May 16
systems who call their parts "pack mates" are my favourite
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systems who call their parts "pack mates" are my favourite
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chat is there like. research on being frontstuck? is it a shared experience weve defined in community or is it like A Thing, cuz if it is i wanna read about it. i wanna know why it happens and what situations can trigger it, and what can help.
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anti NTG systems, anti T.R.A.S.H, anti radqueer, anti transID
my opinion on systems (TW: OPINION)
self diagnosing IS valid not everyone has resources or therapists that believe them like i get with endos its different cuz im 50/50 on that like yes trauma has to exist but tbh it COULD happen at a later age and its too much for one person that they just split and not just before 9 [like Shadow Milk split while he was in the Silver Tree and by then he was like at least 800 years old in my AU] but other shit not trauma related doesnt exist and you cant just make it happen you cant will it to exist or force it to exist or smth like that it forms naturally cuz of trauma only trauma is valid but not only before 9 you can have REALLY bad trauma as an adult and its so bad your mind just fragments and splits but usually its before 9 (like me ofc and grandma has literally seen me switch before even tho she didnt know what it was nor did i it was just my eyes went blank then mean then i crashed out and didnt remember shit afterwards its been like that as long as i can remember as much as i can remember)
30 days of DID
Day Eighteen: What’s your least favorite misconception or common misinformed fact spread abut Dissociative Identity Disorder?
that you can be a system without trauma
probably the type of trauma people assume you have experienced. most people assume it means you have been horrifically abused by both of your parents in every way possible, that you grew up in squalor, and did nothing but suffer. i think that mentality is so exclusionary to So Many Systems, including us. theres especially an idea that all systems have sexual trauma, which also isnt true and i think its very dangerous to perpetuate as it encourages people to search for trauma that either isnt there, or is hidden from them.
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the more i think about it the more i think i may be anti polymind instead of neutral. initially my take was like if ur not stealing medical language then i dont care but honestly... the act of naming parts of yourself is a very normal thing to do, in singlets and in systems.
i knew someone who named their tics phoebe so they could be like "oh phoebes a bitch today she keeps saying xyz" or "phoebe keeps slapping me in the face" yk, its just supposed to be funny. i Am a system and i refer to my anxiety and ed as the bitchy school girl in my head with she/her pronouns. i know shes just my anxiety and not an alter because its very distinctly different. bitchy school girl is My anxiety, its not seperate.
that is a normal way of processing difficult feelings or situations or just day to day stuff. its normal to feel like ur in different modes in different situations, or like you argue with conflicting parts of yourself. thats normal, it doesnt need to be labelled as smth
