#myperspective

My Thoughts on.. №16: History. It's the one thing we have to learn from. It's the only evidence there is as for how certain actions and events can or will turn out. It also is impossible to rewrite, no matter how much and how many people have tried. History itself doesn't change. Discoveries about it, how it's being perceived, and the lessons we take from it will change, all the time. Let's not get stuck in the past, and let's not try to erase it also. Let's use it to get and do better.

I realize now that he didn’t just break my heart. He broke me. He broke who I am. See, before I met him, I didn’t believe in love. I thought it was just something out of movies and fairytales. I believed in Santa Claus more than I did love. But then he showed me that it is very real. It is so real that it basically consumes you. The love becomes all you care about. And yeah, it can be great with all of the "good morning" texts and the midday kisses and the mandatory late night phone calls. But at times it can be hell. When you begin to worry about if they love you back or if they’ve started loving someone else, that’s when love becomes a bad thing. When he stops loving you, that’s when it becomes unbearable. That’s when you wish he never showed you how real it is, because the pain becomes real as well. You’d rather go back to believing in Santa and the Tooth Fairy, even the monsters under your bed. But you can’t. Because he showed you how real it is. He changed your perspective on things and there’s no going back.

Sometimes in life we have no idea where, what is happening in life right now, is leading us to… ⁉️ However, keeping hope & faith alive in the uncertainty is key to staying grounded, to keeping a controlled perspective & not letting yourself be swept off your feet with the fear of the unknown. 💆 https://helensjourneysite.wordpress.com/2019/07/01/july-motivation/ CLICK LINK 👆 to read a dose of motivation & encouragement for intentionally adjusting our focus, to solely look straight up being in the now and also looking ahead to the future - in order to apply the lessons learnt in the past and grow from the perspectives they brought… #TuesdayTruths #MotivationOfTheDay #MotivationGang #JulyChallenge #MyPerspective #MyPointOfView #MotivationOfTheDay #MessageOfTheDay #EncouragingBlog #EncouragingQuotes #JulyMotivation #HelensJourney #ExploreEngland🇬🇧 #PlacesWithStories #EnglishCountryside #DaysOutInEngland #PlacesToVisit #PrettyEngland #PrettyLittlePlaces #PhotographyFun #DiscoverUnder2K #DiscoverNewPlaces #TravelWithMe #PosesForPictures #TravelDiary #AdventureGram #BeautySpots #EnglishCountryVillage #SeekSimplicity (at Welford-on-Avon) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz_BUYvBVkB/?igshid=f1a7nycg5vnt

Magical autumn moments 🍂 So lovely to be spending time with Claud again now she’s back home! Autumn is definitely my favourite season: all those cosy nights snuggles on the sofa together with warm drinks and fluffy blankets... 😍 Are you an autumnal fan too? (Or a ‘fall fan’ if you’re American! Actually, where else in the world uses ‘fall’ rather than ‘autumn’?) -J . 📸: @cloudfoz . . . . . . #autumn #fall #autumnleaves #feelinginspired #visitbrighton #chicwish #prettycitybrighton #ig_brighton #colorcolourlovers #theprettycities #thisisbrighton #girlsvsglobe #myperspective #embracingtheseasons #postcardplaces #thatcolorproject (at Hove Park) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo_eMm1lPLv/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=yacu306irkn1

Southern California coastline. **** #aerial #myperspective #greatday #beach #boardwalk #greenocean #sandiego #pier #businesstrip #airborne #headinghome (at Ocean Beach, San Diego)

Sometimes it is necessary to spare a little moment to remind yourself that you are bold, brave and amazing. You are your own kind of an awesome person. You only deserve nothing but the best, so never settle for mediocrity. 🙌🏻💕 #myperspective