#multiphobia

We're so backwards nowadays.

It's not women's reproductive rights. It's the reproductive rights of anyone with a uterus and the ability to fall pregnant. There are women who cannot due to surgeries or infertility, there are intersex folk who do, there are trans folk who do and aren't women, there are multigender folk who do and aren't women or are women and other genders. It shouldn't have to be seen as these people misgendering themselves when they're talking about legislation that directly impacts them.

HRT is not birth control. Just because someone is on testosterone does not mean they're not impacted by these laws. Not all trans folk who aren't transitioning to women are on testosterone, some are on estrogen and it's none of your business why (whether they're intersex or not), you just have to respect it and include them in the conversation.

I dont even have anything to say. The posts are public so Im not censoring any usernames. Just feel like Im going insane seeing such violent exorsexism (and multiphobia as their intrisically tied to each other) and ableism hidden behind "it's a joke blog" and "it's not that deep". Putting being a binary trans monogender person on a pedestal and any association or partnership with anyone different is treated as disgraceful and a sign of not loving yourself.

Im not encouraging harrassment. Someone else acting harmfully doesn't give you the go ahead to harrassment. It's still wrong, and remains so in all cases.

Sometimes, people are lead to believe "exorsexism isnt that big of an issue actually", because hey, it's just one of those little things that one minority cares about, why should we care? As if exorsexism and multiphobia and intersexism arent intrisically tied to bioessentialist + genderessentialist rethoric. To fight against misogyny and transphobia you must fight with us against exorsexism, multiphobia and intersexism, you must help us abolish these systems. Just as you must fight against racism and ableism and antiblackness and antisemitism and colourism because oppression is all connected.

No. Trans women do not hold power over trans men.

No. Non-binary people aren't "faking trans" and no, non-binary people don't hold power over binary trans people.

We are all affected by the same structural pressures of cisnormativity, patriarchy (both systemic misogyny and toxic masculinity), and the western gender binary.

Demonising and being prejudiced towards other trans people helps no-one except those who wish us ALL gone from this world.

that said, it's pretty frustrating to have that forced on me as the only 'valid' way to experience gender, because I don't experience gender that way. I feel miserable when strictly conforming to 'man' or 'woman', because I'm not strictly either of those things. I think that trans allies and even other trans people don't realize how crushing it is to be something else, a mix, neither, etc. in a society that's fucking allergic to gender diversity that doesn't adhere to the boxes. and what really sucks, is that you would expect other trans people at the very least to understand what it's like to have a gender forced onto you, but the moment it comes to nonbinary and multigender people, there is no such understanding.

and then people like me have to listen to binary, monogender, and gender conforming trans people talking about us like we don't exist, are 'less trans', 'less valid' and 'less serious' than they are, because despite living a reality that transphobic cis people also sneer at, they still don't understand what it's like to be us. us, the people who suffocate within the acceptable boxes and just want to be free to live our lives like everyone else.

this is exorsexism and multiphobia

I'm closeted irl and I'm perceived as a monobinary cis woman

As someone perceived as a woman in patriarchal society, I am targeted by misogyny

I go on the internet, the only place where I can be my true self

People are saying I, a woman, that is perceived as a woman, have male privilege, as if my manhood is a magic spell that completely erases my lived experiences and my other genders

"Trans inclusive" radical "feminists" should shut the fuck up forever actually

This is transandrophobia, anti-masculinity, and transmultiphobia.

Multigender people experience oppression that targets all of their genders, not just one. Even just monogendered trans people face oppression that targets their true gender and their socially imposed gender. This should not be hard for people to understand, yet for some reason, this is something people deem "discourse" worthy.

Additionally, having a masculine gender does not automatically give a person male privilege.

The patriarchy only uplifts men who are pericis, gender conforming, nonqueer, white, able-bodied, able-minded, nonfat, and economically privileged.

Men who fail to fit into one or multiple of these categories are targeted by the patriarchy. (And even men who fall into all of these categories still suffer from the effects of toxic masculinity and anti-masculinity, but that's a whole side tangent.)