Serious what the fuck is with exclusionary assholes and just Replicating the hate they received. It's like these shit gibbons see a trans person, nonbinary, ace, or aro person and think "Finally I get to be as hateful to these people as others are to me!"
Or they just project their fears on to others "Oh No I'm scared IM CRINGEY SO LETS CALL OTHERS CRINGEY HAHA" Like...are yall good? You sound like insecure highschoolers imo.
It just makes me think of certain lesbian circles who shit on butches for being ugly or stereotypical and then my experience of growing up. "It's fine if you're a lesbian, just don't be an ugly one" sort of thing.
Like, we dont have to piss on others in our community so heteros will accept us.
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you cannot be nonbinary without experiencing some kind of dysphoria
if presenting as male results in dysphoria and presenting as female also results in dysphoria, it is perfectly fine to present as neutral/androgynous and call yourself nonbinary
it’s okay to be cis and gnc, and cis gnc people exist, but their existence does not negate that of dysphoric nonbinary people
you’re allowed to have an opinion on nb topics, and you’re allowed to talk about it, but you shouldn’t talk about it if your opinion damages the well being of people around you.
you especially shouldn’t talk about it in an abrasive way, or without expecting some backlash if the opinion is an unpopular one
it’s okay to keep the binary transgender and the nonbinary communities separate because they are not the same thing, but they are both legitimate
fitting the binary doesn’t make you better than someone who does not fit it, and vice versa
‘non dysphoric’ trans & nb people either are in denial, don’t realize what they’re experiencing is dysphoria, or are just assholes
transgender & nb transmedicalists are not traitors to their communities
transgender & nb transmedicalists are not obligated to constantly explain why they are both trans/nb and transmed. they are allowed to just state their opinion and move on
quit giving transgender & nb transmeds shit for being transmeds. they’re already ostracized for their gender identity and dysphoria; they don’t need you poisoning their experience in their own communities
Do you know of any trans and nb support blogs? Lately the rpc has been a scary place. Thank you!
A masterlist of over 100+ categorized support / positivity links!
First off I’d like to thank @lostboysandneverland for compiling most of this masterlist. People can be disgustingly rude but please remember that you’re valid and very important, ok? Hopefully you’ll find some cool support from those below and our ask is always open if you’d like to have a chat / talk about anything. Best wishes, anon!
Transfigurations - support for transgender people of all ages.
Suicide support:
IMAlive An Online Crisis Network - online message crisis support.
Online Chat - Worldwide Suicide Prevention Chats
Crisis Lines
Being a Grownup Is Hard - Calming sites, distractions, crisis help, and if you’re not the one in need of calming for those dealing with distressed friends.
Transgender Resources - has crisis links.
Other types of support:
Trans resources
Trans & Nonbinary Resources 2.0
Shelby’s Advice - Calming masterpost
Being a Grownup Is Hard - Calming sites, distractions, crisis help, and if you’re not the one in need of calming for those dealing with distressed friends.
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