#confidencebuilding

spookylilash

Hey you with the belly, you that’s gained some weight recently, you that’s struggling with your body….

Just because we gained weight doesn’t mean our life is over. It doesn’t mean our bodies aren’t beautiful. It doesn’t mean we have to settle.

Years ago I gained 80lbs and three dress sizes…because I was finally happy. I got out of a terrible relationship. I stopped harmful ED behavior. I was and am happier than I ever was when I was at my thinnest. And I love my body more now than I ever have. Every curve, every roll, every jiggle.

April Days of Productivity, Day 26

Started reading Solaris by Stanisław Lem

My chud ass photo dump 🥹

THANK YOU @mymagic8ball for being my 300th Tumblr follower OMG!

♡WELCOME!♡

And to everyone else here on my page, all 300; I hope my page makes you feel whimsy and confident.

I have always wanted to be the person who can show the positive on a dull day. My posts, my music, my goals all centre around the idea that you can be whoever and whatever you want to be, no matter if it's difficult. You have the capability to learn how to be the best version of you, whatever that looks like for you. But first, you need that self love.

You deserve to know you are precious and you are valid. You deserve to speak kindly to yourself. You deserve to give yourself a chance to be who you want, achieve what you want. Once you tart prioritising yourself truly, it all comes together. AND, the best thing about all this, is you can start whenever. You don't need to have it all figured out right now. No matter your age, gender, where you are from. You just need to start, step by step. :)

You've got this.

Self Love/Confidence Boost

I want you to know something:

I'm hot, I'm cute, I'm so fucking attractive, I'm the main character of my life and everyone's naturally drawn to me. I exude confidence because I'm sure of myself, I know who I am and I love who I am.

I'm focused, I'm calm, I'm present. I'm genuinely interested in others and they're as interested in me. I have my life together, and the universe will bring me anything else I might need.

EN/AN

Hi hello!

I wanted to spread some body acceptance/positivity/neutrality today with this little doodle page of my little Mily.

She may be a chubby lady but it’s quite common to see her working out for a several hours (not like an insane amount, just some walking/running, light lifting and stretching while listening to some music, watching her favorite show/movie or outside under the sun).

She’s not doing this to lose weight, she knows she perfectly healthy. She just loves working out, it makes her happy and it helps her stay healthy which makes her feel even better. Plus, if she’s feeling peckish after a long session you bet she’s going to treat herself with her favorite meal. Loving her body and prioritizing her health (well balanced diet, regular exercise and good sleeping schedules) helped boosting her confidence and self-love as she grew up.

Like Mily, even when you doubt, love yourself, take care of yourself, stay healthy and do what you love!

Hope you enjoy 😊.

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Yo!

J’avais envie de diffuser un peu de body acceptance/positivity/neutrality avec cette petite page de ma petite Mily.

Elle est peut-être rondouillarde mais il n’est pas rare de la voire faire du sport pendant plusieurs heures (rien de super intense, juste un peu de course/marche, un peu de lifting et des étirements en écoutant de la musique, en regardants son film/sa série préférée ou dehors sous le soleil).

Elle ne fais pas ça pour perdre du poids ! Elle sais qu’elle est en bonne santé. C’est juste que ça lui plaît, ça la rend heureuse et ça lui permet de rester en bonne santé ce qui la rend encore plus heureuse. Et si sa gourmandise la rappelle à l’ordre, il est fort à parié qu’elle va se faire plaisir avec son plat préféré après une longue session. Apprendre à aimer son corps ainsi et à mettre en avant son bien-être avant les apparences (dormir suffisamment, manger équilibré et faire régulièrement de l’exercice), lui a aussi apprit s’aimer et à booster sa confiance en elle.

Comme Mily, même quand vous doutez, faites-vous plaisir, prenez soins de vous et de votre corps, soyez vous-même et faites ce que vous aimez !

One of the cruellest things workplace emotional harm can take is confidence.

Not loudly.

Quietly.

Until one day, someone who used to feel capable starts doubting every email, every decision, every interaction.

You may have told yourself:

“I’ve changed.”

“I’m just not good at this anymore.”

“What’s wrong with me?”

But confidence often struggles to survive in environments that feel unsafe, unpredictable or relentlessly critical.

If this happened to you:

You are not weak.

You are not broken.

And losing confidence does not mean you lost yourself forever.

Sometimes healing begins with understanding why confidence left in the first place.