#pluto 3h

Placements that downplay their looks out of fear of being perceived

venus-ruled people (taurus or libra rising)

｡♡˚ Being perceived well is a very high priority for these folks, whether they are ready to admit it or not. It's difficult when there's also harsh venus/asc aspects involved because it can make these people hyper-aware of others and how they're showing up in the world. They notice everything -- tone shifts, glances, snarky comments, noises, etc. This hyperawareness makes them want to become people pleasers and not really lean into their own preferences, identity, style, etc.

｡♡˚ When these people dress up, it's intentional and precise, but with a purpose. It's as though they're not willing to give anyone a chance to see them out of their "element" or curated persona, so they plan everything that they wear to stay socially attuned. If they are withdrawn and stop trying, its because they can't stand being evaluated by people.

｡♡˚ I think it's fair to say that venusian ruled people deal with a fair share of judgment, especially surrounding look and presentation. The attention could actually be envied by others -- people assume it's good attention, but I've noticed these people end up feeling really exposed, actually. It can be lonely if people only perceive you one way, and it's the way that isn't even... you. So, sometimes, these people stop "trying" to avoid unwanted attention. I think it's actually wild how frequent these people have "pretty" privilege to the outside world, but that privilege really hasn't gotten them but but feelings of invasion in some way, shape, or form.

moon/venus negatively aspecting asc

｡♡˚ Now it depends on what's being aspected. But for instance, having venus conjunct/square/opposite ascendant might really crave being perceived, or being seen for exactly who they think they are. The problem is that this sometimes doesn't translate irl. These people can "miss the mark" when it comes to how they're being perceived. They might feel intense desires of approval from others, which can lead them to either overcompensate with their looks OR totally withdraw from trying. They could feel like rejection is right around the corner if they try.

｡♡˚ It's a bit different for people with moon conjunct/square/opposite asc because they're afraid of how people will react to them, especially if they show up as their true authentic selves. They can really struggle with self-expression in fear of not being understood, felt, or accepted. Vulnerability is not easy for this placement. They make some really good art though.

Saturn-ruled or Saturn 1H people

｡♡˚ These people tend to really shrink themselves to avoid unwanted criticism from others, and this is because it could feel like they've lived most of their lives under a microscope. It can feel like their every move and motive has been studied, analyzed & judged right out of the womb. They have learned very early on how to avoid the spotlight and not trust attention, so these people could have an attachment to muted colors, nudes, beige aesthetics, etc. They can even find it a challenge to incorporate actual colors into their wardrobes and it's not necessarily because they care about what people think, but because of these early life patterns they learned as children.

Neptune-ruled or neptune in 1H, 7H, 8H, 10H, 11H

｡♡˚ Ugh, these people. The problem is that they want to show themselves off to the world. They are gifted, talented, and beautiful -- the problem is that they are very seldom appreciated when they are completely and entirely themselves around others. People are very physically attracted to them, but these individuals sort of set off a projection of who other people want the neptune person to be in their minds. For instance: if the neptune person is quiet and a little shy or detached, the person might perceive neptune's actions as uninterest, aggression, or even seduction. It can get weird. If these people stop putting effort into their looks it's because of feeling objectified, or like people do not really like them for who they are, but for who people think they are based on their physical appearance or energy. It's not just about looks, though. These people can even gatekeep their real personalities if they feel rejection in this area. Sadly, these folks could think that people may never really like them for who they really are.

Pluto-ruled or pluto in 1H, 3H, 4H, 5H, 8H,12H, pluto square/opposite venus, mars, jupiter or ascendant

｡♡˚ I am including many types of plutonian placements here because the energy is intense, regardless. These poor people were probably rejected as kids, specially when it comes to showing off a talent or interest. These people could feel like others do not really care about what interests them, and so this could make them want to stop trying, or putting themselves out there. Boundary violation is also prominent here too, and this could lead to people wanting to stop putting effort into their presentation due to the level of intense attention they draw in naturally.

