#radqueer neutral

i made this little drawing last night!!! i haven't drawn in forever, but it's so fun!! i need to draw more!! :D

 ⋆ names˳ ☆ mabel﹐rosie﹐pippa﹐maisie﹐misty

 ⋆ pronouns˳ ☆ she﹐oink﹐pink﹐pig﹐hoof﹐snort

 ⋆ role˳ ☆ hobby do-er

 ⋆ names˳ ☆ simon﹐trever﹐buck﹐rusty﹐cliff

 ⋆ pronouns˳ ☆ he﹐brown﹐moo﹐spot﹐hay

 ⋆ role˳ ☆ awkwardness holder

 ⋆ names˳ ☆ mimi﹐cindy﹐belle﹐eve﹐mira

 ⋆ pronouns˳ ☆ she﹐lamb﹐baa﹐cotton﹐wool

 ⋆ role˳ ☆ self-awareness holder

 ⋆ names˳ ☆ wyatt﹐clark﹐nugget﹐pablo﹐ronnie

 ⋆ pronouns˳ ☆ he﹐cluck﹐seed﹐egg﹐feather

[pt. Ex Anti-Radqueer /pt end]

a flag for former anti-radqueers. Can be used by both radqueers, rq-adjacents, fleuraisons, fleur-adjacents, rq-neutrals, and other non-radqueers, as long as you aren't anti.

Made this since the other ex-anti flag was intended for radqueers only.

Feel free to add image descriptions. They take too much energy for us to do.

something that drives me crazy in the pro-para community is the amount of radqueers that are "pro-contact" or "pro-consent"

I'm not radqueer myself. I'm actually very critical of the community at large. Because of how contradictory the radqueer community itself tends to be, I'm very skeptical of it, but I won't immediately judge anybody who consider themselves under that label. I have seen radqueers who are full on xenosatanists, and radqueers who stand against harm and ableism in the community, while overall being fairly harmless. So I tend to judge radqueers more on an individual basis. But anyways.

I don't know how much clearer I have to be about this.

The big three CANNOT consent.

Animals, dead people and children are incapable of consent. That is why they are the big three. It's not like having an ageplay fetish where you can practice it with a consenting partner. There is no such thing as safe or consensual contact with any of the big three because they do not have the ability to give proper consent, period the end. Any sort of sexual contact with any of them will ALWAYS be abuse, no matter how you phrase it, and the paraphile community as a whole needs to stop treating contact stances like something you can just agree to disagree on. Because what is there to disagree with? Not abusing children/animals/corpses?

I'm very pro para. I'm a big three paraphile myself (not disclosing which one, simply for my own comfort). But I will never advocate for any sort of contact with the big three. The pro-para movement is all about destigmatizing paraphilic attraction, and treating paraphiles (most notably big three paraphiles) like human beings. Because they are. Nobody chooses what they are attracted to, and allowing paraphiles to be open about their experiences with their attraction without fear of persecution, imprisonment or even significant bodily harm actually reduces the risk of harm. Attraction doesn't go away with shame. It only represses the attraction further, and as we all know, repression makes things a MILLION times worse.

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[ this post is written by anti-radqueers and radqueers, there is no bias here due to that. tags are for spreadablity only. ]

So what are radqueers even? You may have heard positive or negative things about them. With the misinformation social media spreads, who can you even trust?

A radqueer, also known as radically queer, is a stance community regarding multiple stances. Radqueers are pro: transIDs, paraphilas, Medically Unrecognized Disorders, all forms of plurality, alterhumanity, condictory identities, LBGTQ+, bodily autonomy, freedom in fiction, ships, and more.

Radqueers are also always anti on nonconsensual harassment/abuse/neglect and anything nonconsensual.

Contact stance can be anything and being radqueer isn't about your contact stance as well. Radqueers have the stance of "live and let live" to explain it simply.

There's many misconceptions about the radqueer community, and here's some that others wanted to point out.

1. Radqueers are apart of a cult

Radqueers aren't a cult because they lack the defining features of a cult and therefore aren't considered a cult.

2. Radqueers are predators/dangerous

Radqueers are strictly against nonconsenual actions. This means that they cannot be dangerous or predators. If one claims to be radqueer and is a cispredator, they aren't radqueer.

3. Radqueers believe that paraphilas are apart of the LBGTQ+

This differs per radqueer. No two are the same. However, the reasoning why some view paraphilas apart of the LBGTQ+ is because they are both heavily discriminated against.

4. Radqueers are pro-abuse

Radqueers are not pro nonconsensual abuse and are strictly against it. This also goes against what they stand for.

5. All radqueers are edgy 14 year olds

Believe it or not, a lot of the radqueer community are adults. However, there are many minors as well, the reason of being radqueer isn't behind being 'edgy'.

6. All radqueers are white people who want to be transblack to say the n word

Radqueers can be any race and ethnicity. You can look at many radqueer blogs and find that there are more races than only white individuals. Those who identify as transblack are respectful towards black culture and don't identify as it to say the n word. It's encouraged to ask transblack individuals this respectfully and it is never the reason.

7. Transharmful individuals and transnazi individuals agree with harmful/nazi ideology

If one did agree with nazi ideology, they would be cisnazi, not transnazi. Moreover, cisnazis aren't apart of the radqueer community. Transharmful individuals typically don't agree with harmful ideology, and if they do decide to transition, they consensually do so.

7. Radqueers use terms such as MAP to invade queer spaces and prey on children

MAP was coined as an umbrella term for those attracted to minors. This does not mean that they support child abuse nor predators and are actively against it.

8. Paraphilas are inheritently harmful and radqueers support that