#didcringe

Their reply was removed. Luckily, you can still find it on their profile.

Remember, sharing you have a disorder is against the rules of the r/systemscringe subreddit.

(u/Bugzxvi was also the author of this misinformation post about endogenic systems on r/DIDcringe a few weeks ago.)

I really don't know what OP expected. 🤷‍♀️

I don't support fakeclaiming, but it's also really hard to feel an ounce of sympathy when they're engaging with the hate.

I've been seeing lots of people claiming to have traumagenic and endogenic alters as a way to justify endogenics existence when that quite literally is the POINT of DID/OSDD.

Have Apparently Normal Parts(ANP) is supposed to help you look "normal" and "functional" despite what you've been through. This is a covert disorder, and having alters that don't remember or connect with negative aspects of your life is literally the point.

Before you come at me with guns blazing let me explain my stance here. I believe some gatekeeping in some communities is not just beneficial, but needed. Specifically in mental health spaces, and some identity-specific spaces.

In the DID/OSDD-1/”Plural” community ,Which I am technically a part of, I’m not a singlet but I prefer fuctioning as one singular person, if I can, I see terms like “gatekeeping” and “sysmed” thrown around a lot, and I have very mixed opinions on this. While one may never know if another person is faking for sure, gatekeeping can be beneficial to keep the wrong people out. If you dont have trauma you don’t belong in traumagenic system’s spaces, period fucking dot. Get the fuck out. Nobody cares that you feel excluded, its an exclusive space for a reason, to get away from people who fake, romanticize and otherwise shit all over the disorder. Its also just so people will get to talk to others with same or similar experiences, people they can relate to. 

In trans communities, if its a dysphoric only space, don’t fucking whine and scream transmedicalism just because people want an exclusive space to talk about their fucking experiences, not everybody who disagrees with you is out to get you, and even if some people are hateful, not all are. If people want an exclusive space they can have it. 

Gatekeeping isnt always bad because it 

1.keeps the nasties out

2. lets people have exclusive spaces

r/DIDCringe is off of private again for whatever reason. Kinda saw it coming that they were just going on private for the short run until the “flack” died down.

For those that weren’t around for the first time they were up, they have zero intention or care for the harm they might be doing and aren’t open for discussion as I and a few other users had already tried.

Stay safe guys. I don’t really have the energy or mental state currently to deal with it or try to address it personally, but stay safe y’all