#poly representation

It truly is something special that a polyship got popular enough to make Tumblr's top 100 ships, especially since that polyam representation and recognition are sorely lacking in media and in fandom.

Even for all of the great strides made in onscreen queer relationships, you'll find that polyam relationships get nowhere near enough representation, recognition, and respect.

That's why Deltarune Chapters 3 and 4 were such a huge deal for polyam rep, especially since one of its characters actually formed a polycule: Rouxls Kaard with Elnina and Lanino. Even though the Weatherkaard polycule didn't quite work out, it was still a huge deal in raising awareness and acceptance of polyam relationships, which in turn led to Krusielle's surge in popularity.

Even though, at first glance, the plot mainly focuses on Susie's romance with Noelle, it's also clear that the two girls share a strong bond and an extremely deep connection with Kris, so much so that some have even speculated and argued that Noelle and Susie will end up forming in a romantic relationship with Kris (or at very least a queerplatonic relationship as others argue that Kris is aroace/aromantic)!

i was feeling really disheartened and sad by all the hate poly people were getting not too far back and now im overjoyed at seeing an unabashedly poly ship with no men whatsoever getting so much love within a fandom

dont let anyone tell you representation isnt important, seeing bits of myself in these ships is so deeply important to me even if it isnt canon

I love poly people who only have one partner. I love poly people without partners. I love poly people with monogamous partners.

I love poly people who set clear boundaries and make sure their partners feel loved and not cheated on. I love poly people who communicate with their partners and make sure everything they do is consensual. I love once-monogamously aligned poly people who come out to their original partner before getting more than one, rather than cheating on them.

I love nonbinary poly people. I love trans poly people and cis poly people.

I love poly lesbians, poly gay men, poly pan people. Poly people with queerplatonic poly relationships.

I love people new to exploring polycules and poly relationships and so too do I love people who've been in this mess for years.

Older poly people, younger poly people, I love them all.

I love aroacespec poly people. Polyplatonic people polyamorous people polysexual people I love you.

People questioning their legitimacy as a poly person (spoiler: almost always legit!) by goodness I love you.

I love people who have poly as just one point on their wonderfully long resume of queer identities. I love people experimenting with poly identities - testing the waters a little, making sure it's safe. The closest thing to cishets you can get when it comes to poly people? You can bet I love them too.

Poly lesbian quad tries to make a baby (part 2 out of 3).

Part 1

Part 3

Polyamory is often embraced within pagan and witchcraft communities due to shared values of personal freedom, authenticity, and conscious relationships. Many pagans reject rigid societal norms, including traditional monogamy, in favor of relationship models that honor consent, communication, and emotional honesty. The mythologies and deities in various pagan paths often reflect diverse and non-monogamous expressions of love, further normalizing these dynamics. For witches and pagans, polyamory can be both romantic and a spiritual practice—rooted in love without ownership and a deeper understanding of self and others. Here we will explore why polyamory is so prevalent within these spaces.

Cultural and Philosophical Alignment

• Emphasis on Personal Freedom: Many pagan and witchcraft traditions prioritize autonomy, personal power, and nonconformity to mainstream societal norms. Polyamory, which challenges conventional ideas about relationships and ownership in love, aligns with these values.

• Rejection of Patriarchal Norms: A lot of modern pagan paths, especially goddess-centered or feminist witchcraft, critique patriarchal systems—including monogamy as it has often been practiced. Polyamory can be seen as a form of resistance to these inherited structures, offering more egalitarian and intentional forms of connection.

• Historical and Mythological Precedent: In many ancient pagan traditions, gods and goddesses had multiple lovers or relationships that weren't constrained by modern monogamous ideals. Pagans drawing from these myths see polyamory as a natural or sacred expression of love and desire.

Community Ethos

• Acceptance and Inclusivity: Witch and pagan communities often serve as havens for LGBTQIA+ individuals, neurodivergent folks, and others who live on the margins of mainstream culture. Polyamory fits into this inclusive ethos, where diverse expressions of identity and love are welcomed rather than judged.

• Open Communication and Intentionality: Both polyamory and pagan spiritual paths emphasize conscious living—making choices intentionally and communicating openly. In ethical polyamory, these same principles are crucial for navigating multiple relationships in a healthy, honest way.

Spiritual Benefits of Ethical Polyamory

• Deepened Self-Knowledge: Navigating multiple intimate relationships challenges individuals to confront jealousy, insecurity, and emotional triggers. This often leads to accelerated personal growth and spiritual introspection.

• Expanded Capacity for Love: Ethical polyamory pushes the idea that love is not a finite resource. It invites a more abundant mindset, where love is shared without diminishing its value, echoing spiritual concepts of universal love and interconnection.

• Sacred Relationships as Mirrors: In many spiritual traditions, relationships are seen as mirrors for self-growth. Having multiple partners means having multiple reflections—each showing different aspects of the self, catalyzing healing and awareness.

