I find it so wild to see a ton of pro endos who are paramisic......
We're a system who developed headmates due to paraphillias!! We have headmates who are endogenic in origin who have paraphillias!!!!!
It's just....... how can you say you support ALL system origins while also.... being paramisic......
It feels impossible to find a safe space to talk about our experiences as a sytem with a ton of paraphillic headmates πππ
And unfortunately, a lot of those "safe spaces" turn out to be radqueer πππ
This is paramisia and endopluralphobia.
I need people to understand that paramisia can also intersect with any other type of discrimination.
You cannot claim to be safe for a marginalized group if you're also paramisic, because then you're ignoring the demographic of people who experience a unique axis of oppression based on their attraction/arousal + whatever other trait they have (ie; Black paraphiles are more likely to be framed as "more aggressive" or "more perverted" because their sexualities are already marginalized on basis of being Black, so being kinky or having a demonized paraphilia will just exacerbate that viewpoint.)
