Yes thatβs what a meant! Maybe a sfw/nsfw alphabet headcannon of Finn? Your bf headcanon and marriage one wrecked me unfortunately
<3 .α finn wolfhard sfw alphabet
a/n: thank u for reading and the request!! i couldn't find the original creator for these prompts but if there is one i can add credit heh. i'll do a nsfw one seperate :)
π = affection (how do they show love? are they touchy, verbal, or through actions?)
in public, it's through actions and words. he'll speak highly of you, bring you up when nobody did so first, and especially perform little acts of kindness that come natural to him. fixing your clothing to cover your skin up, handing you something before you realize you even wanted it.. he's observant, alright. in private, he does all of the above but with a lot of touch to make up for the lack of it. holding you close while in thought or conversation, thumb rubbing circles into your hand, a foot rubbing gently against yours as a silent 'i'm here' at all times. it never has to be a spectacle, his love for you, as it's in everything he does.
π = best friend (what would friendship with them feel like? how would it naturally start?)
most likely, you met through mutual friends and slowly the jokes became directed toward each other more and you were checking if the other laughed first. it's organic, the way it blossoms. finn is the friend that always has plans you're invited to and will always spare a minute of his time for you even if he's busy. he's reliable, funny, and overwhelmingly understanding. (if he likes you, he definitely amps up the funny though to try and appeal to you.)
π = cuddles (how do they like to cuddle? whatβs their preferred way of being close?)
in the comfort of his or a friends home, he is all over that. his legs will be intertwined with yours and his arms around you and his friends might pretend to be icked out by the closeness but that's never stopped him. his favorite way to cuddle is when your face is nuzzled into his chest or the crook of his neck because he can really feel your breathing best in both positions. his hand can also run through your hair and over your back easier that way.
π = domestic (are they homebody material? do they cook, clean, and take care of the household?)
he'll split the housework, especially since he spends a lot of time at home. he isn't big on cooking, though he will do a lot of your chores. he claims it's easier to find the motivation when he's doing things for you rather than himself. especially if you need him to step up, he will. you're his motivation and that's all he needs if he's not already inclined to do it himself. it makes up for when he's gone for long periods of time, too.
π = ending (if they had to break up with someone, how would they handle it emotionally and practically?)
he's a very level headed person, though he feels things very hard. after a break up, his mental health is absolutely struggling, and it's hard to get back up easily. add the public's knowledge and speculation and it's over. he likes the idea of staying friends with exes but it never works out so he lets them go without the effort and it only feels even more emptying. thankfully, he doesn't think he'll have to worry about going through that again once he meets you. and even so, he doesn't know if letting you go would ever be an option with how much you mean to him, friends or not.
π = fiancΓ©e (how do they feel about commitment? how quick would they want to get married?)
finn is a very committed person. if he sets his mind to something, it'll get done. though, he'd want to wait a while before marrying. it's not a priority, not because he doesn't want to marry the love of his life, but it's not something to be rushed. so until then, he'll be the best boyfriend to grace the world. just because it takes a while to put a ring on it doesn't mean he doesn't make up for it in cute dates, constant touches, and his unwavering love for you.
π = gentle (how soft are they physically and emotionally? how careful are they with peopleβs feelings?)
he won't protect your feelings if it means hurting you more, like lying or brushing things off that really shouldn't be disregarded. maybe that seems rude, but to him, it's an act of honesty. though, he is very soft and easy to go to. any big feeling you have is met with that soft tone he only uses for you and a hand rubbing your back or arm. a lover boy.
π = hugs (how often do they hug? what kind of hugs do they give?)
hugs are a given. he hugs his friends a lot, so his lover experiences it even more. his arms wrap around you, constricting yet comforting, and his hand always rub your back. he loves to hug from behind, too, resting his head on top of yours or on your shoulder. he's not usually big on pda so when he does it in front of others, it shows them just how comfortable you two really are with one another.
