Dating when you're no cis is hard *TW*
(Tw: missgendering, possible abuse? +mention of hate crimes on transfolk)
Okay. So you both like each other. Maybe even love each other
Great
Maybe, if you're lucky, they're lgbt+ supportive
Fantastic
But maybe they identify as straight ( or gay. Lesbian. Bi. Not the sexuality that means they are attracted to people of your gender.)
No problem. Maybe they just haven't found themselves and that's the label they found to fit them best thus far.
And when you come out, maybe they're supportive and accepting.
But then maybe they try to pull off your binder and groping your (breasts) or reach for your born genitals...
Or continually refer to you as (she/her/Woman - for example) after you've told them several times.
Maybe in some cases they'll be extra trashy and cheat on you with a cis person (one their sexuality is attracted to) and claim you made them do it because you're so hard to be with
You'll deal with this kind of thing allot in dating as a non cis person. Maybe a little different.
These are just based on personal experience
Not getting into the beatings and assaults and even murders that have happened to non cis folks trying to date
(And ik things are hard all around and some have it worse. Like i said. Just a personal observation about dating while not cis Even if you date someone who is supposedly an ally/lgbt)
