Trusting the Process: A Journey to Making Confident Decisions
As the last born and last daughter in the family, I’ve had my share of perks—and downsides. Growing up, I definitely got away with a few things (I mean, who wouldn’t?), but being sheltered was a double-edged sword. No one ever seemed to take me seriously. Even now, 16 years past the age of 18, I still feel like I’m seen as the "baby" whose opinions are just background noise.
Lately, I’ve been actively working to unlearn a lot of the mindsets I was raised with, especially when it comes to making critical decisions. It's a struggle, let me tell you. Every time I face an important choice, I feel the weight of the world pressing down on me. I gather all the facts, list out my reasons, but then the self-doubt kicks in, and I catch myself asking for someone else’s opinion.
But guess what? Today, I found a tool that’s helped me start navigating this maze of anxiety, self-doubt, and the need for external validation.
Here's what I’ve been doing: grab your journal, open two pages, and follow this simple method:
On the first page, write down the situation you’re facing. Be honest and explain the possible consequences.
Leave a bit of space, and then write down the decision you've made and why you've made it.
On the second page, mark a date six months from now. Commit to revisiting your decision on that day to reflect on whether it turned out to be a good or bad one, and journal about what you’ve learned.
This has been a game changer. Every decision I make, I trust a little more. I no longer feel the need to second guess myself or seek approval from others. I’m slowly learning to trust my own process.
It’s all part of the journey, but I’m getting there—one confident decision at a time.
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Making tough business decisions is never easy. However, with the right tools and information, you can make the best decision for your company. There are a few things to keep in mind when making tough business decisions. First, you need to have all the facts. This means looking at the data and understanding the situation. […]
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Making tough business decisions is never easy. However, with the right tools and information, you can make the best decision for your company. There are a few things to keep in mind when making tough business decisions. First, you need to have all the facts. This means looking at the data and understanding the situation. […]
How To Make Tough Business Decisions
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Missed our last session of Coaching Matters? Worry not, here we have the highlights from Ian Paterson's session on how to use coaching as a tool for deeper exploration to help leaders with complexities in this VUCA world.
This time on Coaching Matters, we had Ian Paterson on the panel. With Coaching Matters we aim to bring you world-class coaches who also have an interesting alternate life that is very inspiring and adds tutelage for those with a Coach’s heart. Â
Here are the highlights of Ian’s Session:
Using The Leadership Circle Profile to develop the courage in leaders to grow and develop in the VUCA world complexities
An understanding of reflective processes designed for Leaders to observe and modify their presence.
Creating the space that allows leaders to make real shifts in performance
Coaching Leaders in the VUCA World
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