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capricorn mercury i love their dry sense of humor and dark sarcasm. my scorpio mercury be giggling like a baby when they tell a joke while everyone else blank stare the native, concerned about their dark humor. also their choice of words is so calculated and careful if developed, no sugarcoating tho, with well aspected could also be poetic. it’s so cute. ahhh my favs

lilith 3h knows how and when to push the button and let that intelligent communicator self take over lol literally can talk themselves out of anything and could wrap someone around their fingers by their words. school and/or siblings might be a hit or miss for them. it’s either good or bad, nothing in between.

mars 1h idk if it’s just me or not moving body when mentally in a better place for a whole day can cause natives a great emotion turmoil like (esp in virgo degree i guess💀) that’s why coping mechanism and serotonin booster includes deep cleaning room, groceries … oh maybe it’s just me ok

not to mention that healthy routine HELPS natives a lot i mean i guess it helps every human being but i feel like it emphasizes when it comes to mars 1h let me know if you resonates or not^^

earth moons with uranus prominent aspects/placements yes earth moons do need a stable routine to help them maintain their mind but with uranus influence esp if making aspects to mc, i think will most likely hate to have a 9-5 work, plus with prominence 9h/sagittarius, spontaneous career life is their go-to. their earth moons still want the stability tho so it could be that they have a stable morning and after work routine etc.

leo moon something about their hair that never fail to catch my attention. it’s like tho they did nothing their hair be thriving.

also something about head bumps because there was this one time i dreamed of a leo moon head bumping me just for me to wake up to an astrology observation (i can’t remember which one😿feel free to inform me so i can put credits here) says head bumping is a lion thing so leo placements tend to do that helpp- but tbh it’s so cute ><

earth moons w fire moons i rarely see astro community talk about this two together like it’s SO underrated. earth moon say the most straightforward, simplest compliments that get fire moon all flustered up and stuff like 😳 and firey do this most random, unprovoked things just to get reaction out of earthy. purely just vibing together. fire moon get earth moon out of their comfort zone, earth moon makes fire moon more grounded. seen them in many long terms relationships.

ex: EDIT : i just found out that brian groomed megan fox and actually so problematic so i deleted this example 🤢

ross lynch (aries moon) - jaz sinclair (capricorn moon)

aishwarya rai (capricorn moon) - abhishek bachchan (aries moon)

ryan gosling (capricorn moon) - eva mendes (leo moon)

moon conjucnt mercury synastry : moon be like ‘bruh you speak my mind’ while mercury ‘you read my emotions and know what to do with them without me talking it out so’ love this

moon conjunct chiron chiron making hard aspect to luminaries (emphasize on moon bcs istg…the pain towards deepest part of ourselves um) can manifest such a big impact in native’s life :,) and which part will be effected depends on houses where it sit in. however, as much as how diverse the conjunction can play out🤭 the same thing that wounded the natives could be the same thing that heal the natives. the key is to mastered the cruel (💀for real like who have this aspect would understand what i mean) chiron. as much as it makes you a severely wounded soldier in inner world’s field ffs, breaking the pattern of chiron can manifests a really great result.

moon prominent aspect in mother’s chart can be presented in your s/o’s chart or someone you like. for better or worse. 🧍‍♀️

mercury in sagittarius degree (9°,21°) philosiphize their words unintentionally and left people who had a conversation with them thinking about their words a lots esp when they give advice, they brought a whole new perspective to the person.

scorpio/8h prominent the struggle is real when someone they close with or trust don’t also hate their enemies. it’s a sign to retreat for them😠 ride or die. all or nothing.

lilith prominent/dominant men try so hard to hide their feelings and reactions when lilith prominent/dominant women come around. might even bully/pick on them at an extreme end. horrible at it finest when undeveloped ugh

taurus lilith square ascendant attract a lot of taurus mars and i have love-hate relationship with most of them

pisces rising really do get away with things. wittiness and chameleon energy of mutable + slyness of water = slay 💅

aries in big 6 literally always there in charts of ppl who heavily watch or fond of anime, manga

capricorn/cancer sun pair with scorpio/taurus sun no matter what others perceived them individually, they seems like a traditional couple to me lol when they’re together it gives ‘of course they’re together’ vibe. capricorn-scorpio and cancer-taurus more often than vice versa

pluto 3h i found myself thinking about what these natives say a looooot like even if it’s the most silliest stuff they said, it still echoes in my mind like ‘i think yellow is a really bizarre color’ and my mind goes 😮🤯😦😵‍💫🙀 wtff

