Are there any genders along the lines of "can't tell what their gender is due to weak identity/sense of self"? Preferably a neurogender (bpd or depression)
here’s some that might work for you!
Rencgender: A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.
Bordergender / Borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.
Exagender: A gender for use by people with Borderline Personality Disorder. It is influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of their gender.
Alexigender: A term for when you are unable to describe your gender due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer, for example. Alexigender can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone.
Mistigender: A gender that’s like mist or fog, and when you try to grab at it (think of it, describe it) it just… slips through your hands, and it only comes back after you stop trying to grab at it.
Vaguegender / Gendervague: A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence.
Foggender: A gender which is close to a certain gender, but cannot be directly pinpointed due to brainfog (a lack of concentration or wakefulness associated with ADHD, fibromyalgia, depression, etc.). Can be combined with relevant genders.
