroll past)
This is a source calling blog! It is directed for kins, fictives and IRLs alike who may have problematic memories or sources.
This blog provides:
Source calling ; Searching for source mates. - Template will be added at the end of this post. This MUST be followed.
Confessions ; Source/Memory confessions. - These can be used to just get something off your chest, however if you want to rant/vent put TWs/CWs and a vent warning.
Stimboards ; 3 by 3 GIF post based on one theme. - Please be specific! It can be character, source or ship based! Feel free to request something I haven't mentioned, it may be denied though.
Playlists ; you want some bangers with a theme? — State what you're looking for, vibes, theme, genre, and what you may not want! If you do not specify you do not want smooth jazz you are at the mercy of smooth jazz for example!
Classpecting ; Class + Aspect in a Homestuck sense — ever wondered what yours would be? Give us some details on how you handle situations, who you are as a person ( fictive / kin / etc. ), etc. etc. !
Pendulum Readings ; yes or no? — Ask your yes or no question and we will ask one of the pendulums!
Aesthetic Boards ; 3 by 3 GIF/still image post based on one or more themes. - You can be specific or give a loose idea and trust the process. Can be characters, ships, aesthetics, sources.
Web Graphics Boards ; 3 by 3 (sometimes) GIF/still image post based on the prompt given. - Again, you can be specific or give a loose idea. Preferably no characters, but sources are okay. Aesthetics, colors, themes, all good.
Shitty Doodles ; a silly, silly drawing — send in your request for a drawing. 1 subject preferred, 2 max. You can specify your prompt but we do not guarantee good quality ! 5 requests at a time allowed, check the notification below to see if slots are currently open!
CURRENT SLOTS OPEN: 5/5
RULES
#1 ;; Be nice! Don’t harass anyone for any reason. If you DO NOT LIKE THIS CONTENT BLOCK US. This blog is a safe space for those who identify with problematic sources and or views, antis or those who just do not agree have plenty of safe spaces and we request you DNI.
#2 ;; We accept any form of call even if it may be considered problematic. But please keep yourself safe, do not use this blog to put yourself in danger. Anonymous is RECOMMENDED but not necessary. - Not all requests on this blog have to be considered "problematic"
#3 ;; Source/fictional age gaps are A-Okay but IRL ones are NOT. Minors should only be interacting with minors and majors only with majors for safety. (Example; Body age: 19 Looking for: anyone over 18.) If ages are not in calls I will ask for resubmission or it will be deleted.
#4 ;; There is no limit on how many entries you send and you may send them one after the other (they just won't be posted at the same time). Even if you have multiple kins/etc from one source, only one will be tagged. (On the note of tagging, all problematic calls will be tagged as such so they will not meet a super wide audience - this is for the comfort of others and safety of you)
#5 ;; All questions, requests, and calls may be asked in the ask box! Because other people may have similar questions.
Calls should be sent in Asks using the following template.
CALLS;;
Full name:
Source:
Age: (Required)
Who you're looking for:
DNI:
Extra info:
Your @ if you want it included (this may be your main or your alt!)
STIMBOARDS;;
Please include types of GIFs you do and don't want! Eg. Slime, calligraphy, or specific objects/animals etc.
Be as specific as you can! Such as what emotions you want to convey.
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the urge to shift realities as some of my kintypes because i want to make up for stuff that i caused back then and to avoid doing the same mistakes all over again