• Non-Attachment and Ego Work: Letting go of possessiveness and embracing fluid connection can be a profound spiritual practice. Ethical polyamory can foster non-attachment, helping practitioners reduce ego-driven desires and focus on genuine connection.

Polyamory is more common in pagan and witch communities because it harmonizes with values of personal freedom, sacred sexuality, and conscious living. When practiced ethically, it becomes more than a relationship style—it becomes a spiritual path in itself, challenging the practitioner to grow in love, honesty, and self-awareness.

Two Husbands One Wife aka Sannin Fufu

Japan - Romcom

Staring: Asaka Kôdai, Asakura Aki & Suzuki Taiga

When a woman asks her ex to join in a three way marriage with her current boyfriend, he agrees to a trial. But in order for this arrangement to be successful, the three of them will have to overcome the challenges of jealousy, intimacy, and social stigma that are the result of their unique relationship.

Not sure what we were expecting, but it was NOT a series narrated by a dead pet bunny. This series was EXCELLENT! We were hesitant to start this series and were suspicious about how they would portray a poly relationship. But we got a really touching story about love and found family. We really enjoyed the characters and their relationships with each other. This was a surprise fav among our recent watches and we highly recommend this unique love story.

Ending: 🥰 Happy

Tears: Some emotional moments, but our eyes were dry.

Main Couple Throuple: poly relationship

Romance Scenes: Were there any? Discussions and implied sex, sweet kiss.

Flavor of Scenes Story: Not really any scenes, but not vanilla by default.

Y/n POV (final)

The steady beep of the heart monitor grounded you before anything else did. One long tone, then another. White light burned behind your eyelids, and when you finally forced them open, the ceiling tiles swam into focus.

Hospital.

Your body felt wrecked heavy, sore, stitched together with pain but you weren't alone.

Olivia sat beside the bed, shoulders slumped forward, her hands folded like she was afraid to move. There were dark circles under her eyes, her hair pulled back hastily, no armor, no command presence. Just her.

Watching you breathe.

When your fingers twitched, her head snapped up instantly.

"Hey," she whispered, standing too fast, chair scraping softly. "Hey... easy. You're safe."

Your throat burned. "You stayed."

Her mouth trembled. "I'm not going anywhere."

Silence stretched between you, thick with everything unspoken. Finally, she exhaled shakily and sat back down, taking your hand like she needed the contact as much as you did.

"I owe you an apology," she said quietly. "For all of it."

You frowned slightly. "Liv—"

"No," she said, gently but firmly. "Let me say this." Her thumb brushed over your knuckles, grounding herself. "I pushed you away when I was scared. I let my guilt, my history, and... Alex... cloud everything. I made you feel like you weren't enough, like you were something temporary."

Tears burned your eyes.

"You never were," she continued. "You were the one constant. And I treated you like you were expendable." Her voice cracked. "I am so sorry."

You swallowed hard. "I didn't need perfect. I just needed you to choose me."

Her eyes filled instantly. "I know. And I will spend the rest of my life making that right—if you'll let me."

Before you could answer, a familiar voice broke the moment.

"Well," Fin said from the doorway, arms crossed, a soft smile on his face. "Looks like someone finally woke up."

You smiled weakly. "You look terrible."

He chuckled. "Yeah, well, you should see the other guys." His gaze softened when he looked at you. "You scared the hell outta us."

"Thank you," you said quietly. "For saving me."

Fin nodded once, serious now. "You're family. Always." He glanced at Olivia knowingly. "I'll give you two a minute. Don't break each other again, alright?"

"Noted," Olivia murmured.

After Fin left, the door opened again—slower this time.

Alex stood there.

She looked tired. Older somehow. Her eyes flicked to Olivia, then to you.

"Hey," she said gently.

Your chest tightened, but Olivia didn't let go of your hand.

Alex stepped closer. "I just... wanted to say I'm sorry. For my part in all of this. I didn't realize how much damage I was doing until it was already done."

Olivia straightened. "We both made mistakes."

Alex nodded. "I think... we were holding onto something familiar instead of something right." She looked at you. "And you didn't deserve to be caught in the middle."

You took a breath. "I don't hate you. I just need honesty. From both of you. We've already made our amends. I just needed to know where we all stand."

There was a long pause.

Olivia squeezed your hand. "We're not ready to fix everything," she said softly. "Not yet. Too much just happened. Too many wounds."

Alex gave a sad smile. "But maybe... one day. When it's not about guilt or fear."

"One day," Olivia agreed.

Alex stepped back. "I'll let you rest." She hesitated, then added, "I'm glad you're alive."

When the door closed, the room felt quieter. Lighter.

Just you and Olivia again.

She leaned forward, resting her forehead against your hand. "Right now," she whispered, "it's just us. No pressure. No promises we can't keep. Just healing. Together."

You nodded, tears slipping free. "That's all I want."

She kissed your knuckles, reverent and slow. "Then that's what we'll do."

You closed your eyes, listening to the steady beep of the monitor, her breathing beside you alive, present, real.

For the first time in a long time, you weren't afraid of what came next.

Because she was here.

And she wasn't letting go.