im tired of being bigender it doesn’t fit as my label im gunna die!!!! someone craft a gender where im a femboy but a mascgirl or um just fem androgynous
i aint exactly a girl… but i aint exactly a boy… /ref
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im tired of being bigender it doesn’t fit as my label im gunna die!!!! someone craft a gender where im a femboy but a mascgirl or um just fem androgynous
i aint exactly a girl… but i aint exactly a boy… /ref

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I want to make myself something for pride month? With my flags but idk if mine are right…..at least about my gender
I’ve always labeled myself as being Demiboy and I’m not non-binary and everything tells me Demiboy is a nonbinary term.
I’m (at the moment) Bigender-
I’ve been saying in demiboy and now also saying I’m bi gender because I feel very masculine while I’m not but I do feel like I am and I sometimes have some more masculine tendencies as a girl.
As far as I know Demiboy means you feel somewhat like a male.
But I heard of boyflux which is it fluctuates (one day your 10% male next your 100%, ect) and I don’t think that fits? But but idk
And now I’ve found paraboyflux which I suppose is like being masculine a lot of the time but it fluctuates but not a lot? (Your usually 100% male but sometimes fluctuating to be 70-90% male)
Can someone help me with this because I’m really confused and I’ve been trying to figure this out for a LONG TIME. So if anyone knows anything else I’d also appreciate it! Also I’ll give you how I feel about my gender below so if anyone can pinpoint it or can get closer to it they can!
Im born girl and im not transgender. I’ve considered it for a while but I don’t think I want to be transgender as I’m ok with my gender. I do not feel like I am truly a woman though. I’ve always felt more masculine my whole life, I spent more time with boys, I was doing more masculine things like finding bugs, being in the dirt, being dirty, ect. Now as a child I also liked girly things aswell but was more male oriented. And over the years I fluctuated between being more girl than guy but was more so a tomboy then. Now I feel almost equal parts of each? If not like 30-50 fem / 70-50 male. I do think sometimes it fluctuates but to like the degrees I put, as I still do feel masculine. Now I’ve never fully felt feminine either? I’ve felt like for some reason I was supposed to be born a man but was put into a woman’s body? And for that I do think I identify as Bigender.
I think that’s it but if you can help I’d appreciate it a TONE! :3
Gender Help
So I'm demigirl (for those unaware, it's where your gender is part girl, part something else. For me it's part nonbinary). And I get gender dysphoria. Specifically around my boobs.
I'm a C cup. Not large, I know. But I've been thin all my life, so when my boobs came in...they came in sized for the wrong body. I'm already saving for a breast reduction so I can go down to a A or B
So I get anywhere from general discomfort to wrong bad wrong with my chest, especially around the bounce and size. I wear high-impact sports bras all the time. Have for a...year now?
But those bras have limitations.
I can't wear tank tops (the straps show), I can't wear certain dresses. God help me when it comes time for Fancy Dress Day (aka prom). Swimming is...annoying (why can't I find supportive swimware). I also wear my bras so much they're...starting to strech out. I also sweat a lot in the summer because of how thick the fabric is.
and so recently, I've been looking into tape. I don't need to be fully flat, I just need to Lessen the Boob.
But I can not, and I mean CAN NOT, find tape guides for people that need both minimization and support.
So, I'm reaching out to tumblr. Someone has to have ideas, right?
this may be a dumb question, but if someone is queer what does that mean? are they into anyone (nbs, woman, men, ect) or like just don't have a label for their sexuality?
there's no such thing as a dumb question! if their sexuality is queer, you'd be correct that it means they typically don't have a label for their sexuality. basically, queer is an umbrella term that rejects labels, and it's always usually used when someone feels like any of the other labels don't fit them. sometimes people use it to describe their gender identity, too!
idk not sneeze stuff but j a question to the crowd
for any trans people out there or ig cis people too: what made it clear that you weren’t comfortable (or vice versa you WERE comfortable) in your own skin and you needed the gender change (or didn’t)?
i apologize for how crude this sounds but i’ve been having ig dysphoria? (does it really count as dysphoria? what constitutes dysphoria?) about gender (im female) and i just. dunno.
i don’t want to be a male? but i don’t feel good about being a female? and im just so yuck when thinking about me as a person and it kinda makes my brain go poop.
it’s just a general icky topic for me and idk how to get myself out of the funk so i turn to the resident tumblrsians(?) for help
this can’t be my midlife crisis bro

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hi! i had a question about pronouns. i've never written a character with 'she/they' pronouns and i want to do it justice and not like... write something wrong.
do i just use 'they/them' or am i allowed to use some 'she/her' in there as well? i'm super new to this, and i'm trying to step out of my comfort zone and play different characters with different pronouns and i'm worried about messing something up since i'm not familiar with that. i tried googling it, but there was nothing concrete. thank you for your time and i hope you're having a great day!
hi! this is such a great question. as someone that has years of experience writing characters with both sets of pronouns (and when i was sorting out my own identity by having those pronouns myself), it means a character is comfortable with both and you don't have to solely use one or the other, unless the character has a specific preference. you can use both she/her and they/them interchangeably. just keep in mind to be respectful of the character's identity and don't use she/her more over they/them if they have no specific preference. when you do that, it can come off as misgendering and it's not a great look to have. i would also take care to make sure that you don't use gendered terms when referring to them, such as: girlfriend, wife, girl, woman, female, etc., unless they don't mind gendered terms. everyone is different at the end of the day! if you have any more questions, just lmk. <3
is there a gender where like ur a boy who sometimes wants to be a girl but it doesn't define as like "boy who also feels like a girl constantly!" like it's just a sometimes thing and not necessarily a girl per-say but feminine in a girly nature but yk not the gender girl
does this eben make sense
drag queen but actually i go by they/them when i wear makeup and a wig in baggy clothes and out of drag i go by he/him and present masculine what is that