#eska

suyin is dominant dominant. perhaps even the most dominant one out of this whole list. she has a very clear understanding of what she wants and how she wants it, and so, although she's quite good at wording her commands to resemble requests, their nature remains unchanged—she does, at the end of the day, expect her lover to follow through with them. she is benevolent—she's not unreasonable in her demands, and she neither stifling nor restrictive, but a benevolent matriarch is a matriarch nonetheless: for the weight of the responsibility she bears, she is to be paid back in compliance. otherwise, i imagine su as pretty pleased at the domestic displays of a somewhat subservient affection, like having her shoulders rubbed after a hard day of politicking or having her lover perched on her lap while she reclines in her vaguely throne-inspired seat at the head of the table. also she's a bit too into her motherhood, as i've alluded to before. that's how she heals her mother wound, okay?

kuvira prior to her earth empire exploits is somewhat light-headed from the feeling of power; kuvira as the great uniter is intoxicated by it. what she wants is a bootlicking, literal and metaphorical, and so the ordeal is bound to be humiliating for whoever it is she makes the object of her affections. the humiliation isn't a side dish; it's the whole point. the power difference is also soothing to her in providing a certain emotional distance: she dislikes viewing herself as emotionally impacted, unreliable in her need for affection, and by positioning herself as above you, she can conceptualize an otherwise vulnerable act of intimacy as a rightful ego trip, just another reminder of her legitimate status as a leader. she's the only one willing and able to make the tough calls; this is a service to her, no strings attached. kuvira after the earth empire is trying to reconcile her need for the comfort of power with her need for genuine love and affection, which means bridging the gap and letting some of her guard down. whether that results in a dynamic shift or a balance is anyone's guess. her progress isn't linear.

eska is domineering, but even naming her as that feels redundant: her being domineering is like wind swirling up in the sky or tides lapping up at the shore. it's natural. there's no conversation to be had about it. she rules because she was born with the divine right of ruling. there's a hierarchy here; she's at the top of it. she's unorthodox in her affection, more likely to bite and to lick than she is to kiss, and she likes getting a rise out of her lover, a complement to her permanent ennui. thus, anything is on the table. it's fun to see you eager to get her off; it's fun to have you squirm as she gets you off. it's fun to torture you for a bit and for neither of you to get off. she likes her lovers a little bit pathetic, willing to stomach the humiliation she perceives as part and parcel of being loved by her, and nowhere is that clearer than in the bedroom.

Eska

Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you.. Eska didn't learn a damn thing from her last relationship. At least- for the most part she didn't, she's less willing to get married or engaged so quick now at least, partially also because she's one of the Co-Chiefs of the Northern Water Tribe now but also just because she isn't stupid enough to make the same mistake twice.

Even if you aren't to expect anything like her offering overly romantic dinner displays or to cuddle as you two read a book or anything, she certainly does feel a strong amount of affection for you. This is displayed in her dragging you around with her a lot, she likes to spend time with you, plus she just likes to make sure your safe.

Gifts are also something she's rather strong on, she really isn't going broke anytime soon so expect your bedroom to be lined with stuffed animals, jewlery, expensive fragrances, among many other frivolous things that you might expect to recieve.

She's rather adamant on you adjusting to her and her country's aesthetics if your not from there, if you are then you'll still be adjusted some.. Since yknow, you're hanging out with royalty now, she can't have you looking lower class now.

Even though she isn't the most physically affectionate person she will always tolerate it, even sort of likes it sometimes.. Stuff like having an arm wrapped around her arm, or being clung to in general since it makes her feel valuable.. Liked. In night she might reciprocate, hold on tight and refuse to let go.

Even if she didn't learn much though she does do less dramatic things to you, no making you bow or anything.. She just sorta grew out of that.

Desna

Desna is a very calm to have boyfriend, he's rather low fuss comparative to his sister but that doesn't mean he does nothing or anything.. The two just have different styles in expressing their affection for the most part, with Desna being more traditionally good at relationships than her..

Well comparative to her at least, he's still not the cande-lit dinner type too, you can't say he's fully normal with relationships flat. Desna is a fan of going out with you just to look without explicit purpose, he likes spending quite a bit of his time just existing and appreciating that he can do just that. And he likes you existing too, so now you're included on this little hobby.

He does gift giving too though, moreso stuff like clothes and things he remembered hearing you say you want or needed- he has an amazing memory for stuff like that. Also likes to hand make things sometimes if he knows how to, then it feels more thoughtfull based off what he feels and heard.

He also likes things like shared spa activities and whatnot? Odd to mention but he just really enjoys feeling clean, can't stand being dirty at all and that sort of transfers onto you, even if he isn't one to nag or anything like that over it. All this special treatment keeps his skin soft.

Oh another thing, (and this applies for Eska too) he will absolutely and without hesitation leave you if he senses his sister hates you or if you are mean to her, won't be shocked if she isn't the biggest fan at first (since she likely won't) but if she like actually hates you? You're out of here. If you aren't good to Eska? You're gone. You are high value to him but at the end of the day the twins matter a lot to eachother.