#borderfluid

A gender for people who are bordergender/borderfluid and who reclaim the word yandere

icon id: 6 icons in 3 pairs. in each pair, both icons have the listed flags in order in the background and the left icon has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

Baikinman from Soreike! Anpanman is an enbian diamoric bacteriagender narkissigender daegender mischiefgender clowngender egogender pyrogender caelgender astralgender boggender being who uses he/him, vi/lai, vi/vir, and ha/no pronouns, and ha made up the last set haself!

Dokin-chan is a flamfemme enbian diamoric borderfluid histrigender princessgender lunadarian helidarian overfemme altexoy altexirl loverboy femache who uses she/her, luv/luvs, let's/go/girlself, and love/struck pronouns, and let's made up the last two sets lovestruckself!

Horrorman is an enbian diamoric apangender gendermeh fatugender egogender cassgender genderwhatever genderblank gendermaybe maybinary skeleton who uses he/him pronouns only out of apathy!

The three are in a queerplatonic diamoric polycule!

Neurogenders are important labels that help many people describe themselves!

Neurogenders are not ableist, quite the opposite!

omg why does it look like that?

!Disclaimer! I don't hold BPD symptoms in the system but I'll do it because our system has BPD. If anyone who experiences BPD is offended by what I create feel free to tell me off and fix it.

[Gem - ee - krom - ey - IK]

A colourgender defined by black and white, absence of colour, & black-and-white feelings/view of your own dysphoria and euphoria. Often tied to feeling empty and forlorn, greys, blacks, sepia, and feelings of disconnect from human binary in favor of your self-made binary. Can also be  defined by impressionable gender presentation, switching between singular presentations depending on your surroundings or people around you. 

[Created with personal ties to my BPD, however it is not closed or a neurogender. Version with and without the colour wheel] 

[Image Description: A flag with thirteen horizontal stripes. The first and last lines are larger wider than the middle lines. From top to bottom, the colours of the lines are: grey, dark grey, light grey, white, black, dark grey, medium grey, dark grey, black, white, light grey, dark grey, grey. There is a faded colour wheel in the center with all ROYGBIV colours. The second image is the same flag with exact same line structure, but lacking the colour wheel. End ID.] 

Here’s the original! Couldn’t find who originally designed it! If you know tell me and i’ll link them!

Bordergender / Borderfluid flag

(A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. 

here’s some that might work for you!

Rencgender: A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.

Bordergender / Borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.

Exagender: A gender for use by people with Borderline Personality Disorder. It is influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of their gender.

Alexigender: A term for when you are unable to describe your gender due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer, for example. Alexigender can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone.

Mistigender: A gender that’s like mist or fog, and when you try to grab at it (think of it, describe it) it just… slips through your hands, and it only comes back after you stop trying to grab at it.

Vaguegender / Gendervague: A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence.