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If you don't know what you want, don't sat you never had a chance. The people who complain the loudest about never having an opportunity in life are usually the ones who always have a ready excuse for their failures. Nothing is ever their fault; they are victims of their heritage, their environment, insufficient education, or any number of other factors that they perceive as placing them at a disadvantage. If you look hard enough, you can always find reasons for not attempting something or not sticking with the job to the end.   Successful people, though, are not excuse-makers. They take responsibility for their achievement. Where others see despair, they see hope. They approach every situation with enthusiasm, confident in the knowledge that nothing is impossible for those who have Positive Mental Attitude.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

A bull may have good qualities, but you will never bring them out by waving a red flag in his face. Arousing others is easy - if you don't care what kid of action you inspire. If you wish to create a positive response in others, you do so by example and through the art of gentle persuasion, not by daring them to attack. When you work with others, concentrate on their positive attributes, not on the things they dislike or fear. When you take the time to get to know your associates, to learn about their hopes, dreams, and aspirations, you can determined what motivates them. You can then show them how they can align their goals with yours to work together for your mutual advantage.   When you do, everybody wins.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Don't blame children who are bad. Blame those who failed to discipline them. Ralph Waldo Emerson once observed, "Our chief want in life is somebody who will make us do what we can." Although children doubtless do not recognise it at the time, they crave discipline, particularly during their formative years. Discipline defines boundaries for them, provides security, and is an active expression of a parent's love. Most important, it prepares them for the challenges of adulthood. If your childhood was less than perfect, you are in good company. Most of us have experienced difficulties at on time or another, and we all make mistakes from time to time. The good news is that while your environment as a child will have a profound influence upon the person you become, it is not the sole determinant. The person you choose to be is entirely up to you. Only you can decide who and what you will become in life.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Don't blame children who are bad. Blame those who failed to discipline them. Ralph Waldo Emerson once observed, "Our chief want in life is somebody who will make us do what we can." Although children doubtless do not recognise it at the time, they crave discipline, particularly during their formative years. Discipline defines boundaries for them, provides security, and is an active expression of a parent's love. Most important, it prepares them for the challenges of adulthood. If your childhood was less than perfect, you are in good company. Most of us have experienced difficulties at on time or another, and we all make mistakes from time to time. The good news is that while your environment as a child will have a profound influence upon the person you become, it is not the sole determinant. The person you choose to be is entirely up to you. Only you can decide who and what you will become in life.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Don't blame children who are bad. Blame those who failed to discipline them. Ralph Waldo Emerson once observed, "Our chief want in life is somebody who will make us do what we can." Although children doubtless do not recognise it at the time, they crave discipline, particularly during their formative years. Discipline defines boundaries for them, provides security, and is an active expression of a parent's love. Most important, it prepares them for the challenges of adulthood. If your childhood was less than perfect, you are in good company. Most of us have experienced difficulties at on time or another, and we all make mistakes from time to time. The good news is that while your environment as a child will have a profound influence upon the person you become, it is not the sole determinant. The person you choose to be is entirely up to you. Only you can decide who and what you will become in life.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Isn't it peculiar that some people are so clever at inviting alibis and so dull at doing the job that would make alibis useless? If folks did their jobs with half the effort and creativity they waste in in a vain attempt to deceive others, they could achieve great success at anything. It is tempting at times to emulate those who seemingly get by without working very hard, but those who cheat the company by not doing what they are paid to do will eventually pay the price: their reputation. The value of a reputation for honesty and integrity is the difference between a career filled with promise and a life of failure.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

A little job well done is the first step toward a bigger one.   Success is more of a process than an event. Great success is achieves after a long string of small successes. Most of is earn our stripes one step at a time, and we work our way up through the ranks. When we begin our careers, we are given assignments that are commensurate with our skill and experience. As we prove our worth to the organisation, we are gradually entrusted with more responsibility and increasingly larger projects.   As you assume responsibility for one position, do so with an eye toward the next one. Do your absolute best every day in your job (or your business, your craft), but always plan for the future.   View each day as an opportunity to learn something that will make you more valuable to the company/ organisation so that when the time arrives for promotions, your name will be the first on that comes to your boss's mind.   Peace&Love Miti Read the full article

Those who will not take a chance seldom have one thrust upon them.   Success always involves risk. You must take a chance by investing your time, and effort. It pays to be thoughtful and deliberate in your analyses of opportunities, but don't let timidity hold you back. Because you have worked hard to develop those things you must risk, it is natural for you to place a high value on them. But what use are they if you do not put them to use? You will recognise opportunity only to the extent that you are willing to consider risking your time, money, and effort. Being confident gives you the courage to face risk and act when opportunity arises, no one on earth is going to force success upon you; you will find it only to the degree that you actively seek it out.   Peace&Love, Miti Read the full article