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These flags can represent those who are gay and monogamous (homomonogamy) or monogamy and monoamory among LGBTQIAPN+ individuals in general and variant diversity.
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Rainbow Monogamy Flags
These flags can represent those who are gay and monogamous (homomonogamy) or monogamy and monoamory among LGBTQIAPN+ individuals in general and variant diversity.
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Hemimonoamorous
[PT: Hemimonoamorous]
A term describing one who identifies themselves as monoamorous/monogamous despite experiencing polyamorous/polygamous inclinations — their inclination towards monoamory/monogamy outweighs their inclination towards polyamory/polygamy, or they only want to be in a monoamorous/monogamous relationship, so they don’t consider their other attraction as part of their identity.
This term isn't meant to promote internalized polyphobia; it is only meant to give a name to an experience some people have.
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205: monamistic attraction
DEFINITION ⦂⠀The attraction of wanting to be in a solo relationship with someone. You may exclusively be attracted to them in the context of monoamory.
Intended as an inverse to polystic attraction (Tumblr link).
ADDITIONAL ⦂⠀Coined on the 8th of October, 2025.
TAGGING ⦂⠀@c1rcus-of-silliness⠀@near-nia-river⠀@orientation-archive⠀@radiomogai
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I saw someone say they had never considered that there were valid reasons to be mono, and that they wanted to learn more. So in that thread, I made this.
In my looking around to see what was going on in poly discourse world, I noticed A HUGE amount of ‘poly’ people saying that basically ~for reasons~ they were only dating one person at a time or focusing on singular partnerships.
...so they’re mono in practice but probably don’t ID as such bc there’s moral shame around IDing as mono in their spaces bc it comes with the assumption that you’re rigidly pro-state-monogamy.
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Please please please
In relationship discourse world
STOP SAYING MONOGAMY WHEN 9/10 TIMES YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT MONOAMORY.
Y’all be fighting over shit for no other reason sometimes than feeling like monogamy = the colonial institution of marriage and the criminalization of polygamy.
Like it’s fucking ridiculous to act like before colonization literally no one was in singular committed relationships at any time for any duration. Y’all are huffing premium dog farts if you really think that. And deadass be acting like there was no such thing as marriages to one other spouse.
It’s getting ridiculous.
I just saw someone say that monogamy is inherently violent and colonial on a post by a relationship therapist talking about how non monogamy isn’t inherently more evolved than monogamy. The “my personality is that I’m poly” crowd was LIVID but the entire post was about how people are allowed to have preferences and also there may be valid reasons they don’t have the time or desire for multiple intimate relationships.
At the end of the day that person’s retort really highlighted this ironically obvious problem wherein polyAMORY and monoGAMY don’t actually describe the same TYPE of thing at all but ppl use them like they’re opposites.
MONOGAMY is really a set of relationship norms built around marriage- not just colonial marriage bc colonizers didn’t fucking invent monogamy. Monogamy’s opposite is actually POLYGAMY.
POLYAMORY is a relationship structure characterized by multiple intimate partnerships occurring simultaneously. Polyamory’s opposite is actually MONOAMORY and we really need to start using this so that when people express that they literally don’t *feel* like or even want, as a personal preference or interest, multiple partnerships, you don’t have people attacking them over upholding ~violent institutions~.
Also some points bc I saw some super lame comments by poly people:
Dating and fucking multiple people is not the only way to challenge social norms or work on your relationship dynamics.
You’re not necessarily “braver” or more woke than monoamorous people but you may just have more free time. Some people really like doing things that have nothing to do with intimate relationships. Some people love solitude as well.
Relationships are great and important but some of the work we have to do socially happens outside of our homes and personal bonds.
Plenty of mono people literally date poly people. It’s *our* relationship model. We’re not inherently problematic or “controlling” for having it. Stop being twats.
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Why is self exploration always the hardest part
Whoever designed me did a real shit job. Like at least give me a manual next time or maybe comment your code
Is there anything for someone who doesn't mind if they're in a monoamorous relationship, polyamorous relationship, or single?
Ambiamorous. However it doesn't specify you are okay being single. It could be amoryflux, fluxing amorously between polyam, monoam and zeroamorous/soloamorous.
Why do (some) polyamory groups bash monoamory/monogamy/
My theory is that being monoamorous or polyamorous is a spectrum. As such, a lot of people are in the middle. But we still treat it as a binary. So you're either poly or mono. I'm really far on one side of the spectrum, and am poly to the core. My husband is super far to the other side, and mono to the core. My fiance, like a lot of people, is in the middle and identifies as ambiamorous (in the middle). He's choosing a mono relationship type with me right now because it suits him. He could also be in a poly relationship type. Because of that, a lot of people have tried to say he's polyamorous, because they identify as polyamorous but can choose to be in a mono relationship. I literally can't for any length of time - I can for a while, but I will always fall for a second person. SO, because a lot of polyamorous people are likely in the middle, but *choose* a polyamorous lifestyle, they think everyone is just choosing a relationship type, and that choosing monogamy is closed minded. The groups I'm in have gotten a lot better at this, mostly because of our example, but it's definitely something I see a lot (and have seen in this group already).