π = i love you (how quickly or slowly would they be to say it? do they say it seriously or casually?)
the words leave his lips easily all the time, and the only thing that differentiates the seriousness is his tone. if you're leaving one another, he kisses the top of your head and murmurs it low and soft. if you're not going anywhere, he hums it like there's no question about it. if you're someone who does mind the difference between saying 'i love you' and 'love you', he'll understand. it doesn't come natural to him though, so it takes a little explaining for him to agree and only say the former.
π = jealousy (how prone are they to jealousy? how do they act when they feel threatened?)
honestly, he's a fairly secure person and that translates into his relationships. his lover talking to a guy is the least of his concerns, because he places a lot of trust in you. though, he can be protective at times. that never escalates into anything past him wrapping an arm around your waist and kissing the side of your head to signal to whoever needs to hear it that you're his and he's watching. but overall, he knows you can handle yourself and if you need him, you'll say so.
π = kisses (what is it like to be kissed by them? favorite spots to kiss you, favorite spots to be kissed?)
kisses from him are either slow and passionate or quick and easy. either way, he is greedy. as for the slow ones, it's only in private and when the mood is relaxed. his lips on yours, tongue slow in its journey over your lower lip.. otherwise, his kisses are quick pecks he provides in public or in a rush. it's not his favorite by any means, but it's more than nothing. these are left to the top of your head or your lips. those places feel more romantic than anywhere else. he loves being kissed on his face, shoulders, and his hair. they all make his stomach turn with a sickeningly sweet feeling.
π = lying (how good are they at lying? do they lie to you?)
he holds the strong belief that lying is stupid. especially to your s/o. it only causes more problems than it solves. with that, he's a bad liar. remember that lie detector video? he gets embarrassed quick and immediately tells the truth if he even dares to try, which he's human, so it happens. when it comes to you, his resolve is even weaker. one raise of your brow and he's explaining everything. you didn't even ask.
π = mornings (how do they behave at the start of their day? do they need coffee, quiet, or chaos?)
mornings consist of many utters of five more minutes and pleas not to get up just yet. he needs quiet, slow mornings, tangled in the arms of the one he loves as he mumbles incoherently before giving up when words become too difficult. coffee happens later, but he cherishes the downtime that is lying in bed with his lover and pretending the outside world doesn't exist. just for five more minutes.
π = nights (how do they spend their evenings with you?)
time spent with his lover is time spent well. on that note, he loves it in the comfort of his home, devoting time to a passion of his in his free time as a way of winding down. though, when quality time is his priority, the usual rotation includes a film you two have been meaning to watch, a video game that you either play together or simply watch the other play in awe, and his personal favoriteβphones off, a record playing, and catching up on life so it doesn't catch up to you. this is starts over a cozy dinner and wanes into bedtime, before eventual slumber.
π = openness (how soon and how much do they reveal about themselves? gradual or all at once?)
he's a very private person that lets people in gradually. romantically, it's no different. it starts with caution, then he's telling you every little detail of his day at the studio or on set, then you know about every issue bothering him and every tick he has and why he acts like he does. wow, since when did you know so much and why didn't he mind? you break him open once he realizes your intentions are pure and he wants to keep you around. forever, preferably.
π = patience (how easily irritated or calm are they? how do they respond under stress?)
stress is his worst enemy. with directing and acting and singing and songwriting and going to interviews and photo shootsβif he thinks about it too hard, he'll pop a blood vessel. he's sure. he doesn't irritate easily, but it builds up and hits him hard and he's doing everything to withdraw even when you (thankfully) don't let him. there's a lot of pressure and eyes on him. what helps is a long break with the one person he knows he can trust without a single question: you, his lover.
π = quirks (unique little habits or oddities they have that make them them?)
he and more specifically his eyebrows are very expressive, as we know. he's not himself without a visceral reaction shown solely through the arch and furrow of his brow to any information receives. he also leaves little notes around the home and his belongings. scribbled with a lack of penmanship, a sticky note on his laptop reads something unintelligible. according to him, it's reminder to fix the chord progression he came up with earlier. it reads like a doctor note. he tries a little harder on the notes he leaves you before you leave for work, though. which he does write.
