I've tried dating apps but on the rare occasion that works out I have no way to meet up or go on a date and everyone usually just wants nudes or doesn't want to commit

I have litteraly zero irl social interaction outside of my family and I have no way to talk to anyone new irl

yes yes, it's great that you try not to only send me relationship memes where it's your gender x my agab, but i want you to like dating a non-binary person. I want you to vocally be anti-me-trying-to-act-cis (when its safe as can be to be trans gnc, ofc).

Are you fighting over dumb shit because of Mercury retrograde or because you’re both lesbians?

I couldn’t take living a lie I cut my hair off but still wore “female” clothes. I met my boyfriend and fell in love. I used to borrow his clothes when we first started dating because I would unexpectedly sleep over sometimes. I started wearing more and more male clothing and he doesn’t mind.

I don’t even try to look female anymore I wear what I want mostly male clothes and my hair is even shorter than it used to be. I even came out as non-binary and I feel great! I embrace both the female and male parts of me.

(Tw: missgendering, possible abuse? +mention of hate crimes on transfolk)

Okay. So you both like each other. Maybe even love each other

Great

Maybe, if you're lucky, they're lgbt+ supportive

Fantastic

But maybe they identify as straight ( or gay. Lesbian. Bi. Not the sexuality that means they are attracted to people of your gender.)

No problem. Maybe they just haven't found themselves and that's the label they found to fit them best thus far.

And when you come out, maybe they're supportive and accepting.

But then maybe they try to pull off your binder and groping your (breasts) or reach for your born genitals...

Or continually refer to you as (she/her/Woman - for example) after you've told them several times.

Maybe in some cases they'll be extra trashy and cheat on you with a cis person (one their sexuality is attracted to) and claim you made them do it because you're so hard to be with

You'll deal with this kind of thing allot in dating as a non cis person. Maybe a little different.

These are just based on personal experience

Not getting into the beatings and assaults and even murders that have happened to non cis folks trying to date

1)random men in walmart???

2)monogamous people who act like I slaughtered their favorite pet when they find out I'm poly

3)5 million miles away from me??

4)people who see me as a man, by any means necessary

why don't cis folks get that. If you date me (a queer person) that our relationship would then be queer!!!!