#arobi

The more they say “you're my best friend” the more it means

I say “You’re my best friend” and they say “you're so sweet” it feels like the same as “Im not into you, let's just say friends okay”

There is good and bad to feeling love to deep to the point there is in most cases no difference between how I feel about my close friends and how I feel about someone I'm dating

I know that telling them how I feel most of the time will get me hurt or get them hurt and I love them too much for that

I have found ways to tell them the intensity of my affection without telling them that in my mind no form of affection is strictly platonic or romantic

The only form of love that has limits is familial (duh)

I'm not sure if I grew up with an aromantic experience. I never was confused by the ideas of marriage or dating. I didn't always have to decide who I liked on a spinning wheel in my head.

I grew up bisexual and neglected lol. People were hot and I was (and am) chronically lonely.

I did not grow up feeling devoid, I was devout. And fucking disappointed by all the dates that never lived up to the dream I was "promised".

Romantic love was the religion I worshipped that was going to "fix me", but just like religion I don't need it to find meaning anymore, just like religion I simply grew out of it. I'm sure romance was real to me then, like any story I was told.

For individuals who are aromantic and bisexual!

VAMPIRE ARO BISEXUAL

For aromantic and bisexual individuals with connections to vampires, arobi individuals who are vampires, or anything similar!

The Rippingtons Jazz Cat!

@octever headcanons the Rippingtons Jazz Cat as arobi!