π‘ = remembering (how well do they recall details about you? favorite memories or moments?)
for what doesn't stick, he keeps in his notes app. his brain stores much of the important details. the first day he met you, your first date, kiss, everything. your favorite flower, color, dinner, and take out place for those days. there's a myriad more up there, of course. his favorite memory of you is when he took you on tour for the first time and he saw you in the front row with a look of admiration on your face. he's sure he had the same one on his, too. he remembers kissing you numb back in his dressing room because he had no other way to thank you for the perfect night. just by being there in the same room, let alone mere feet away.
π’ = security (how protective are they physically, emotionally, or socially? how do they react to threats?)
his protectiveness is subtle but there. it's in the way he carefully shuts down questions about you that are bordering on invasive and keeps a hand on your lower back instinctively. it's in the way he kisses your head when he needs reassurance that you're his. he's very aware that you can protect yourself, but he knows how good it feels to have someone care so much as to do so, too. he's not outward, and protecting you is done by directing all his attention on you. you come first.
π£ = trust (how easily do they trust someone? do they test loyalty or believe instantly?)
he doesn't trust blindly whatsoever. he grew up a child star in the film industry. he knows how bad people can be because he's dealt with it firsthand, being a celebrity. testing loyalty feels like a violation of sorts, though, so he simply grants people little bits of his trust and self at a time and isn't afraid to revoke it if they misuse it. romantically, he follows the same belief system.
π€ = unflattering habits (what are some bad habits, annoying traits, or pet peeves they have?)
sometimes he speaks before he thinks and things come out differently than he intends. his intentions are always good, and he's grateful you know that because he has yet to develop a filter with his closest friends and his partner. he also has a tendency to miss your texts or calls as he's off his phone a lot. his ringer is never on and he refuses to change that. on top of that, he can get riled up quickly when it comes to joking and feign annoyance too much. it's not inherently bad, but he acts for his career so obviously it's too convincing at times.
π₯ = vanity (how concerned are they with their appearance, style, or image?)
he has little concern for how the public perceives him. obviously, he's not immune to the harms of criticism. though, he doesn't let it change what he does, even if it can hurt at times. he'll do his hair how he wants, dress how he wants, talk about what he wantsβhe prides himself on his weirdness, and whoever likes it can stay. he tries not to worry about who doesn't. and when he has the support system he does, blocking out the noise becomes easier.
π¦ = weird (quirky behaviors or odd little things they do that make them unique?)
what about him isn't a little quirky and odd? it's in the clothes he wears and the way he carries himself. he usually wears mismatched socks. he instinctively apologizes to objects he bumps into. he has facts for every situation, and if he doesn't, he'll bring it up eventually. relevant or not. he references movies no one has seen and acts shocked when you don't understand. these only brush the surface.
π§ = xtra (fun fact?)
he loves when you dress up and outdo yourself every time for a regular occasion because he's very aware that in his dorky outfits and choices of tees, you always look far too good for him. as long as you don't mind, he doesn't either. he knows how cruel the world can be to celebrity's partners, so when you're adored and he's the one being joked about, he's only glad that you're not having to endure stupidly meaningless criticism and remarks. with pride, he gets to take on the question β "how did he pull that?"
π¨ = youthfulness (how playful, spontaneous, or silly are they? do they act youthful?)
he has both an old soul and a youthful energy, and yes, they can coexist. joking and bantering are so critical to how he connects with others and expresses himself and it presents him as playful. sure, he acts awfully mature when he needs to. more often than not, though, his chin is resting on your shoulder from behind as a joke rolls off his tongue that you're sure he prepared in advance. it makes you giggle. if not at the joke itself, then at his commitment to it. an entertainer that just loves some old music and deep, real talks at times.
π© = zzz (sleep patternsβhow do they sleep, whatβs their routine, and do they snore or toss and turn?)
his sleep schedule is ever adapting and it never quite sticks long enough to be comfortable. he's traveling, sleeping in hotel beds one night and his own bed the next. so when he's next to you, limbs sprawled out against yours, he's sure it's heaven. it knocks him out, the warmth that's you on the other side of the bed. he sleeps late. he can be a morning person, but he loves the solace that only night can offer.
