#becoming

There are some political victories that do not stay inside city limits. Harvey Milk’s 1977 election to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors was one of them. On paper, it was a local race. One seat. One district. One city already carrying the reputation of being a refuge for people who had been told, in one way or another, to disappear. But that is the lazy version of the story. The deeper…

And that’s the tragedy of it.

You can heal.

You can grow.

You can become softer, wiser, kinder.

But none of it matters if they’ve already decided who you are..

So they kept talking to the ghost.

How do you treat diabetes insipidus?

As an American girl, I've seen too many times women who would say something like this and think the answer is yes - I'm scared. I found this question in a Reddit post, and luckily, most of the comments seem to lean toward "no," but didn't explain much about the "why," so here I am.

PSA: I am no expert, just giving thoughts and examples I found.

For a solid reference (and I will make this clearer as this goes along), the more money a man has, the less it matters. Because of this, just focus on the amount of effort he puts into you.

First Ex: A few years ago a video blew up of a husband taking on two jobs and took on more task in the hours just so he could afforts beauty treatments for his wife allowing for her to relax (sorry I couldn't find the og video)

He has to take on two jobs so he likely wasn't the wealthiest man in the world, but he did earn more money so he could spend more on his wife? yes, BUT there was a lot of effort he put into her and that is what needs to be valued

Second Ex: The (TeshaNicole) situation - so at the beginning of the video (Tesha) describes how her than fiancée put so much money into her and her dream wedding. Her favorite venue, dress, and everything here heart desires. But guess what? HE WAS CHEATING ON HER. even invited his mistress to the wedding. Not only did he not love her, he IMBARRESSSED her. (There is more going on in the video, but i just wanted to use this to make my point)

Third Ex: Now, I don't have an actual media example, but I have my head, so here it is. My biggest trigger was hearing a woman say, "Oh, but he picked me up and prayed the whole bill, and brought me flowers. He must love me!" I never rolled my eyes so hard. Those 3 thing don't take much to think about + he was making above average (from what I could tell).

Say you are dating a multi-millionaire (he has 10 million in the bank) and he takes you shopping, or better yet, he gives you $200,000. Do you think that is impressive? Not really, when you find out that it's only 2% of what he has. Let me give you a smaller number: $1. Imagine having $1, giving someone 2 cents, and they think you love them because you spent 2 whole cents on them. Ridiculous right?

Let me also highlight that it doesn't take much to do this. Literally do thinking involved. He probably spent more on charity than he did for the 'women he loves.'

The Life You Want Requires the Courage You Avoid

Dreams don’t stay distant because they’re impossible, they stay distant because they demand bravery. The conversations you delay, the choices you hesitate to make, the risks you soften… that’s where your next level lives. Courage isn’t loud confidence; it’s quiet action taken despite fear.

As the Metamorphosis coach, I help people face the moments they’ve been circling, because the life you want is built on the courage you practice, not the comfort you protect. When you meet fear with movement, everything begins to change.

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