#pendogender

eyestrain flag edits forr:

particlegender

pendogender

pinatic

realityglitchic

IDs to be added

particlegender, pendogender and realityglitchic non-eyestrain flag edits!

I could not for the life of me find pinatic Im so sorry, also sorry if the flag for particlegender is wrong the only source I could find for it was a comment on a subreddit thread

Neurogenders are important labels that help many people describe themselves!

Neurogenders are not ableist, quite the opposite!

pen/pend

Volley from ENA is an aethergender glitchgender pendogender fractalqueer proxvirflux girl with OCD who uses it/its, she/her, and zey/zem pronouns; Rubik is a roinpergender trans man with AVPD who uses he/him pronouns only; and Brick Frog is a staticgender analogender agendervir boy who uses it/its and he/him pronouns!

Pendogender folks are perfect!

Pendogender: never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits, usually due to self-doubt. This causes one to compulsively seek out something that fits better. This can also be called gender perfectionism. This gender is for neurodivergents only and was coined with anxiety disorders, OCD and OCPD in mind.

quite a few!

Pendogender: “Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people only, specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.

Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.

Kynigender: A gender which is not able to be pinpointed due to the stress of the questioning process causing anxiety.

Genderinimicus: A sentiogender which describes a gender experience that cannot be fully felt/comprehended/understood because each time one attempts to mediate on their gender and determine what it does or does not entail/encompass, they feel a great sense of unease or anxiety, they begin to panic, or they become greatly distressed/distraught (including feelings of anger/frustration/despair) over not being able to make the determination. Note that this is not a distress that comes solely from uncertainty, but is a gender experience that necessarily involves an anxious/panicked/distressed sense of one’s own gender. The experiencer is therefore at odds with their gender, and this is the only thing they can know for certain, even if they can approximate what else their gender encompasses. This is dissimilar to questioning or quoigender because it necessarily entails a dissatisfaction with one’s inability to fully grasp their gender. It is NOT just “IDK my gender” or “my gender is IDK”; it’s “I’m disappointed that I don’t know my gender because some emotional barrier is in the way, but I’d still like a term that describes that experience.”

Varumgender / Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.