; hihi, first i didn’t expect my previous astro notes to blow up this much so i want to say that i appreciated all the interactions and support <33 thank you so much and i hope whoever come across this astro ranting HEHE a really nice day/night and much fun reading this ⭐️

if you have the placements:

-mercury in the 12th house

-pluto in 3rd house

do you struggle with communicating, especially forming verbal words? the frustration sometimes to just get my words out is unreal. writing things down is easier, but still i have a long ways to go as for my communication blockages .

after a time in my life where i was extremely social, interacting with hundreds of people, my mercury really showed me how draining others presences can be, meeting tons of people every day, constant performance-based conversations, all the energies, emotions, reflections of other people, noticing lots of things people don't see, the fall showed me forcing myself to match other peoples energy levels would never work out well, 12h mercury need to maintain its own pace and expression.

it can be used positively with meditative practice, with writing and non-verbal expression.

12h mercury feels like the mind needs extra rest to recharge. this mercury needs meditation .it needs to materialize expression because it cannot verbalize its thoughts. these are messages from the 12th house after all. 12h placements are prone to influence of energy for sure, manipulation to naivety, think of cults. this mercury didn't download all of the software lol . sometimes it cannot tell even if it is its own mind. the psyche stretches out like infinite minecraft world .

mercury in 12h combined with pluto 3h also feels like i frequently run into corrupt, shady peoples. especially in religious places like temples, in political scenes, people doing backwards shit. i often caught people in their malicious acts, in lies also. rip

☉ Sun in 3H — People think you’re all charisma and surface-level chatter, like you’re just good at “working the room.” What they don’t get is that conversation is your talent— it’s how you connect, how you influence, how you leave your mark. You’re the person who remembers a stranger’s name from months ago, the one who makes someone feel like the most interesting person in the world after five minutes. People mistake your social adaptability for being fake, when really, it’s emotional intelligence. You can go from talking to the CEO at a networking event to joking with the barista while waiting for your drink, and both interactions are genuine.

☽ Moon in 3H — They think your emotions are inconsistent because your mood can shift mid-conversation. What they miss is that your feelings are constantly reacting to what’s being said and how it’s said. One snide tone, one backhanded comment, and you’ll feel it in your gut. You can go from laughing with a friend to sitting in heavy silence because you picked up on something they didn’t mean to reveal. Your emotional radar is always on, and your ability to articulate feelings — your own or someone else’s — makes people uncomfortable when they aren’t ready to face the truth.

☿ Mercury in 3H — You’re accused of overthinking or being “too analytical,” but that’s because you can’t not notice patterns in speech, behavior, and wording. You remember exact phrasing from conversations years ago, you catch contradictions in someone’s story instantly, and you’ll dissect a single text message like it’s a cryptic puzzle. People who don’t know you well think you’re being critical — but you’re just unwilling to take words at face value when there’s a deeper meaning to be found. You’re the one who notices when someone’s “I’m fine” doesn’t match their voice.

♀ Venus in 3H — Your conversational charm gets mistaken for flirting, or worse — manipulation. You know how to draw someone in, keep them engaged, and leave them feeling better than when they started talking to you. This is a skill you’ve honed over years, partly out of survival and partly because you enjoy bringing beauty to interactions. You can make someone feel like they’ve known you forever — not because you’re playing games, but because you genuinely care. The real heartbreak? People rarely return the same attentiveness you give so freely.

