How do you think Jon Snow's and Dany's personnalities correlate to each other ? (In a good or bad way)
Extraverted Feeling (Fe)/ Dany Targaryen v. Introverted Feeling (Fi) Jon Snow
I don’t know about good or bad, but I love it because they show the perfect example of dominant Fe versus dominant Fi. It is why it kills me when people say Dany has dominant Fi or strong Fi, because she is such Fe which is VERY apparent when contrasted with Jon’s Fi.
We see their contrast in how they come to power and how they try to convince each other to their causes. Throughout the series Dany focuses on people and societies as a whole. She works heavily with diplomacy and the ideas/concepts of humanity. She isn’t actually great with dealing with individuals. She deals in societal standards and keeping order. She often needs to consult others in order to get a feel for a situation, to see how her ideas will be received and perceived. As much as she wants to change things for society she still believes in the order of society and lives to uphold and implement those social standards. She is open to learning about other cultures and how they work, and plays by their rules in order to beat them. We see this in how she acquires her major armies.
Meanwhile, Jon Snow often disregards these niceties with his blunter version of Feeling, Fi. He always lets his moral compass lead him. Always putting himself on the line for what he thinks is right to a fault. He doesn’t play by the same social rules that Dany does. This sense of right and mercy is what led to his death. While Dany will make choices and may be deceitful for the good of peoples as a whole, Jon Snow sticks to his inner moral code no matter what. Most evident in the last episode in his speech about truth. He isn’t about the social and political games that Dany, Cersei, and the rest play. His Fi pushes him towards authentic and honest showing of feelings over decorum.
The Fe/Fi difference is apparent in their first meeting. Dany uses titles and social relationships, showing of allies, etc. in order to convince Jon Snow to join her. Jon Snow uses his truth, the merit that his cause is a good one. Neither speaks the other’s Feeling language. Hence, we see their arguments fly over the other. Dany wonders what social credentials Jon Snow has to speak to her as she does and Jon Snow could give two shits about titles. He cares more about acts of kindness he sees, he cares about authentic social acts.
This is why as much as these two have in common and would totally love each other, they don’t get each other right away. Not until they spend more time together and see each other do they understand one another and their perspectives. We see Jon come to a liking to her through her actions of letting him mine and most of all when she took her dragons North. We see Dany come to appreciate Jon when she sees the social admiration Jon has built and how much he cares for his people.
