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the day that ppl finally understand and accept that there are more relationship dynamics in the world then just, “friends”, “romantic partners”, and “siblings” is the day i finally fucking rest.
Being aroace as a teenager feels like being the only sober person at a rave.
I need everyone ever to start understanding that you can be very happy and fulfilled without a romantic or sexual partner STAT
demisexuality can be so hard to explain because it’s misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isn’t sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.
I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who aren’t experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because we’re taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.
And when you’re learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction aren’t necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.
But “I trust you enough to have sex with you” isn’t the same as “I’m not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason I’m sexually attracted to you now after we’ve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust we’ve been able to form”.
It’s easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if you’re unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But it’s important to acknowledge the difference between “no sex until I trust you” and “no sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even then”.
Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. It’s part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. It’s part of why the definition for asexuality includes “little to no sexual attraction”. It’s a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.
While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.
I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, it’s noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.
Remember, not everyone is demisexual. There’s a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.
But if you read what demisexuality is and think “everyone is like that” or “that’s just being a woman”, you either 1) are demisexual 2) don’t understand what it is or 3) both. And it’s okay to not know. Just as long as you’re willing to try to learn.
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ace culture is making a lot of sex jokes because it's hard for you to think of sex as anything but a punchline or narrative tool
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Happy International Asexuality Day (April 6th) to everyone who celebrates!
I've identified as asexual for around three years now, and it's been an important part of my identity and the way I see myself, so today feels very significant to me.
Asexuality is such a wide spectrum, and I'm so happy to be a part of a community so diverse and full of different kinds of people, all coming together under this one word.
Being asexual, of course, comes with its own unique challenges, but there's also a beauty in finding a label that you feel comfortable in, and a community you feel happy calling your home. To all who have found that in asexuality, I'm so happy that you're here, and remember to take care of yourself.
We are here, we are queer, and we aren't going anywhere anytime soon.
Happy International Asexuality Day, and may lots of garlic bread come your way.
honestly? i don’t want a romantic relationship. everything that supposedly comes with them - holding hands, cuddling, saying i love you, having a deep bond, etc - i already get in most of my friendships. and those really just sound like friendship to me. and the other things like kissing and sex and shit i dont really like. i’m pretty satisfied as i am, living as a single dude right now. i dont even feel attraction that much anyway. why bother?