♂ Mars in 3H — You get labeled as “argumentative,” but the truth is you’re allergic to miscommunication. You’ll interrupt someone mid-sentence to clarify a point, not because you want to “win,” but because you refuse to let confusion fester. You’re the type to text back, “That’s not what you said earlier — which one is it?” You’re blunt, direct, and unafraid to challenge someone’s version of events. If someone lies or twists the truth, you won’t just let it slide — you’ll drag it into the light.

♃ Jupiter in 3H — People think your network and opportunities just “happen” to you, but you put yourself in the right places on purpose. You’re curious about everything, which leads you into conversations that turn into collaborations, friendships, or life-changing moments. You’re the person who strikes up a chat on a train and ends up with a job offer. Others see you as effortlessly lucky, but they don’t realize you’ve cultivated that luck through a lifetime of saying yes to learning and connection.

♄ Saturn in 3H — People read your silence as judgment or disinterest, but it’s actually discipline. You know how words can be used as weapons — you’ve seen it, maybe even been wounded by it — so you don’t speak lightly. You take the time to get your message right, which can make you seem guarded or slow to open up. In reality, you’ve just learned that rushed words lead to misunderstandings, and you’d rather be the person whose words people remember for the right reasons.

♅ Uranus in 3H — You’re labeled unpredictable, the one who “always takes it too far” in conversation. But your mind just works differently — you can take a boring topic and spin it into something shocking, futuristic, or absurd in the best way. You drop a truth bomb or offbeat observation and watch everyone’s faces change. People don’t get that you’re not trying to rebel — you’re just incapable of pretending you think like everyone else.

♆ Neptune in 3H — They think you’re evasive or confusing when you speak, but that’s because your communication is drenched in feeling, metaphor, and subtext. You’re the kind of person who answers “How was your day?” with “It felt like the color blue.” You talk in imagery because that’s how you experience life. People who expect linear, black-and-white answers get frustrated, but those who speak your language feel like they’ve found magic.

♇ Pluto in 3H — People accuse you of being “too intense,” especially in casual conversation. But you can’t help it — you hear what’s not being said. You notice when someone’s smiling but their voice shakes, when a story leaves out just enough detail to hide something important. People either find you magnetic or intimidating because you see too much in too little time. Small talk dies fast around you, not because you’re bad at it, but because you dig right to the marrow of things.

☊ North Node in 3H — You’re labeled nosy, like you’re just trying to be in everyone’s business. In reality, you’re here to learn — to build bridges between ideas, people, and stories. You want to know how people think, how they live, what shaped them. Your curiosity feels invasive to those who prefer walls, but to you, every conversation is a chance to connect dots in the bigger picture.

☋ South Node in 3H — People think you already know it all, so they dismiss the fact that you’re still learning and unlearning. You’ve been a storyteller your whole life, but part of your growth is knowing when not to tell the story, when to listen instead. You’ve been the voice in the room for so long that people forget you can also be the ear.

⚸ Lilith in 3H — They think you’re dangerous with words, that you use them like knives. And yes, you can — but only when you’re cornered. More often, your “threat” is that you speak truths that make people squirm. You’ve been told to tone it down, to stop being “so direct,” to choose prettier words. But you know the ugly words are often the ones that free you. Your voice is the place you refuse to be domesticated.

⟡ ᴅᴍ ᴍᴇ ꜰᴏʀ:

🌙 ᴘʀɪᴠᴀᴛᴇ ᴛᴀʀᴏᴛ & ᴘꜱʏᴄʜɪᴄ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢꜱ

🪐 ʙɪʀᴛʜ ᴄʜᴀʀᴛ ᴀɴᴀʟʏꜱɪꜱ & ᴀꜱᴛʀᴏʟᴏɢʏ ꜱᴇꜱꜱɪᴏɴꜱ

𓆩𖤐𓆪 ꜰᴀꜱᴛ, ɪɴᴛᴜɪᴛɪᴠᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇᴅ ʙʏ ꜱᴘɪʀɪᴛ.

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🔮 ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ɪꜱ ᴍʏ ᴏᴡɴ — ᴘʟᴇᴀꜱᴇ ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ʀᴇᴘᴏꜱᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ᴄʀᴇᴅɪᴛ.

