#actually nb

I also think it's rly weird when ppl talk abt androgyny bc ppl always discuss it as an abstract concept cruelly inflicted upon them and not like real actually living people's gender and gender presentation? Like it's rly fucking dehumanizing to listen to ppl talk abt androgyny in this conceptual way that's caused them harm without any consideration for people who are androgynous who might be reading or listening, as if we just don't exist except as an idea to make them feel bad ig lol

The fact that ppl took "autigender," an nb gender designed to express how being autistic can fuck with your understanding of gender bc, shockingly, its largely just another confusing social construct and a lot of autistic ppl can be categorized as gnc (or are described that way by neurotypical/allos, esp because autism has specific gendered stereotypes to it), and made it "haha autism gender you wanna identify as an autism" is so ungodly ableist and nbphobic like nd/mi and nb ppl can't have jack fucking shit can they