I went with my girlfriend again to services yesterday! It was really nice, and at the point when the rabbi was asking about people's interpretations of the Torah portion, she gave what I thought was quite an interesting interpretation (usually no-one speaks at that point and it gets quite awkward so having someone speak was seen as quite welcome).
Also one of the other members came up to us and interrogated us slightly (apparently he does that a lot) because it was odd for him to see so many young people at the synagogue on a typical Shabbat morning. My girlfriend told him that she was "exploring her options" because she doesn't know yet if Judaism is right for her, but she enjoys being at the synagogue and participating in services, so she's trying to determine if it's the right path.
Anyway. On this Shabbat evening she wrote a poem about the Shabbat candles, she's been doing Shabbat and learning Hebrew with me for a few weeks, and she's also been very invested in discussion about helping me to keep a Jewish home when we live together. So even if she doesn't end up converting, she's definitely being very supportive and participative of my conversion and our future of keeping a Jewish home together.
