Just had to delete a reblog from a while back where I accidentally treated an aphobeโs diatribe as valid discourse about queer history.
They were mad about the hanky code and asexuals asking โwhich one is for us?โ and the answer is (well it depends on the specific act youโre seeking or not but generally)โฆ
Ace spec and arospec people would most likely put an orange hanky in their right hind jeans pocket to signal โnothing/not now.โ
๐๐ป We ๐๐ป Have ๐๐ป Always ๐๐ป Been ๐๐ป Here ๐๐ป
Always always always look things up for yourself. Assume everyone involved is wrong (including you). Why didnโt I just look up the hanky code? Because I assumed they were right, and that there was nothing for us, and that we had no business adopting the hanky code.
If I ever do that again somebody flog me my god.