✨ ꜰᴏʀ ᴇɴᴛᴇʀᴛᴀɪɴᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴜʀᴘᴏꜱᴇꜱ ᴏɴʟʏ.

🌙 ɴᴏᴛ ɪɴᴛᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴀꜱ ʀᴇᴀʟ, ᴍᴇᴅɪᴄᴀʟ, ᴏʀ ʟᴇɢᴀʟ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.

DISCLAIMER: I am not a professional astrologer, this purely my observation based on repetitive patterns I notice within the signs, placements, houses etc. Take what I say with a grain of salt and understand not every astrology observation will resonate.

↳Heavy 8th House Synastry and/or negatively aspected 2H synastry↴

This one is a doosey. Personally, I never had 8H synastry with anyone that I have ever considered a friend, but I have seen this play out with other friendships. This synastry can suggest an imbalance of give and take, as well as a friendship that can be "obsessive". Feelings of jealousy, envy, and even resentment build over time. I've seen this also manifest as jealousy over the person's other friends, family, and sometimes even romantic partners. Very karmic & a difficult bond to break, but it could also be very emotionally harmful. It also highly depends on the emotional state of the people involved, especially the emotional state of the house person as they seem to be the most "reactive" in this situation.

↳Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus in 12H↴

These placements can definitely indicate secrecy created in a friendship dynamic. Either the friendship itself is kept secret, or one/both parties feel suspicious of the other, no matter how much time has passed or trust has been earned. Another heavily karmic synastry aspect to have. Usually the planet person is more aware of the pain each other causes, but the house person also feels the intensity. A lot can be ruined due to misunderstandings with this placement, but in the same regard -- this placement does also indicate two people who are magnetically connected, but eventually have their perception of each other morphed over time into something more negative. Truth be told, both parties see each other in a more "tainted" and deluded way as time goes on because both parties are secretive about their suspicions. Suspicion left undiscussed only has room to grow. Not always the case, but when this manifests in an "ex-friendship" or in a synastry chart of frenemies, its easier to see the ways either one or both have deceived each other in a connection. I've also noticed specifically with Moon/Mercury (sometimes venus) in 12H synastry shows how one person "prys" in the other's life. For example, having Mercury in 12H synastry could mean that one person oversteps and over-inquires about the other. Maybe this person listens to, inspires, encourages, or spreads misinformation about the other. Or, this person generally feels "superior" in the themes of mercury like communication, travel, intelligence, logic, etc. It also gives "pick me" vibes, or like those female friends you have that enjoy laughing at you or embarrassing you around others for validation. Icky.

↳Chiron conjunct personal planets and/or the nodes↴

These aspects are the definition of fated to me. When this is present in the chart of two frenemies, I know these two really hurt each other in various ways. When its chiron conjunct sun/moon for instance, I see a lot of damage to the ego, and self-confidence when dealing with each other. One person feels massively insecure in the presence of the other, and in enemy cases, its almost as if one person (usually chiron person) clings onto sun person even if chiron person harbors hate, bitterness, or resentment towards the sun person. Chiron conjunct personal planets can bring a lot of instability on so many levels -- on a soul level, physical / material level, emotional level, 3D, 5D etc etc. These connections are usually very painful because at one point in time, these two individuals could have been very close or trusted each other, and things took a left turn when both began to trigger each other. I've also seen this in complicated friendships where the two are not exactly true friends, or honest/genuine friends to each other, but there's a weird sense of loyalty toward one another. Maybe you two are in secret competition, and you feel the other person does not like you. Typically you would end communication with someone like this, but with this person, you find excuses for them and reasons to remain in their energy. kinda odd tbh. Chiron conjunct the nodes says all the same but speaks more so to the soul missions of the individuals. This could mean you both agreed to be here to have problems and to learn lessons together lol. But with chiron conjunct NN/SN, the connection will feel very electric but will most likely fizzle out over time.

↳Busy 3H synastry / lilth 3H / Chiron 3H / Pluto 3H / Neptune 3H↴